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Page 1: Are You In The Zone?...Are You In The Zone? Social Awareness for the Socially Impaired Timothy P. Kowalski, M.A.,C.C.C. Professional Communication Services, Inc. 1401-A Edgewater Dr.“The

Are You In The Zone?Social Awareness for the Socially Impaired

Timothy P. Kowalski, M.A.,C.C.C.

Professional Communication Services, Inc.1401-A Edgewater Dr.

Orlando, FL 32804www.socialpragmatics.com

What’s the Zone?

Borrowing from a movie...

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“The Zone” is...

• a term used to describe what most people would expect to see in a given situation

• based on the idea that for any situation, a set of expectations has already been decided upon by a majority of individuals

Good social skills are seldom noticed

• we only pay attention to the “unusual” or “unexpected”

• Richard LaVoie calls this concept “Zero Order Skills”

• "skills that are only significant when they fail to exist"

When walking in a mall...

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But then you see...

What do YOU do?

No one enjoys going to the

dentist. But is THIS what you

expected?

We’ve all been “Out of the Zone” at times

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Ever been told your zipper is down?

But did you purposely

leave the house KNOWING it was down?

But say you’re on an Oprah show...

How do people see you?

Many people with AS are unaware how they are seen by others

?

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Surprise! People DO think about you

What the?

odd • weird • rude • foolish • unusual

Terms used to describe these individuals

Why do they act that way?

?

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Could it be a smaller brain mass?

Could it be Mirror Neurons?

Mirror Neurons: an accidental discovery

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Do mirror neurons impact individuals with AS?

?

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• EEG studies support the hypothesis of a dysfunctional mirror neuron system in high-functioning individuals with ASD Obermana, L., Hubbarda, E., McCleeryb, J., Altschulera, E., Ramachandrana, V.,

Pinedad, J., (2005). EEG evidence for mirror neuron dysfunction in autism spectrum disorders. Cognitive Brain Research. 24: 190-198

• mirror neurons necessary for normal development of recognition, imitation, theory of mind, empathy, and language Obermana, L. and Rmachandrana, V. (2007). The simulating social mind: The role of the mirror neuron system and simulation in the social and communicative deficits of autism spectrum disorders. Psychological Bulletin. 133: 310-327

Research supporting mirror neuron theory

• Research suggests that ASD is associated with altered patterns of brain activity during imitation, which could stem from poor integration between areas serving visual, motor, proprioceptive and emotional functions. Such poor integration is likely to adversely affect the development of ToM through imitation as well as other aspects of social cognitive function in ASD Williams, J., Waiter, G., Gilchrist, A, Perrett, D., Murray, A., and White, A. (2006). Neural mechanisms of imitation and ‘mirror neuron’ functioning in autistic spectrum disorder. Neuropsychologia. 44: 610-621

Face reading

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This guy’s face is hard to read

It’s also hard for him to “read” us

Can you decide how the person sitting next to you feels right now?

?

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Use a “camera”

But some people can’t

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ProsopagnosiaBarton, J., et al. (2004) Are patients with social developmental disorders prosopagnosic? Perceptual heterogeneity in the Asperger and socio-emotional processing disorders. Brain. 127: 1706-1716; Duchaine, B, Nieminen-von Wendt, T., New, J. and Kulomaki, T. (2003). Disocciations of visual recognition in a genetic prosopanosic: evidence for separate developmental processes. Neurocase. 9:380-389; Kracke, I. (1994). Developmental prosopagnosia in Asperger syndrome: presentation and discussion of an individual case. Developmental Medicine and Child Neurology. 36: 873-876.Nieminen-von Wendt, T. (2004). On the origins and diagnosis of Asperger syndrome: a clinical neuroimaging and genetic study. Academic dissertation., Medical Faculty. University of Helsinki. Njiokikrjien, C, et al. (2001) Disordered recognition of facial identity and emotions in three Asperger type autists. European Journal of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry. 10: 79-90.

• can’t read the face of others

• may focus only on individual components of the face

• may not realize one expression has multiple meanings

Yale Eye-Gaze Study

Feelings

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Can you decide how you feel right now?

?

But not everyone can

AlexythymiaBerthoz, S. and Hill, E (2005). The validity of using self-reports to assess emotion regulation abilities in adults with autism spectrum disorder. European Psychiatry. 20: 291-298; Nieminen-von Wendt, T. (2004). On teh origins and diagnosis of Asperger syndrome: a clinical neuroimaging and genetic study. Academic dissertation., Medical Faculty. University of Helsinki; Rastam, M., Gillberg, C., Gillberg, I. and Johansson, M. (1997). Alexithymia in anorexia nervosa: a controlled study using the 20-item Toronto Alexithymia Scale. Acta Psychiatrica Scandinavica. 95: 385-388; Tani, P. et al (2004). Asperger syndrome, alexityhmia and sleep. Neuropsychobiology. 49: 64-70.

• the inability to identify and describe feeling states

• can’t read emotions in others

• limited vocabulary to describe these states

• especially with subtle states

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How can we help these individuals develop this skill that the rest of us

simply take for granted?

?

That’s where “The Zone” can help

The circle is “The Zone”

It represents what most people expect to see at

that momentin time.

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The dot is the client

Ever overdress for a party?

Embarrassing, right?

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Being “Out of the Zone” is not where you want to be

Appropriate social skills require one to:

• realize a message comes in many forms

• identify when a message is being sent

• successfully decode the message

• produce an “action plan”

• implement the plan

• look for feedback to assess it’s “correctness”

• revise as necessary

Does this guy use these skills?

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But I don’t care!

Why is it important to care?

Individuals who recognized the need for improved social thinking

had higher salaries than those who didn’t recognize the need.

Howlin, P., Alcock, J., Burkin, C. (2005). An 8 year follow-up of a specialist supported employment service for high-ability adults with autism or Asperger syndrome. Autism 9: 533-549.

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Those lacking social cognition had less positive employment

experiences and showed more preference for solitary activities.

Jennes-Coussens, M., Magill-Evans, J., Koning, C. (2006). The quality of life of young men with Asperger syndrome: a brief report. Autism. 10: 403-414.

Outcome in AS was good in 27% of cases. However, 26% had a very

restricted life, with no occupation oractivity and no friends. Why?

Poor awareness of social thinking.

Cederlund, M., Hagberg, B., Billstedt, E., Gillberg, I. C., and Gillberg, C. (2007). Asperger Syndrome and Autism: A Comparative Longitudinal Follow-Up Study More than 5 Years after Original Diagnosis. Journal of Autism and Developmental Disorders.38: 72-85.

But I only want to talk about the things I like

...although some mammals do lay eggs. The duck billed, beaver tailed, otter-

footed platypus of Australia...

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Do teachers want the same things out of their students

as their students want from their peers?

?

NO

What’s important?

Teacher Viewpoint

turn taking

perspective taking

logical communication

clarification

Adolescent Viewpoint

nonverbal comprehension

perspective taking

vocal tone interpretation

What’s unimportant?Teacher Viewpoint

humor comprehension

slang usage

nonverbal comprehension

topic maintenance

Adolescent Viewpoint

eye contact

narrative

humor comprehension

topic maintenance

slang usage

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How often do we communicate?Yorkston, K., Eadie, T., Baylor, C., Deitz, J., Dudgeon, B., Miller, R., Amtmann, D. (2006)

Developing a Scale of Communicative Participation. ASHA 2006 Annual Convention. Miami Beach.

• 80% of waking hours are spent communicating

Listening

Speaking

Reading

Writing

High

Low

• our brain’s design makes it sociable

• it is drawn into a brain-to-brain linkup whenever we engage with another person

• this linkage allows me to affect you and you to affect me

Neuroscience discovered...

How can that be?

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Thank the amygdala

•Happiness •Surprise •Fear •Sadness •Disgust

Which of the 6 human feelings arouses the amygdala the most?

•Anger

What’s with the amygdala?

?

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The amygdala reads emotions

• elation in the tone of someone’s voice

• hint of anger around the eyes

• posture reflecting defeat

It then processes this information subliminally, beyond the reach of

conscious awareness

“When I wish to find out how good or how wicked anyone is, or what are his thoughts at the moment, I fashion the expression of my face, as accurately as possible, in accordance with the expression of his, and then wait to see what thoughts or sentiments arise in my own mind or heart, as if to match or correspond with the expression.”

...Edgar Allen Poem

The amygdala instantly recognizes the emotion we see in others

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• the stronger the emotion displayed, the more intense the amygdala’s reaction Whalen, P., Shin L., McInerney, S., Fischer, H., Wright, C.,Rauch, S. (2001). A functional MRI study of human amygdala responses to facial expressions of fear versus anger. 1: 70-83.

• when 2 people interact face-to-face, contagion spreads via multiple neural circuits within each person’s brain

Which picture causes you more reaction?

• the human brain has multiple mirror neuron systems used to:

• mirror actions

• read intentions

• read emotions

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Social skills depend on mirror neurons

How fast does our brain make a pro or con decision about another person?

1/20th of a second

We need Social Intelligence

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Back to this slide again

• realize a message comes in many forms

• identify when a message is being sent

• successfully decode the message

• produce an “action plan”

• implement the plan

• look for feedback to assess it’s “correctness”

• revise as necessary

Let’s return to “The Zone”

Ever feel out of place?

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You used mirror neurons to help you analyze the situation

Friends can help too

So can your eyes

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So, use your eyes, your amygdala, and your mirror neurons to decide if

you are “In the Zone”

Because you don’t want to be “Out of the Zone”

If you want more information,check out my books.

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Are you In The Zone?

Timothy P. KowalskiIllustrated by Laura S. Kowalski

Asperger Syndromeexpla

ined

Illustrated  by  Laura  S.  Kowalski

Timothy  P.  Kowalski

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Thank you for attending. My next presentation is“Managing the Emotional Roller Coaster of AS”Today, 11:00 am