coaching for expats and spouses
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Coaching for EXPATS and SPOUSES
What is missing, so you could conduct your LIFE at its MOST?
What is Coaching? u Human development process u Development of behavior competences
u It is not a therapy – Therapy: past present – Coaching: present future
u To reach your goals faster and with greater autonomy
u To have more saJsfacJon with your life
u Some people consider it a “badge of honor”
In which areas could it be applied?
u Work and Career u Family relaJonships u Social relaJonships u Love relaJonships u Health u Personal finance management u Spirituality u Intellectuality u Leisure Jme
How can a coach help me with?
u To reach a target, a goal
u To have a more interesJng, happier and useful life
u To solve an issue
u To deal with something that is limiJng your life saJsfacJon, even when you’re not sure what it is
u To get more self-‐knowledge and self-‐awareness
u To make a smooth transiJon aQer a big change in life (voluntary or not)
Note: as a subjecJve process, results cannot be guaranteed.
What maWers in this life is to learn how to WALK.
Expats
Certainly, the expatriaJon has some glamour. Few are those who are job expatriated, which is a sign of professional recogniJon. But there is the other side too. There is some uncertainty in how to deal with a new organizaJonal culture (even within the same company), in how (and if it is really needed) to adapt one’s own leadership style, in how to establish new relaJonships and develop new habits and behaviors. For the wife (nowadays most part of expats are men) could be harder than we acknowledge: many Jmes she leaves her job, has to organize everything for the family the fastest she can (house, services, school, doctors, etc), stays alone the whole day, does not have their friends around anymore and could even loose her own idenJty.
1/3 of expatriaJons fail. They result in financial and personal losses. The 2 main reasons: inability to adapt to the new culture and incapacity to transform the new house into a home (family issues).
Source: culturalchemistry.com.au
A whole new network support is needed. The couple relaJonship may also change.
Coaching Process
• ExecuJve Coaching for the expat • Life Coaching for the spouse • Individual meeJngs only • MeeJngs through online media (FaceTime, Skype, etc) • ConfidenJal • MeeJng duraJon: 1h • Process length:
– ExecuJve Coaching: 12 meeJngs or more – Life Coaching: from 6 months to 2 years
What can I expect from Coaching?
u A sounding board
u More objecJveness in your daily performance
u More asserJveness
u More clarity with your own goal-‐seang process
u More self-‐awareness
u More saJsfacJon in any area of life
u To feel more responsible for your own choices
Note: as a subjecJve process, results cannot be guaranteed.
What should I not expect from Coaching?
• Someone to tell you what to do
• Advices
• To solve life traumas or deep psychological issues
• EvaluaJon of life history
• That another person could do the homework instead of yourself
• That Coaching could solve any and all issues
Stela Klein Background EducaJon: . InternaJonal Integrated Coaching cerJficate (accredited by InternaJonal Coaching FederaJon (ICF) – Integrated Coaching InsJtute (ICI). . Bachelor’s degree in CommunicaJon Studies from Rio de Janeiro Federal University, with MBA degree in Retail Services from IBMEC (Brazil). . Enneagram -‐ Up9 Human Development School (Brazil). . Coaching with Enneagram -‐ Enneagram in Businees (USA). Background experience: . 20 years of experience in MarkeJng / Branding / CommunicaJons in leading companies such as Petroleo Ipiranga, Yum! Brands, Sodexo, Whirlpool / Embraco), being a senior execuJve for 10 years. . RepresentaJve experience in people management, global communicaJon projects and organizaJonal culture change. . InternaJonal experience in the USA, China, Italy, France, Slovakia, Mexico and Brazil.
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In life, self-‐knowledge is a giQ everyone should offer to oneself.