flexible mindset task cards (adults) - my group guide
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Flexible Mindset Task Cards (Adults)
These task cards will show your clients the importance of having a more flexible mindset. When things happen to us, we
tend to overreact or internalize what is going on. When our thinking is more flexible, we can see things from the
perspective of others & realize that the world is not out to get us!
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Instructions
• Clients will pick a card and read the scenario. • They should first discuss the person’s (likely) reaction in the scenario. They should then give at least one possible reason for the scenario. See the example on the next page.
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Example • Scenario: In the morning, Brooke’s boss asks her to meet with him in one hour. • First reaction: “I must be in trouble!” • Two possible reasons: 1. Maybe he wants to get her opinion
on something 2. Maybe he wants to offer her a
promotion
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Instructions
If you want, you can also give clients the cards on page 13. Print as many as you’d like, and mix them in with the other cards.
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Maggie usually gets along with her boss, but
he criticized her this morning.
Troy thinks things are going well with his new
girlfriend, but she breaks up with him
unexpectedly.
Pam thinks she did great on her
interview, but she does not get the job.
Ralph always chats and jokes around with his co-worker, but today she hasn’t spoken
to him or even made eye contact with him.
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Courtney likes her roommate, but her
roommate has informed her that she will be
moving out.
Jose is in graduate school. He is placed in an internship.
A month later, he asks his supervisor for a letter of recommendation, but she
says no.
Bianca’s friend lives out-of-state. She
hasn’t been returning her phone calls this
past week.
Bill’s friend just got out of rehab. He wants to see him, but his friend says that he needs some “space” for a
while.
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Mia is a single mother, and she is trying her best to parent her two children.
However, she was just informed that they are
struggling in school.
Melissa is really fond of the man she is
dating, but he has cancelled their past
two dates.
Drew expects his closest friend to pick him as the
“Best Man” for his wedding, but he ends up picking his
brother.
Luke and his wife adopt a baby boy. Luke thinks that
the baby is more attached to his wife, and he often cries
when he is holding him.
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Christine meets her boyfriend’s daughter. She seems angry and
doesn’t talk to her much throughout the day.
Will wants to make his new co-worker feel
welcome, so he invites him out to lunch.
However, he says no.
Tyra finds out that she was not invited to a
friend’s wedding.
Neil is working on an important assignment with his co-worker. His co-worker was supposed to email him some documents by 8pm, but it’s past 8 and Neil
hasn’t received anything.
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Jenny is friendly with all of her neighbors. She
hosts a BBQ one weekend, but her new neighbors don’t attend.
Mitch has been in recovery for 1 year. He stopped attending AA 6 months ago. He wants to get back together with his ex. She feels the same, but she says he must attend
AA regularly.
Anita loves her new therapist. However, her
therapist has just referred her to
another clinician.
Jay’s wife has been very stressed lately because she has been planning a charity event.
Jay wants to ease his wife’s stress, but she rejects his offer
to help.
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Stephanie’s roommate has a friend staying over for a
few days. Stephanie leaves her necklace on her dresser,
but it goes missing one morning.
Pete is at work, and he sees two of his co-
workers whispering to each other while looking
at him.
One week ago, Maria sent a Facebook “friend request” to the man she is dating. However, he
has not accepted it yet.
John recently married. He notices that his wife still
has photos around the house that include her
ex-husband.
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A little over a year ago, Karen broke up with her
boyfriend because he never wanted to get married.
Now, she finds out that he is engaged!
Randall has always had a close relationship with
his son. However, his son has been distant since he
started high school.
Grace’s husband is 20 minutes late to dinner. He is never late! He is
not picking up his phone when she tries
to reach him.
Miles and his co-worker each pitch an idea to their boss. A few days later, the
company informs Miles that they will be moving
forward with his co-worker’s idea.
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This is a free pass! Use this when you want to give your card away to another group member.
This is a free pass! Use this when you want to give your card away to your group leader/facilitator.
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Maggie usually gets along with her boss, but he criticized her
this morning.
Troy thinks things are going well with his new
girlfriend, but she breaks up with him
unexpectedly.
Pam thinks she did great on her
interview, but she does not get the job.
Ralph always chats and jokes around with his co-
worker, but today she hasn’t spoken to him or even made eye contact
with him.
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Courtney likes her roommate, but her
roommate has informed her that she
will be moving out.
Jose is in graduate school. He is placed in an
internship. A month later, he asks his supervisor for a letter of recommendation,
but she says no.
Bianca’s friend lives out-of-state. She
hasn’t been returning her phone calls this past week.
Bill’s friend just got out of rehab. He wants to see him, but his friend
says that he needs some “space” for a while.
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Mia is a single mother, and she is trying her best to parent her two children.
However, she was just informed that they are
struggling in school.
Luke and his wife adopt a baby boy. Luke thinks that the baby is more attached to his wife, and he often
cries when he is holding him.
Melissa is really fond of the man she is
dating, but he has cancelled their past
two dates.
Drew expects his closest friend to pick him as the “Best Man”
for his wedding, but he ends up picking his
brother.
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Christine meets her boyfriend’s daughter. She seems angry and
doesn’t talk to her much throughout the day.
Will wants to make his new co-worker feel
welcome, so he invites him out to lunch.
However, he says no.
Tyra finds out that she was not invited
to a friend’s wedding.
Neil is working on an important assignment with
his co-worker. His co-worker was supposed to email him
some documents by 8pm, but it’s past 8 and Neil hasn’t
received anything.
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Jenny is friendly with all of her neighbors. She hosts a BBQ one
weekend, but her new neighbors don’t
attend.
Mitch has been in recovery for 1 year. He stopped attending AA 6 months ago. He wants to get back together with his ex. She feels the same, but she says he must attend AA regularly.
Anita loves her new therapist. However, her therapist has
just referred her to another clinician.
Jay’s wife has been very stressed lately because she has been planning a charity event. Jay wants to ease his wife’s stress, but she rejects
his offer to help.
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Stephanie’s roommate has a friend staying over for a few days. Stephanie leaves
her necklace on her dresser, but it goes missing
one morning.
Pete is at work, and he sees two of his co-
workers whispering to each other while
looking at him.
One week ago, Maria sent a Facebook
“friend request” to the man she is dating.
However, he has not accepted it yet.
John recently married. He notices that his wife still has photos around the house that include
her ex-husband.
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A little over a year ago, Karen broke up with her
boyfriend because he never wanted to get
married. Now, she finds out that he is engaged!
Randall has always had a close relationship with his son. However, his son has been distant since he
started high school.
Grace’s husband is 20 minutes late to dinner. He is never late! He is
not picking up his phone when she tries
to reach him.
Miles and his co-worker each pitch an idea to their boss. A few days later, the company informs Miles that they will be moving forward with his
co-worker’s idea.
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This is a free pass! Use this when you want to give your card away
to another group member.
This is a free pass! Use this when you want to give your card away to
your group leader/facilitator.
Credits
Creative Clips by Krista Wallden
-Thank you for the colorful task card
borders!
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