how do i manage my girlfriend's stress?

How Do I Manage My Girlfriend’s

Stress?

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Question: • My girlfriend stresses about her

finances and grades • She is intelligent and good with

money


• She disagrees • When I provide proof she says I

am trying to prove her stupid • How can I get her to stop

stressing over nothing?


Answer: • Some people feel alive when

they can worry • They will always find something

to stress about


• Don’t try to convince her that she has no reason to stress

• Rather say you respect her choice to stress and you love her regardless


• When she realizes that stressing is a choice, she will eventually consider other choices

• She wants security and acceptance • She will eventually find that inside

herself


• She gets negative acceptance from your efforts to reassure her

• She will find less painful ways to get the same reassurance


Thank You

how do i manage my girlfriend's stress?

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