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ok lng b indi sundin ung parents s gus2 nla kc ndi ka masaya?Ate Cha- hindi ok..dapat sundin khit di ka masaya..obey ur parents in the Lord 4 it isright.

Sir Nomer- okay lang sabihin sa kanila na hindi ka nga masaya sa gusto nila, nasa pag-

uusap lang yan.

kapag ang 1 tao b ndi ngccmba, msama n?Ate Cha - hindi pa. pero if hindi na xa tlga naccmba, there's a problem already. mybe,may sins xang tinatago..

Sir Nomer - ikaw lang makaksagot nyan sa sarili mo. pero magkaiba ang pagiging religious sa pagiging faithful. ako nga hindi na madalas mag church, but i have myreason, at sa pagitan na lang naming dalawa yun ng Diyos, pero hanggat maari, iadvise, need mo talaga mag-church, need natin yun para lalo lumago kasama ang mgakapatid...

is it dstny, when u failed 2 rch ur goal?Ate Cha - no pa rin khit u did everything na.. it's God's will. maybe ur goal is not God's

goal.

Sir Nomer -failure is not a destiny. life is a matter of choice. it is not a series of consequences, it is a series of choices, your life depends on the choices you make todAY.

wen u accdntally hear d conversation of ur frnds, tlkin bhind ur back, or smply tlknnegativ thngs abt u. .wat wud b ur reaction?Ate Cha -

aaahhh, ok. so if ever dun ko lng nrinig..i'll just jokingly ask if wat they aretalking abwt. so if they told me, then i'll listen to them then evaluate if its true and if there's a problem. then i'll talk with them. i'm sure there's no misunderstanding that can't be solved in talking nicely.

Sir Nomer - of course i would be offended, but i would talk to them and ask them whythey are doing that to me, syempre mas masakit kung mga kapatid pa sila sa church,

pero kung mapapagusapan naman at kaya pa irescue ang friendship, bakit hindi.

wen u saw a servant of ur church commited a serious misdeed, den he/she askd unot 2 tel any1 abt dat? wat wl u do? eh u idolize p nman dat person. . .Ate Cha - it's ok not to tell any1 but of course i will confront him/her. i'll ask her/him whyhe/she's doing it. i know there's a reason for everthing. he/she has one. i will not judge or criticize her/him for that coz i dont know the situation. then, if she/he admits that itswrong and repents of her/his sins, then i'll pray with her/him. that's the least i can do tohelp. it will be then between him/her and God.

Sir Nomer - talk to the person, and as a sibling in faith, u should support him/her. there should be assurance na hindi nya na gagawin yun ulet. at saka tama yung ginawa nya

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sayo magconfess because we need to confess our sin to someone we trust, paramapatawad natin ang ating sarili, at sabihin mo sa kanya na humingi ng tawad sa Diyos.lahat naman tayo nagkakamali, kahit christian ka na..

do u agree dat 2 please evry1 s a great mistake?Ate Cha - yes. because in everything that u do, u should do it all for the Glory of God and God alone.Sir Nomer - TAMA! DONT PLEASE EVERYONE, ITS A BIG MISTAKE. im not saying na magpaka pasaway ka, pero yung sinusunod mo ang iba, na tipong bliond obedience,hindi naman yun tama. when you support or follow something, it should be something that is within what you belive, and within the teachings of our lord.

if ur answr in #1 is NOT ok, wat if u want 2 serv in ur c0ngregati0n & dt mkes uhappy, but ur parents r against ur decsi0n, . stk on wat u wnt 2 do,or jus obey watur parents want?Ate Cha -

ummm, if this is the case, if serving the congregation is God's will for me, not just wat makes me happy, then i know that God will also make a way for my parents tounderstand. nothing is impossible for Him. it will no longer be my decision or my

parents' that matters but God's. it's His will not ours.