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Page 1: @PastorBDT97fdd7075536d899dd71-dc1b64359ecb7ac246b9d8ca8e89f4bf.r59.… · Fighting Fair In Marriage Learning The Rules Of Engagement #1 Let God have your marriage God God Husband
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Fighting Fair In MarriageLearning The Rules Of Engagement

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#1 Let God have your marriage

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HusbandHusband

WifeWife

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#2 Get rid of the “D” word

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#3 Respect Each Other’s Feelings

• Listen & Validate

• Use “I feel” messages

• Don’t psychoanalyze

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#4 Accept full responsibility

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#5 Learn to say “I’m sorry”

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#6 Don’t be a mind reader

• Don’t assume

• Ask for clarification

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#7 Take it one step at a time

• limit the conflict to the here and now

• limit the conflict to the one issue that is at the center of the conflict

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#8 Show Respect

• Pro 11:12 “he who belittles his neighbor lacks sense.”

• Recognize your mate as an instrument of God working in your life

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#9 Deal with your anger biblically

• Eph 4:26 “be angry but do not sin.”

• Pro 29:11 “a fool always loses his temper, but a wise man holds it back.”

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#10 Remember, you are both on the same team

• resolution of the conflict is what is important

• carefully learn and practice these rules of engagement