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THIS PRESENTATION IS CREATED BY TANDY BOWMAN~ HRF, RMF, C.A.M.P.
Presented by R n’ B Therapeutic Reflection and sponsored by Servant
Hearts © All Rights Reserved 2011
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• Introduction
•Drumming
•Presentation
•Evaluation
Anger Control Tools
1. Deal with
Stress
2.
Empathy
3.
Respond Instead of React
4.
Change Self-Talk
5. Learn
Assertive Communication
6.
Adjust Expectat
ions
7. Forgive, but don't
Forget
8. Retreat
and Think Things Over
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Group Drumming is not about inspiring successful drumming
It’s about inspiring successful living.
Group Drumming is not about exceptional performanceIt’s about exceptional support and personal expression.
Group Drumming is not about teaching people to playIt’s about giving people permission to play.
Group Drumming is not about acquiring techniqueIt’s about sharing for the sake of personal EMPOWERMENT.
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R n’ B Therapeutic ReflectionEncouraging Healing Expressions of Anger & Emotions
Empowerment Drumming
7 Evidenced-based Elements
1. Stress-reduction2. Exercise3. Self-Expression4. Camaraderie/Support5. Nurturing6. Spirituality7. Music
Anger Management
8 Tools for Anger Control1. Deal with Stress2. Develop Empathy3. Respond instead of React4. Change Self-Talk5. Learn Assertive
Communication6. Adjust Expectations7. Forgive, but don’t Forget8. Retreat and Think Things
Over
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Stress Reduction & Management Techniques
EMPOWERMENT DRUMMING ANGER MANAGEMENT
Breathing Techniques Physical Exercise Self-Expression Relaxation/Meditation
Signs of Stress Alert Make life changes to
Reduce Stress Triggers
Adjust your Mind-View
Apply Stress Guard
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SIGNS OF STRESS ALERT
Physically exhausted Irritability / Inability to concentrate, relax and
a sense of fear Poor performance in school
STRESS IS CREATED WHEN WE HAVE MORE DEMANDS THAN RESOURCES TO MEET THOSE
DEMANDS
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Stress Reduction & Management Techniques
EMPOWERMENT DRUMMING ANGER MANAGEMENT
Breathing Techniques Physical Exercise Self-Expression Relaxation/Meditation
Signs of Stress Alert Make life changes to
Reduce Stress Triggers Adjust your Mind-View Apply Stress Guard1. Exercise2. Diet3. Sleep4. Relaxation/Meditation
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MAKE LIFE CHANGES TO REDUCE STRESS TRIGGERS
Take time off Manage your time
Set Limits Choose your battles wisely
Use calming skills Change a class subject if you can
Take control of what you can Don’t commit yourself to things you can’t
do or don’t want to do
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Stress Reduction & Management Techniques
EMPOWERMENT DRUMMING ANGER MANAGEMENT
Breathing Techniques Physical Exercise Self-Expression Relaxation/Meditation
Signs of Stress Alert Make life changes to
Reduce Stress Triggers
Adjust your Mind-View
Apply Stress Guard
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ADJUST YOUR MIND-VIEW
What are your personal perceptions or beliefs
How have you always reacted in situations
What has been your emotional responses
Changing your mind-set toward many things in your life will reduce the stress. Make self-statements to reduce stress.
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Stress Reduction & Management Techniques
EMPOWERMENT DRUMMING ANGER MANAGEMENT
Breathing Techniques Physical Exercise Self-Expression Relaxation/Meditation
Signs of Stress Alert Make life changes to
Reduce Stress Triggers
Adjust your Mind-View
Apply Stress Guard
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APPLY STRESS GUARD
Exercise
Diet
Sleep
Relaxation/Meditation
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Conflict Resolution & Team Building
EMPOWERMENT DRUMMING ANGER MANAGEMENT
Camaraderie Support Nurturing
Develop Empathy Assertive
Communication Adjust Expectations
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Develop Empathy
Be a better listener
Communication both receiving and giving
Acceptance
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Conflict Resolution & Team Building
EMPOWERMENT DRUMMING ANGER MANAGEMENT
Camaraderie Support Nurturing
Develop Empathy Assertive
Communication Adjust Expectations
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Assertive Communication
Send Clear Messages Learn how to listen
Express Complaints by using the “I” statements
Acknowledge your part in conflicts Give and Take Praise
Express feelings openly
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Conflict Resolution & Team Building
EMPOWERMENT DRUMMING ANGER MANAGEMENT
Camaraderie Support Nurturing
Develop Empathy Assertive
Communication Adjust Expectations
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ADJUST EXPECTATIONS
Decide what is “reasonable” and what is not
Take the word “should” out of your vocabulary
Remember that sometimes people or situations have more limitations than you give them credit for.
Remind yourself that the way you see things may not be how others see the same things or events
Find other ways to get your needs met
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Self Esteem & Confidence Building
EMPOWERMENT DRUMMING ANGER MANAGEMENT
Music ~ Creativity Lead & Follow Self-Expression Camaraderie Spirituality
Change Self-Talk Forgive but don’t
Forget Retreat Think Things
Over Respond instead of
React
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CHANGE SELF-TALK
Look at the evidence
Consider alternative causes
Put events into perspective
Is your belief useful
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Self Esteem & Confidence Building
EMPOWERMENT DRUMMING ANGER MANAGEMENT
Music ~ Creativity Lead & Follow Self-Expression Camaraderie Spirituality
Change Self-Talk Forgive but don’t
Forget Retreat Think Things
Over Respond instead of
React
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FORGIVE BUT DON’T FORGET
Forgiving is good for your health
Forgiving is good for your peace of mind
Learn 7 steps to help in forgiveness through a writing process allowing for
personal healing and expression.
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Self Esteem & Confidence Building
EMPOWERMENT DRUMMING ANGER MANAGEMENT
Music ~ Creativity Lead & Follow Self-Expression Camaraderie Spirituality
Change Self-Talk Forgive but don’t
Forget Retreat Think Things
Over Respond instead of
React
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RETREAT AND THINK THINGS OVER
Temporarily removing yourself from the situation allows your body to return to normal, provides a cooling-down time, and allows your brain to return to its
normal state where you can reason and think better. Using this time out
technique will also prevent you or your partner from saying unfair or hurtful
things in the heat of battle.
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Self Esteem & Confidence Building
EMPOWERMENT DRUMMING ANGER MANAGEMENT
Music ~ Creativity Lead & Follow Self-Expression Camaraderie Spirituality
Change Self-Talk Forgive but don’t
Forget Retreat Think Things
Over Respond instead of
React
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RESPOND INSTEAD OF REACT
Look at your attitude
Regulate your emotions
Try alternative behaviors
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Learning Positive Tools Creates Positive Responses
To empower and inspire all individuals to be the leaders they can and will be by creating an experience to learn from. Tandy Bowman HRF, RMF, CAMP