responding to conflict biblically peacemaking principles for short term mission teams
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Responding To Conflict Biblically
Responding To Conflict Biblically
PEACEMAKING PRINCIPLES FOR SHORT TERM MISSION
TEAMS
PEACEMAKING PRINCIPLES FOR SHORT TERM MISSION
TEAMS
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A difference in opinion or purpose that
frustrates someone’s goals or desires.
What is What is Conflict?Conflict?
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Causes of Causes of conflict...conflict...Causes of Causes of conflict...conflict...
• Misunderstandings• Differences in values, goals
...• Competition over resources• Sinful attitudes and desires• Stress caused by change
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Responses to Responses to ConflictConflict
Responses to Responses to ConflictConflict
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•Attack Responses
•Peacemaking Responses
•Escape Responses
Understanding Understanding Conflict and Our Conflict and Our Responses to ItResponses to It
Understanding Understanding Conflict and Our Conflict and Our Responses to ItResponses to It
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The Biblical The Biblical Pattern Pattern
for Resolving for Resolving ConflictConflict
The Biblical The Biblical Pattern Pattern
for Resolving for Resolving ConflictConflictGlorify God
Get the log out of your eye
Gently restore
Go and be reconciled
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The First G:The First G:
GGlorify Godlorify GodThe First G:The First G:
GGlorify Godlorify God
Imitate His grace towards usBring honor to His Name
Obey His commandsTrust God
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Peacemaking Peacemaking isis NOT NOT
OptionalOptional
Peacemaking Peacemaking isis NOT NOT
OptionalOptional• Peace with God, others,
& self• Peacemaking is crucial to
our testimony• We must work hard at
Peacemaking
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The Second G:The Second G:
GGet the log out et the log out of of
your eye:your eye:
The Second G:The Second G:
GGet the log out et the log out of of
your eye:your eye:Examine my attitude,
then evaluate my shortcomings
and responsibilities
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Two kinds of Two kinds of logs...logs...
Two kinds of Two kinds of logs...logs...
• A critical, negative attitude
• Actual sinful words and actions
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The Seven A’s The Seven A’s of Confessionof ConfessionThe Seven A’s The Seven A’s of Confessionof Confession• Address everyone involved• Avoid if, but, and maybe• Admit specifically• Acknowledge the hurt• Accept the consequences• Alter your behavior• Ask for forgiveness (allow
time)
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The Third G:The Third G:
GGently Restoreently RestoreThe Third G:The Third G:
GGently Restoreently Restore
Gently correct and restore a brother.
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When Should When Should You Go and Talk to You Go and Talk to
Someone?Someone?
When Should When Should You Go and Talk to You Go and Talk to
Someone?Someone?
•When a relationship is damaged•When the offense is too serious to overlook
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OVERLOOKINGOVERLOOKINGOVERLOOKINGOVERLOOKING
• Dishonor God?• Permanently damage a
relationship?• Seriously hurt others?• Seriously hurt the
offender?
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Loving Loving CorrectionCorrection
Loving Loving CorrectionCorrection
• Help someone solve a problem• Identify and lift a burden• See own negative contribution
to the problem and make a change
• Be a positive example to others
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The Fourth G:The Fourth G:
GGo and Be o and Be ReconciledReconciled
The Fourth G:The Fourth G:
GGo and Be o and Be ReconciledReconciled
Replace hostility and Replace hostility and separation with peace and separation with peace and
reconciliationreconciliation
Replace hostility and Replace hostility and separation with peace and separation with peace and
reconciliationreconciliation
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Forgive as Forgive as God Forgave God Forgave
YouYou
Forgive as Forgive as God Forgave God Forgave
YouYou• How do we develop a spirit of forgiveness?• Forgiveness is a decision involving four promises…
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Four PromisesFour Promisesof Forgiveness :of Forgiveness :Four PromisesFour Promises
of Forgiveness :of Forgiveness :• I will not dwell on this incident• I will not bring this incident up
and use it against you• I will not talk to others about
this incident• I will not allow this incident to
stand between us or hinder our personal relationship
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Forgiveness is Forgiveness is not…not…
Forgiveness is Forgiveness is not…not…
• A sentimental concept• A feeling• Forgetting• Excusing• A temporary pardon
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Philippians Philippians 4:4-9 tells us 4:4-9 tells us
to:to:
Philippians Philippians 4:4-9 tells us 4:4-9 tells us
to:to:• RejoiceRejoice in the Lord always in the Lord always• Let your Let your gentlenessgentleness be be
evidentevident• ReplaceReplace anxiety with prayer anxiety with prayer• See things as See things as they reallyreally
areare• PracticePractice what you’ve what you’ve
learnedlearned