Saint Joseph Roman Catholic Church Oradell / New Milford, NJ

Twentieth Sunday in Ordinary Time ~ August 18, 2013

Sacramental Life

Reconciliation / Confessions

Saturday, 4:00 pm - 4:45 pm

Baptism

Contact the Parish Office before the

fifth month of pregnancy.

Marriage

Arrangements should be made with a

priest at least one year in advance.

Sick / Homebound / Hospital Ministry

Call the Parish Office.

Mass Schedule

Sunday Mass

Saturday 5:00 pm Anticipated

Sunday 7:00 am 8:30 am

10:30 am 12:30 pm

Daily Mass

Weekdays 7:00 am and 8:30 am

Saturday 8:30 am

Holy Days as announced

Exposition of the Blessed Sacrament

First Wednesday of the Month

9:00 am - 5:30 pm in Mary’s Chapel

Miraculous Medal Novena

Monday, 7:00 pm in Mary’s Chapel

Christian Initiation of Adults—RCIA

Contact the Religious Education Office.

Parish Registration

Contact the Parish Office.

Parish Staff

Rev. Msgr. David C. Hubba, PASTOR Rev. Andrew Park, PAROCHIAL VICAR

Rev. John Chadwick, Msgr. Richard Groncki, Msgr. William Hatcher, WEEKEND ASSISTANTS

Mrs. Colette Vail Principal of Saint Joseph School

Mrs. Angela Gussoni Vice Principal of Saint Joseph School

Mrs. Diane Hellriegel Communications & Development

Mr. Heath Winborn Director of Operations

Mr. Monroe Quinn Mrs. Phyllis Vrola Director of Music Business Manager

Mrs. Anne Annunziato Parish Secretary

Mrs. Arlene Kennedy Sacrament Coordinator

Mr. Anthony Armando Youth Minister

Office Location Phone Email Website

Parish Office 105 Harrison St., New Milford 201-261-0148 office@sjcnj.org sjcnj.org

Religious Education 105 Harrison St., New Milford 201-261-1144 religioused@sjcnj.org sjcreligioused.blogspot.com

Saint Joseph School 305 Elm St., Oradell 201-261-2388 office@sjsusa.org sjsusa.org

the greenhouse-PreK 305 Elm St., Oradell 201-477-8114 vailc@greenhouseusa.org greenhouseusa.org

Parish Office Hours: Weekdays 9 am - 5 pm or by appointment Religious Ed. Office Hours: Mon.-Thurs. 9am - 5 pm

“There is a baptism with which I must be baptized, and how great is my anguish until it is accomplished!

Do you think that I have come to establish peace on earth?

No, I tell you, but rather division. From now on a household of five will be divided three against two

and two against three.”

Lk 12:50-52

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PRAYER REQUESTS Let us remember those who are ill: Irene Manlapaz, Mags Joya, Kerry Vecker, Pauline Massar, Ruth Miller, John Mendel

Let us remember all those who have recently died.

Let us remember those serving in the military.

Sunday Collection for Week of August 11, 2013 Basket ParishPay Total

$6,860 $5,327 $12,187

ST. JOSEPH CHURCH ORADELL/NEW MILFORD, NJ

VISIT US ON OUR WEBSITES Parish: sjcnj.org School: sjsusa.org

Religious Education: sjcreligioused.blogspot.com Athletic Association: sjaaathletics.blogspot.com

The bulletin can also be seen on our website

sjcnj.org

WOMEN'S CORNERSTONE MEETING —AUGUST 21

Plan to attend our Cornerstone meeting this Wednesday evening, August 21 at 8:00 pm in the K of C Hall, River Road, New Milford. Our Cornerstone Retreat brings us together from many places, but during the 26-hour retreat we come to realize that we're not alone and we're not strangers. Our monthly meetings keep us together as sisters in the Lord, planning and praying for our next weekend. We pray, plan, sing, share and laugh together as we journey forward with the help of the Holy Spirit. If you have made a Cornerstone Retreat, even if at another parish, you are welcome to join us Wednesday evening at 8:00 pm and see for yourself what a wonderful community of sisters awaits you!

A SPECIAL INVITATION TO ANYONE INTERESTED

IN BECOMING A CATHOLIC —SEPTEMBER 15 or 22

Any adult or teenager interested in learning about becoming a member of the Catholic Church (or who has been baptized and wants to receive First Holy Communion and Confirmation) is invited to attend a brief inquiry session from 11:30 am-12:30 pm on Sunday, September 15 or Sunday, September 22.

The meeting will be held at the Rectory/Parish Office at 105 Harrison Street across from the church. NO REGISTRATION IS REQUIRED. Attendees will meet Father Andrew and the RCIA staff, and can ask any questions they may have. There is no obligation and no commitment.

For more information, please call 201-261-0148. Feel free to pass this information on to anyone you think might be interested.

August 17, 2013 Michael Pucci

August 18, 2013 People of the Parish John Brosnahan Catherine Teresa McCarten Deomenico Aromando

August 19, 2013 Rose M. Irving Elizabeth Baglivi Birthday Remembrance

August 20, 2013 Rev. John M. Morley Paul Rota 6th Anniversary Remembrance

August 21, 2013 Annarita DeZenzo Ruth Belthoff

August 22, 2013 Toto Apacible Sean Michael Ryan

August 23, 2013 Mary Reyes Ruth Belthoff

August 24, 2013 Carolina Accomando Birthday Remembrnce

August 25, 2013 People of the Parish Deceased Members of The Prior & Plinio Family Jesse Mosheim Rosalinda B. Claveria—living intention

Saturday 5:00 pm

Sunday 7:00 am 8:30 am 10.30 am 12:30 pm

Monday 7:00 am 8:30 am

Tuesday 7:00 am 8:30 am

Wednesday 7:00 am 8:30 am

Thursday 7:00 am 8:30 am

Friday 7:00 am 8:30 am

Saturday 8:30 am 5:00 pm

Sunday 7:00 am 8:30 am 10.30 am 12:30 pm

BREAD AND WINE INTENTIONS The Bread and Wind for

the week of August 18, 2013 is offered In Thanksgiving

By George and Gail Fabiano.

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TWENTIETH SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME, AUGUST 18, 2013

SIGN UP NOW! MARIAN PILGRIMAGE TO THE

BASILICA OF THE NATIONAL SHRINE WASHINGTON, D.C.—OCTOBER 26

The Archdiocese of Newark is sponsoring a one-day pilgrimage to the Basilica of the National Shrine of the Immaculate Conception in Washington, D.C. on Saturday, October 26, 2013. It will be led by Archbishop John J. Myers. The feature of the day will be a rosary devotion and concelebrated Mass in the Basilica. Plan to be part of this archdiocesan act of love and devotion honoring the Mother of God and celebrating the ‘Year of Faith.’

A bus will leave from Saint Joseph Parish and return the same day. Please contact Pat Fakharzadeh of the Legion of Mary at lom@sjcnj.org for more information.

SAINT JOSEPH PARISH MASS BOOK FOR 2014

IS NOW OPEN Please use “2014 Mass

Intention Form”on page 4 of this bulletin.

Mass Intention requests will be taken from

10 am-3 pm (Tuesday to Thursday in August;

Monday to Friday thereafter).

*Masses will be assigned on a first-come basis. No prior requests can be taken. *Mass Intention requests will not be taken over the phone. We can only honor requests made in person and submitted on the form. *Please tear the form (p. 4) out of the bulletin. Bring the completed form to the parish office when you arrange for the Masses. *State the full name of the person for whom the Mass Intention is requested. *Mass Intention donation is $10 per request. Donation is payable at the time of request to: “Saint Joseph Church.” *For the first two weeks that the book is open, there is a maximum limit of five (5) Masses per family. *Please do not request all Mass Intentions to be scheduled for Sunday and Holy Days. *Mass Intentions may be requested for Christmas or Easter (but not both).

Please remember that the parish office is not open in the evening or on weekends.

FROM THE PASTOR’S DESK

If you are interested in reading a good book about our Faith, a number of them have appeared recently. One of the following might interest you.

William A Donohue’s Why Catholicism Matters: How Catholic Virtues Can Reshape Society in the 21st Century (Image Books/Doubleday, 2012) is a spirited defense of our religion and a wide-ranging description of how it benefits everyone by the head of the Catholic League for Civil Rights. (The editing of its introduction is a bit shaky, but the chapters address key issues of the day and make you proud to be Catholic.)

Brian Regan’s Gothic Pride: The Story of Building a Great Cathedral in Newark (Rivergate Books/Rutgers University Press, 2012) is about our Archdiocese’s magnificent Cathedral Basilica of the Sacred Heart, the most expensive church ever built in America. Regan, a curator at New York’s renowned Morgan Library, offers many interesting human details about its creation.

Robert Louis Wilken’s The First Thousand Years: A Global History of Christianity (Yale University Press, 2012) uses short, gracefully written chapters to present a complex history with clarity. He includes many details about Christianity’s early eastward expansion that are not widely known.

Richarc Hanser’s A Noble Treason: The Story of Sophie Scholl and the White Rose Revolt Against Hitler (Ignatius Press, 2012) tells of a brave but futile resistance to Nazi tyranny by a small group of Munich students and one of their professors during World War II.

Scott Hahn’s Consuming the Word: The New Testament and the Eucharist in the Early Church (Image, 2013) describes the close connection between the Mass and Scripture with his typically clear explanatory skill.

Pope Benedict XVI’s The Virtues (Our Sunday Visitor, 2010) covers the divine gifts that bring us strength in this short work about truths that will never cease to be crucial for us.

Russell Shaw’s American Church: The Remarkable Rise, Meteoric Fall, and Uncertain Future of Catholicism in America (Ignatius Press, 2013) is a searching exploration of current concerns by a veteran Catholic journalist and columnist for Columbia, the magazine of the Knights of Columbus.

Milton Walsh’s Witness of the Saints (Ignatius Press, 2012) takes selections from the great treasury of readings from the Church’s foremost saints and writers that is found in the Liturgy of the Hours (or Divine Office)—the church’s official prayer book—

(continued above)

and arranges them according to the chief topics of the Catechism of the Catholic Church, making these passages usefully available to all who want to know the Faith better. Monsignor David Hubba

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ST. JOSEPH CHURCH ORADELL/NEW MILFORD, NJ ST. JOSEPH CHURCH ORADELL/NEW MILFORD, NJ

2014 Mass Intention Form ____________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

MASS TIMES AVAILABLE FOR INTENTIONS Monday through Friday 7:00 AM 8:30 AM Saturday Evening Anticipated Mass 5:00 PM Saturday Morning 8:30 AM Sunday Masses 8:30 AM 10:30 AM 12:30 PM ___________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

--PLEASE PRINT CLEARLY—

YOUR NAME ________________________________________________________________________________________________

ADDRESS ________________________________________________________________________________________________

CITY_________________________________ STATE_____________ ZIP CODE____________________

HOME PHONE____________________ CELL PHONE_____________________ WORK PHONE__________________

FAMILY EMAIL_________________________________________________________________________________________ _____

1. PROPOSED DATE_______________________________________ PROPOSED MASS TIME_______________________________________

MASS INTENTION--state full name--_________________________________________________________________________________________________

INDICATE IF THE MASS INTENTION IS FOR THE. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . LIVING________________ or DECEASED ________________

2. PROPOSED DATE_______________________________________ PROPOSED MASS TIME_______________________________________

MASS INTENTION--state full name--_________________________________________________________________________________________________

INDICATE IF THE MASS INTENTION IS FOR THE. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . LIVING________________ or DECEASED ________________

3. PROPOSED DATE_______________________________________ PROPOSED MASS TIME_______________________________________

MASS INTENTION--state full name--_________________________________________________________________________________________________

INDICATE IF THE MASS INTENTION IS FOR THE. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . LIVING________________ or DECEASED ________________

4. PROPOSED DATE_______________________________________ PROPOSED MASS TIME_______________________________________

MASS INTENTION--state full name--_________________________________________________________________________________________________

INDICATE IF THE MASS INTENTION IS FOR THE. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . LIVING________________ or DECEASED ________________

5. PROPOSED DATE_______________________________________ PROPOSED MASS TIME_______________________________________

MASS INTENTION--state full name--_________________________________________________________________________________________________

INDICATE IF THE MASS INTENTION IS FOR THE. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . LIVING________________ or DECEASED ________________

2014 BREAD and WINE INTENTION

___________BREAD & WINE ___________BREAD ONLY ___________WINE ONLY $80 donation $40 donation $40 donation

PROPOSED WEEK OF________________________________________________________________________________________

INTENTION ______________________________________________________________________________

______________________________________________________________________________

______________________________________________________________________________

INDICATE IF THE INTENTION IS FOR THE. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . LIVING________________ or DECEASED ________________

OFFICE USE ONLY TOTAL MASSES _______________ DONATION _______________ RECEIVED _______________ DATE _______________ CHECK _______________ CASH _______________

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WALK-IN DINNER PROGRAM FOR THE HUNGRY—AUGUST 29

Parishioners of Saint Joseph Parish will be preparing and serving a meatloaf dinner for approximately 120 people in need at the Housing, Health & Human Services Center located at 120 South River Street in Hackensack. If you would like to help, please call Joan at 201-265-5823. Or you may make a donation toward the cost of the dinner by sending a check to the parish office payable to Saint Joseph Church marked “Walk-in Dinner Program.”

TWENTIETH SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME, AUGUST 18, 2013

Come one! Come all! SAINT JOSEPH SCHOOL’s

FALL CARNIVAL SATURDAY, SEPTEMBER 14

11am —3 pm Great family fun! Mini Golf, Bounce House, Carnival Games, Dunk Tank Lunch in our own Carnival Cafe ; bring home delicious goodies from our Back-to-School Cake Sale. Check out our Cake Walk and Cupcake War. Lots of prizes in our Children’s Tricky Tray!

Admission: $3.00 Carnival Games: 50 cents per ticket

FAMILY SHELTER MINISTRY AUGUST 18-25

Saint Joseph Parish will be joining with Temple Avodat Shalom and First Congregational

Church to support St. Peter’s Parish of River Edge in hosting families in need through Family Promise of Bergen County during the week of August 18-25.

Families with children who are currently homeless and working toward finding permanent housing through Family Promise will be calling St. Peter’s their “home” for that week. You can help to support these families by making a donation of a gift card to a local super market or a monetary donation.

Please make checks payable to Saint Joseph Church and indicate that it is for the “Family Promise Shelter.” Both gift cards and checks should be mailed to or dropped off at Saint Joseph parish office/rectory, 105 Harrison Street, New Milford, NJ 07646.

IS YOUR COLLEGE STUDENT GOING TO RUTGERS IN NEW BRUNSWICK?

The Catholic Center at Rutgers, located at 84 Somerset Street on the College Avenue Campus, is looking forward to welcoming students to the New Brunswick/Piscataway campuses.

Opening activities on September 2 include an Involvement Fair during the day and a luau at 6 pm at the Catholic Center. Additional activities include pizza on the plaza and tips on how to not only survive, but thrive, at Rutgers!

Sunday Masses, at various campus locations, are at 12:00 pm, 8:00 pm, 9:00 pm and 10:00 pm; daily Mass is at 12:15 pm at the Catholic Center Chapel.

Visit the Catholic Center at Rutgers online at catholic-center.rutgers.edu

RETROUVAILLE — September 6-8 A LIFELINE FOR TROUBLED MARRIAGES

Retrouvaille (a French word meaning rediscovery) is a program that offers tools needed to rediscover a loving marriage relationship. It is designed for couples with marital problems, including those who are considering marriage separation or who are already separated or divorced and want marriage help. The next NJ/NY Retrouvaille weekend will take place September 6-8 at the Holiday Inn in Clark, NJ. To register, call 973-723-7090. For more information about Retrouvaille, go to www.helpourmarriage.com

REGISTER TO TAKE THE COOP EXAM FOR CATHOLIC HIGH SCHOOL

Attention families of 8th grade students wanting to attend Catholic high school in the fall of 2014: the Catholic High School entrance exam (COOP) will be given on November 8, 2013. Students need to register for this exam starting September 1, 2013. (SJS students will receive their materials at school.) You can go to www.coopexam.org to download registration materials, call 888-921-2667, or send an email to support@coopexam.org

ATTENTION ALL BAKERS! If you would like to donate homemade or store-bought baked goods to the SJS Carnival Bake Sale, please contact Glynnis Doda at Gdoda@optonline.net

CATECHISTS NEEDED Would you like to make a difference for the future of our Church and help the children of our parish to grow in their love

of God? Then please prayerfully consider becoming a catechist. We need catechists for the following grades— Sundays: Two (2) Grade 5 catechists; Tuesdays: One (1) Kindergarten; Four (4) First Grade; Two (2) Second Grade; Two (2) Fourth Grade teachers. Contact Arlene Kennedy at 201-261-1144 or by email at religioused@sjcnj.org

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SAINT JOSEPH CHURCH ORADELL/NEW MILFORD, NJ

Compiled by the Liturgy of the Word With Children Committee

The Gospel is the Good News about Jesus.

The Gospel Reading for today is from

Saint Luke 12:49-53.

Have you ever noticed that we are all

different? Some of us are good at sports

while others are good in math or science.

We also don’t always agree with each other.

Look at your own family for a moment.

Do you always agree with your sisters or

brothers? Do you always agree with what

your parents tell you to do?

In today’s Gospel, Jesus tells us that

disagreements are normal. When Jesus

traveled from town to town, there were some

people who believed in him and wanted to

follow him and some who ignored him.

Not everyone believed that he was the Son of

God.

Some people love Jesus with their whole

hearts and their lives really show it. There are

other people who don’t know about Jesus or

who find it too difficult to follow him. But

Jesus tells us that whether people agree with

us or not, we are to love everyone.

As followers of Jesus, we need to stay close

to him and he will help us to stay strong when

other people do not agree with us. He will

help us to show others by our good example

what it means to follow Jesus.

MISSION OF THE WEEK

Every day I will pray this prayer:

Dear God,

help me to tell others

the Good News about Jesus

and always try to live as Jesus did.

Amen.

Jesus tells us that there will always be divisions

in households and between people.