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THE INTERSECT OF TRAUMA, EDUCATION AND MENTAL HEALTH Education is a path to permanency Indiana Department of Child Services Permanency and Practice Support Education Services

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THE INTERSECT OF TRAUMA, EDUCATION AND

MENTAL HEALTH

Education is a path to permanency

Indiana Department of Child ServicesPermanency and Practice Support

Education Services

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QUESTIONS WE WANT TO ANSWER

Education is a path to permanency

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How can we…• define what does Trauma look like?• communicate best with DCS about our

traumatized children?• prevent implicit biases from impacting

the educational access and academic achievement of DCS involved youth?

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WHAT IS TRAUMA?Education is a path to permanency

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Threat to someone’s life, safety, or well-

being.

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Overwhelms capacity to cope

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Witnessing the event can be traumatizing

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Should be recognized as part of the daily experience for many

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CATEGORIES OF TRAUMA

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TWO CATEGORIES OF TRAUMA

Acute Trauma

• A single event limited in time

• Examples• Death of a family member• Serious accident• Tornado

Chronic or Complex Trauma

• Multiple, consistent, or varied, exposure

• Examples• Repeated abuse and/or

neglect• Ongoing domestic violence• Multiple instances of loss

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TYPES OF TRAUMATIC EXPERIENCES

• Generational Trauma• Community Violence• Early Childhood Trauma• Terrorism/War• Medical Trauma• Natural Disasters• Neglect• Physical and/or Sexual Abuse• School Violence

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IMPACT OF TRAUMA

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SHAPING OF BELIEFS• Trauma shapes the survivor’s basic beliefs about identity,

world view, and spirituality• Why did this happen?• Why to me?• What does this mean?

• “We suffer (in our minds, hearts, bodies, and relationships) from every critical and negative thought. We BENEFIT (in our minds, bodies, hearts, and spirits) from every positive, grateful, and compassionate one.” ~Center for Thriving Relationships

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PAST EXPOSURE TO TRAUMA

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TRAUMA AFFECTS ON BRAIN DEVELOPMENT

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SIGNS OF TRAUMAEducation is a path to permanency

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SELF IMPOSED ISOLATION

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AGGRESSION

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LACK OF FOCUS/ATTENTION

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UNEXPLAINED SEVERE MOOD CHANGES

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EXTREME REACTION TO PHYSICAL TOUCH

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LOW ABILITY TO MAKE & KEEP FRIENDS

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Some Observations of behaviors common for youth who have experienced trauma are:

The child seems to make the same mistakes over and over, and does not appear to learn

from experience.Child appears guarded, defensive, and angry.

Child has great reactivity. Emotional outbursts may have no immediately

identifiable antecedent.Slow recovery from outbursts.

Child tends to hold grudges.Child blames others, no insight or remorse

Extreme attempts to control othersSelf-stimulation as a form of self-soothing

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Biology affects behavior…• Sleep• Nutrition and eating habits• Movement and exercise• Body awareness• Health status or special considerations

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Children who have experienced trauma have some heightened strengths that should be recognized and cultivated through

supportive interactions with adults and peers.

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TRAUMA-INFORMED

APPROACHEducation is a path to permanency

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IS PUNISHMENT THE ANSWER?

What is the purpose of punishment?

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BENEFICIAL FOR ALL

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• Trauma Informed Environments create a better experience for everyone involved

• Trauma-sensitive environments benefit ALL CHILDREN

• One main point to remember:• The damage that trauma or

adversity causes CAN BE HEALED!• Connection with a trusted

and nurturing adult is the single most impactful indicator for a child’s resilience and healing.

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SPACE PRINCIPLESAustralian Childhood Foundation

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It is the response that decides whether a situation will be escalated or de-escalated and

a child humanized or dehumanized. ~Children’s Success Foundation

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REACTING VS. RESPONDING

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Reactions Cause Cyclical Behaviors Responses Bring a Sense of Safety

1. Child startled by event/trigger2. Subcortical right hemisphere

(processing emotions, feelings, intuition) enacts response.

3. Behavior provokes a reaction in others.

4. This reaction perceived as additional threat

5. State of heightened arousal and stress

1. Child is more easily startled 2. Subcortical right hemisphere enacts

response…

• What are the child’s needs?• Work to respond to the need

and not react to the behavior• Be openly responsive

• Meet them in their heart• Emotional Regulation

• Help them to understand the feeling that drives the behavior

• Focus on knowing your own self to learn to interact differently

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SUPPORTING EMOTIONAL REGULATION

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• Avoid punishments and distraction techniques like:• Time Out• Banning Behaviors

•Try these instead:• Time In• Simple, direct language• Restorative Consequences• Offer replacement

behaviors

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DURING INITIAL SIGNS OF ESCALATIONTake a breath…•Then Offer Help

• Stay Calm• Give them attention• Ask, “Is everything alright?”• Listen• Validate their feelings• Help them to relax• Give choices

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When the child is in an escalated state:Stay Calm

Speak SoftlyGive them space

Acknowledge their feelings

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IN THE HEAT OF THE MOMENT

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WHEN THE STORM

SETTLESSupport the child

• Please remember that the child may still be processing what just happened.

• Offer support and reassurance• Help the child to save-face• Offer options• Begin problem solving• Talk about emotion regulation for the future• Remind the child they can try again

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RELATIONSHIP BUILDING

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Just as rain doesn’t create drought, feasts don’t create hunger and generosity doesn’t

create poverty;Meeting a child’s needs for attachment,

attention, and affection in childhood doesn’t create needy adults.

JUST THE OPPOSITE, in fact.

A child whose emotional needs are nourished tends to grow into an emotionally healthy

adult, in the same way, a child whose physical needs are nourished tends to grow into a

physically healthy adult.

It is Unmet Needs that create need, not met needs.

~ L.R. Knost

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RESOURCESEducation is a path to permanency

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• National Child Traumatic Stress Network www.nctsnet.org• The Adverse Childhood Experiences Study (ACE) www.acestudy.org• ACES Primer, Paper Tigers, Resilience by KPJR Films. kpjrfilms.co• SELF-REG: How to Help Your Child (and You) Break the Stress Cycle and Successfully

Engage with Life by Dr. Stuart Shanker with Teresa Barker• Transforming the Difficult Child: The Nurtured Heart Approach by Howard Glasser and

Jennifer Easley www.difficultchild.com• Making Space for Learning: Trauma Informed Practice in Schools by the Australian Childhood

Foundation https://professionals.childhood.org.au/resources/• Helping Traumatized Children Learn (Massachusetts Advocates for Children)

https://traumasensitiveschools.org/tlpi-publications/download-a-free-copy-of-helping-traumatized-children-learn/

• Effects of Traumatic Events on Children from the Child Trauma Academywww.childtrauma.org

• Why Do We Punish Children? https://www.alfiekohn.org/blogs/whypunish/• US Department of Health and Human Services -

https://www.childwelfare.gov/pubPDFs/signs.pdf• Mayo Clinic - https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/child-abuse/symptoms-

causes/syc-20370864?p=1• Helpguide.org - https://www.helpguide.org/articles/abuse/child-abuse-and-neglect.htm

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DCS Education Services

Melaina Gant, M.Ed.Director, Education ServicesESSA State POC - DCSIndiana Department of Child ServicesEmail: [email protected]

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