the popcorn guide 2 life design workshop
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Workshop based on my book "The Popcorn Guide to Life Design" (http://igg.me/p/164275?a=834346)TRANSCRIPT
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This! Let’s do
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Who is
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Venezuelan/Portuguese
Lisbon
Popcorn Machine
Green-Freak XP Design hipster
Dey Dos? Former PAI
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LIFE DESIGN
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10 THINGS NOBODY TOLD YOU ABOUT DESIGNING THE LIFE YOU WANT
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1. BIG CHANGES START from WITHIN
2. Stop asking “who am i?”
3. Choose to believe
4. Don’t give a damn!
5. Company matters, a lot!
6. There is no other moment
7. Just SAY “YES” TO SOMETHING
8. Do what you say you’re going to do
9. HAPPY ENDINGS are real
10. Trust that life is wise
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Things do not change;
we change. “
~ Henry David Thoreau
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1. BIG CHANGES START from WITHIN
2. Stop asking “who am i?”
3. Choose to believe
4. Don’t give a damn!
5. Company matters, a lot!
6. There is no other moment
7. Just SAY “YES” TO SOMETHING
8. Do what you say you’re going to do
9. HAPPY ENDINGS are real
10. Trust that life is wise
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our beliefs, assumptions, values, expectations, and general outlooks.
we aren’t particularly conscious of many of these elements in our daily lives.
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It is the operation of these processes on unconscious levels that most strongly influences the way we live our lives!
our beliefs, assumptions, values, expectations, and general outlooks.
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our beliefs, assumptions, values, expectations, and general outlooks.
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They become self-reinforcing because when more often one of them “comes true,” the
more absolute it becomes in the subconscious, and the less subject it is to be questioned.
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Imagine that your brain is a kind of computer that takes every input quite literally.
Whatever the “software” tells it to do, it does, and behavior is subtly affected.
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If we continue to believe as we have always believed, we will continue to act as we have always acted.
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Share a dream you have that you believe your current actions can propel forward...
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How can I finish whatever I’m doing now with a strong sense of accomplishment?
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It is important to note that you don’t need to believe that this is true for it to work. Merely acting as if it is so for a month or
two can make the difference.
Changing the Programming
Pay close attention to subtle changes in what you are getting out of Life will prove it!
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THAT STANDS in MY WAY THAT THING THAT I DO
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THAT reinforces this “thingy” that I do what is the belief I host
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THAT propels me forward THAT THING THAT I DO
! Let it pop! Specific, outcome
focused, positive, as if true!
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THAT reinforces this new behavior what is it that I believe in
? Let it pop! Specific, outcome
focused, positive, as if true!
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As a daily affirmation, to be repeated several times a day
(during sessions, going to the meals, passwords, etc.) for two
weeks minimum, in order to reprogram unconscious cognitive
processes.
How to use this popcorn?
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As an aspirin, whenever you find that
you are engaging in your inhibiting behaviors, to remind your subconscious mind of the choices that you are making.
How to use this popcorn?
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1. BIG CHANGES START from WITHIN
2. Stop asking “who am i?”
3. Choose to believe
4. Don’t give a damn!
5. Company matters, a lot!
6. There is no other moment
7. Just SAY “YES” TO SOMETHING
8. Do what you say you’re going to do
9. HAPPY ENDINGS are real
10. Trust that life is wise / <
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It is easy in the world to live after the world’s opinion;
it is easy in solitude to live after our own;
but the great man is he who in the midst of the crowd keeps with perfect sweetness the independence of solitude.
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~ Ralph Waldo Emerson
Who the F*ck am I?
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ego identity
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I am in the process of becoming...
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“...They have the courage to be imperfect.”
Brene Brown
Wholehearted People
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“...They were willing to let go of who they think they should be in order to be
who they were...”
Brene Brown
Wholehearted People
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Wisdom is falling in love with Questions
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Not questions to be answered.
Answers point to the past!
Questions that serve as guides.
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I am in the process of becoming. I’m not static.
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Who you are – the answer to the question – it’s only a linguistic construction.
Your True Self transcends language.
Shifting the paradigm
Pay close attention to how often you feel the need to express your true self
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What am I defending here
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offended Why am I feeling
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Use these questions every time they are
needed, when you know that you are being defensive or you are
feeling offended.
How to use this popcorn?
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When you consciously look for inspiration your senses will lean forward to do the work for you. And by "consciously look for," I mean that we approach being alive as a creative opportunity.
And by "being inspired," I mean that we consume what touches us. We drink in the beauty, the thrill, the intelligence, and we let it plump up the cells of our heart and thoughts. We are changed.
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~ Danielle de la Porte
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1. BIG CHANGES START from WITHIN
2. Stop asking “who am i?”
3. Choose to believe
4. Don’t give a damn!
5. Company matters, a lot!
6. There is no other moment
7. Just SAY “YES” TO SOMETHING
8. Do what you say you’re going to do
9. HAPPY ENDINGS are real
10. Trust that life is wise / <
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choice beliefs
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“I believe that... _____”
Me.
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“I choose to believe that...______”
Me.
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To truly listen
is to risk being changed
forever.
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~ Sakej Henderson
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1. BIG CHANGES START from WITHIN
2. Stop asking “who am i?”
3. Choose to believe
4. Don’t give a damn!
5. Company matters, a lot!
6. There is no other moment
7. Just SAY “YES” TO SOMETHING
8. Do what you say you’re going to do
9. HAPPY ENDINGS are real
10. Trust that life is wise
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Let go of your
reputation
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“what other people think of you,
it’s not of your business” Seth Godin
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“courage is to tell the story of who you are with your
whole heart” Brene Brown
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Shame vs. Guilt
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Shame needs of 3 things to grow exponentially: • Silence • Secrecy • Judgment
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I refuse to lower my standards
to accommodate those
who refuse to raise theirs. ~
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~ Steve Gamlin
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1. BIG CHANGES START from WITHIN
2. Stop asking “who am i?”
3. Choose to believe
4. Don’t give a damn!
5. Company matters, a lot!
6. There is no other moment
7. Just SAY “YES” TO SOMETHING
8. Do what you say you’re going to do
9. HAPPY ENDINGS are real
10. Trust that life is wise / <
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The most
talented person in
the room
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We spend too much time with those who poison us with pessimism, sloth, and low expectations of themselves and
the world.
It is often the case that you have to fire certain friends or retire from particular social circles to have the life
you want.
This is not being mean; it is being practical!
Poisonous people do not deserve your time.
To think otherwise is masochistic. Timothy Ferris
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Who are the 20% of the people who produce 80% of my enjoyment and propel
me forward, and which 20% cause 80% of my depression, anger and preoccupations?
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average You become the
Of the 5 people you spend more time with...
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Your mind! Even if it’s only in
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If you are depressed, you are living in the past.
If you are anxious, you are living in the future.
If you are at peace, you are living in the present. ~
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~ Lao Tzu
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1. BIG CHANGES START from WITHIN
2. Stop asking “who am i?”
3. Choose to believe
4. Don’t give a damn!
5. Company matters, a lot!
6. There is no other moment
7. Just SAY “YES” TO SOMETHING
8. Do what you say you’re going to do
9. HAPPY ENDINGS are real
10. Trust that life is wise
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Power of The
NOW!
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When the forms of an old culture are dying,
the new culture is created by a few people who are
not afraid to be insecure.
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~ Rudolf Bahro
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1. BIG CHANGES START from WITHIN
2. Stop asking “who am i?”
3. Choose to believe
4. Don’t give a damn!
5. Company matters, a lot!
6. There is no other moment
7. Just SAY “YES” TO SOMETHING
8. Do what you say you’re going to do
9. HAPPY ENDINGS are real
10. Trust that life is wise
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Learn to say
NO!
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Only learning to let go have I
learned to let come...
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What to do! I don’t know
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I don’t walk the talk anymore...
My walk is my talk! “
~ Dey Dos
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1. BIG CHANGES START from WITHIN
2. Stop asking “who am i?”
3. Choose to believe
4. Don’t give a damn!
5. Company matters, a lot!
6. There is no other moment
7. Just SAY “YES” TO SOMETHING
8. Do what you say you’re going to do
9. HAPPY ENDINGS are real
10. Trust that life is wise
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BEING Consistent
& Congruent
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Do not let your fire go out, spark by irreplaceable spark in the hopeless swaps of the not quite, the not yet, and the not at all.
Do not let the hero in your soul perish in lonely frustration for the life you deserved and have never been able to reach.
The world you desire can be won.
It exists. It is real. It is possible.
It is yours!
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~ Ayn Rand
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1. BIG CHANGES START from WITHIN
2. Stop asking “who am i?”
3. Choose to believe
4. Don’t give a damn!
5. Company matters, a lot!
6. There is no other moment
7. Just SAY “YES” TO SOMETHING
8. Do what you say you’re going to do
9. HAPPY ENDINGS are real
10. Trust that life is wise / <
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Joy &
Happiness are NOT the
Same!
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All the world is made of faith,
and trust, and pixie dust.
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~ Peter Pan
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1. BIG CHANGES START from WITHIN
2. Stop asking “who am i?”
3. Choose to believe
4. Don’t give a damn!
5. Company matters, a lot!
6. There is no other moment
7. Just SAY “YES” TO SOMETHING
8. Do what you say you’re going to do
9. HAPPY ENDINGS are real
10. Trust that life is wise
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Life herself is my BEST
FRIEND
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Completely! Give yourself
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Life style So, What’s the
You want?
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@Dey_dos
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Love tons Let it pop &