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Welcome to Dulles SHRMEmotional Intelligence
for Leadership Effectiveness
Linda J. Ferguson, Ph.D.http://www.linkedin.com/in/lindajferguson
Feb. 15, 2012
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Learning objectives
• A working knowledge of Emotional Intelligence and why it is important for personal and professional success.
• An understanding of the five competencies related to Emotional Intelligence
• An understanding of how to apply Emotional Intelligence to Leadership regarding decision making and leading teams
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Leadership Effectiveness
What came from your table discussion?
“Each relationship you have with
another person reflects the relationship
you have with yourself” Alice DeVille
How does this apply to Leadership?
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“We are being judged by a new yardstick; not just how smart we are, or by our training and expertise, but also how well we handle ourselves and each other.”
Daniel Goleman, Ph.D.Working with Emotional Intelligence, 1998
Emotional Intelligence
CRM
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Goleman’s Research• Why do people with high IQ sometimes
flounder while those with modest IQ do surprisingly well?
• Emotional Intelligence provides a foundation for emotional competencies that is a solid predictor of job performance and workplace success.
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What is Emotional Intelligence?
Emotional intelligence is not about being nice all the time.• It is about being honest.
Emotional intelligence is not about being “touchy-feely.”• It is about being aware of your feelings, and those of
others.
Emotional intelligence is not about being emotional.• It is about being smart with your emotions.
• Strong link in brain between reasoning and emotions
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Personal Benefits ofEmotional Intelligence
• Greater career success
• Stronger personal relationships
• Increased optimism and confidence• Positive Psychology
• Better health
CRM
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Personal Emotional Skills:
First three E.Q. Competencies:
• Self Awareness• Self Regulation- Managing Your Own
Emotions• Self Motivation
“When our center is strong everything else is secondary,
even the risks” Ellie Wiesel, Nobel Peace Prize winner
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Professional Benefits ofEmotional Intelligence
• Effective leadership skills
• Improved communication
• Less workplace conflict
• Better problem solving skills
• Increased likelihood of promotion
CRM
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E.I. Social Competence
Other Oriented Emotional Skills:• Empathy - Recognizing and Understanding
Other’s Feelings• Influence Others• Commitment from others• Awareness of Emotional Feedback from
Others – Social Cues
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The Five Essential Competencies of Emotional Intelligence
• Self-Awareness
• Self-Regulation
• Self-Motivation
• Empathy
• Social Skills for Effective Relationships
Relate to Ourselves
Relate to Others
CRM
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CRM
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Emotional Literacy
• How Many Different Emotions Do You Know?
• Can you identify when you are feeling them?
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CRM
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“If we are in a heightened state of agitation or anger we cannot make good decisions, we cannot reason well.”
Christine CasperCommunication, Motivation
& Management Inc.
CRM
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Self-RegulationPeople who can regulate their own emotions have
the following characteristics:
• Self-control– Manages impulsive feelings and emotions– Stays composed– Thinks clearly under pressure
• Conscientious– Meets commitments, keeps promises– Is accountable– Organized and careful in work
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Paying attention to your Triggers
• Your emotions come from within you.They come from your beliefs and values, biochemistry, past programming from
childhood, and life experiences
• Be aware of, and learn to manage, your own emotional “triggers” or “hot buttons”
Myth- Others can make you feel a certain way
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CRM
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Self-Motivation
People who are Self-motivated show these qualities:
• Achievement drive– Results oriented– Set challenging goals– Pursues continuous improvement
• Committed – align personal and organizational goals– Readily makes personal or group sacrifices to meet
larger goals– Has sense of purpose– Use core values to make decisions
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• Initiative– Ready to act on opportunities
• Optimistic– Persistence in pursuing goals– Operates from hope of success rather than fear of
failure– Sees setbacks as manageable rather than a personal
flaw
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Focus on what You Can Do
• What can you do differently, new, or better to shape a different outcome?
• What can you let go of so you don’t waste energy on things that get in the way?
• What emotions do you need to release to move forward with more energy?
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Circle of Influence vs. Circle of Concern
Circle of ControlCircle of InfluenceCircle of Concern
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CRM
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“If people will stop for a moment and put themselves in another person’s shoes…it will help them modify their own behavior. It will help them develop relationshipswith those people.”
Darryl Grigg, Ed.D.Co-Developer,
American Express Emotional Competence Program
CRM
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Empathy vs. Sympathy
• Pathos = Feelings• Empathy – Understanding another’s
feelingsEmpathy is about awareness and
understanding of feelings not agreeing with someone who has those feelings
• Sympathy – Sharing another’s feelings in that situation
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& SOCIAL SKILLS
CRM
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Creating Effective Relationships:
Employ all your emotional competencies – awareness, regulation, motivation, and empathy – to:
• Influence and persuade others.
• Build consensus and support for team goals.
• Motivate and inspire yourself and others to achieve those goals.
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"And so there's a real pay-off. The people who will become the leaders, the people who will become the star performers, are the ones who have the strengths in the key emotional intelligence abilities."
Daniel Goleman, Ph.D.Founder,
Emotional Intelligence Services
CRM
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Summary and Quiz Five Essential Competencies of
Emotional Intelligence• Self-_______
• Self-_______
• Self-_______
• _______
• _______________
Relate to Ourselves
Relate to Others
Awareness
Regulation
Motivation
Empathy
Social Skills
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Application
Leadership Effectiveness:
Using the 5 Competencies for
Decision Making
Leading Teams
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E.I. for Leadership
• Discuss and Report out 3 ways your E.Q. Competency would help a leader make better decisions
• Discuss and Report out 3 ways your E.Q. Competency helps leaders effectively lead teams
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Decision Making
Self Awareness:
Self Regulation:
Self Motivation:
Decision Making
Empathy:
Social Skills:
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Leading Teams
Self Awareness:
Self Regulation:
Self Motivation:
Leading Teams
Empathy:
Social Skills:
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