x3 pure men's chapt 12a
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Session 12: X3pure Men’s SeriesRecovery Target #2: Seeking, Establishing & Engaging in Community
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Review
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ReviewUnwanted Sexual Behavior
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Review
White-Knuckle Change||
Abstinence||
Relapse
Real Change||
Understanding of Physiology||
Abstinence||
Acceptance of Conditional Love||
Pursuit of Unconditional Love
Unwanted Sexual Behavior||
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Last Session
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• Psychological Examination of Feelings
Last Session
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• Psychological Examination of Feelings
Last Session
- The need for constant and continual exploration of the feelings we
have about ourselves.
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• Psychological Examination of Feelings
Last Session
- The need for constant and continual exploration of the feelings we
have about ourselves.
- The “structural void”
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• Psychological Examination of Feelings
Last Session
- The need for constant and continual exploration of the feelings we
have about ourselves.
- The “structural void”
• Sexual Addiction
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• Psychological Examination of Feelings
Last Session
- The need for constant and continual exploration of the feelings we
have about ourselves.
- The “structural void”
• Sexual Addiction- We are addicted when we have turned sex into an idol, which means
that we have come to rely on sex or sexual activities, as a source of
unconditional love instead of friends, family, community or God Himself.
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Seeking, Establishing & Engaging in Community
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Seeking, Establishing & Engaging in Community
• If the addicted man wants to recover, despite how painful it may feel he must seek, establish and engage in community.
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Building A New Life
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Building A New Life
• To recover means that we need to break up our old life. Not only do we need to see ourselves the way God sees us – worthwhile, lovable, and important – but we need to have people around us that see us that way as well. This is the true nature of converting conditional love into unconditional love.
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Areas of Genuine Community
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Areas of Genuine Community
• Accountability Partners
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Areas of Genuine Community
• Accountability Partners
- Your “go to” person when you’re feeling conditionally loved and need unconditional love.
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Areas of Genuine Community
• Accountability Partners
- Your “go to” person when you’re feeling conditionally loved and need unconditional love.
- Multiple accountability partners.
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Areas of Genuine Community
• Accountability Partners
- Your “go to” person when you’re feeling conditionally loved and need unconditional love.
- Multiple accountability partners.
- Work on branching out by telling people your story.
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Areas of Genuine Community
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• Support Groups
Areas of Genuine Community
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• Support Groups
- A community of supportive and unconditionally loving men is what you
need in order to feel worthy, responsible, and loved.
Areas of Genuine Community
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• Support Groups
- A community of supportive and unconditionally loving men is what you
need in order to feel worthy, responsible, and loved.
- Sex Addicts Anonymous
Areas of Genuine Community
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• Support Groups
- A community of supportive and unconditionally loving men is what you
need in order to feel worthy, responsible, and loved.
- Sex Addicts Anonymous
Areas of Genuine Community
- Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous
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• Support Groups
- A community of supportive and unconditionally loving men is what you
need in order to feel worthy, responsible, and loved.
- Sex Addicts Anonymous
Areas of Genuine Community
- Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous
• Start a support group
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Areas of Genuine Community
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• If the cause of your sexual addiction was a break or rupture in the bond between you and another person at a very young age, like your mother or father, the solution to your addiction is finding ways to repair or rebuild similar bonds with other people.
Areas of Genuine Community
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• If the cause of your sexual addiction was a break or rupture in the bond between you and another person at a very young age, like your mother or father, the solution to your addiction is finding ways to repair or rebuild similar bonds with other people.
Areas of Genuine Community
• The shame that causes and perpetuates sexual addiction comes from isolation; the pride and honor that causes recovery comes from seeking, establishing, and engaging in community.
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Farewell
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Farewell
• Next Session: Truth, Trust, and Territory