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    Reem KanaanPh.D.Anatomy and Cell Biology. Temple University School ofMedicine, Philadelphia, PA, USA

    Post Doctoral Fellow, University of Pennsylvania, School of Medicine,

    Philadelphia, PA, USA.

    Erasmus Mundus master of bioethics-Belgium-Italy-Holland

    Dialogue with my unbeliever friend

    by Mustafa Mahmud (with modifications)

    Chapter One

    Who Created the Creator?

    My friend is a social man, he is talkative, and he always gets engaged

    in dialogs and debates. He thinks that we silly believers live on fantasias,

    fooling our selves with paradise dream, wasting all pleasures of this life.

    This friend has Ph.D from France.

    He dose not believe in God so he asked me:

    You believe in God existence, and your strongest evidence is that every

    created thing has a creator. Thus fabrics are evidence for the presence of

    the tailor, paint is evidence for the presence of the painter, and the universe

    is evidence for the presence of God. I will use this same rationale to ask

    who created the Creator?

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    I answered: You are admitting that God is the creator then you ask

    who created the creator. Thus, you think of Him as creator and being

    created at the same time. This is controversy because God is either or.

    {Is then He, who creates as one who creates not}

    You are imagining the creator to be subject to the laws that apply only to the

    created creatures. Created creatures' live in certain time and space, while

    God has created time and space and thus he is above time and space. The

    laws of time and space do not apply to Him. God has created the law. It

    follows that we should not imagine Him to be subject to the law.

    A similar methodology of thinking to yours is found in the example of a man

    how created a doll that moves by battery. This man should also move by

    battery, similar to the doll that he has made, thinks the doll. Simply that is

    not correct, because the law that apply to what is made dose not apply to the

    maker. However, if the doll has not seen the man it will assume that he

    needs the battery to move. When told that the man moves with no battery the

    doll refuses to accept that fact. It simply does not make sense to me, the doll

    said.

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    A German philosopher said "mans brain is able to understand phenomenon

    and partial facts, but is incapable to understand what is beyond such as God

    existence. We know God by our conscious.

    Aristotle believed thatchair is made from wood, wood from trees, tree from

    seeds, so its like a chain. He continued with this rationale until he came to

    the conclusion that his chain must end up at a creator how is not in need for

    creation.

    God is the proof thus he dose not need a proof.

    God existence is obvious in the organization, accuracy, and beauty present in

    all His creations. His Greatness is manifested in the magnificence of

    creatures such as the leaves of trees, the feathers of birds, the day and the

    night, stars and planets.

    If people claim creation to chance, they will be similar to whom who

    imagines that letters thrown in air will assemble themselves forming a poem

    as good as Shakespeares poem but, without an author.

    God said

    {God is only one, God is the self-sufficient master, whom all creatures

    needs, he begets not, nor was he begotten, and there is none co-equal or

    comparable to Him}

    My friend asked:

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    Why do you believe that God is one? Why could not He be more than one?

    i.e. two or three? Each God has his own specialty?

    We say God is one because the whole universe is created following a

    similar plan. Hydrogen atoms were formed by Fujin; similar to the atomic

    energy that irradiates from stars that were formed by the exact same way.

    All life components were formed from carbon compounds. All can burn to

    carbon.

    All creatures were created following similar anatomical plan. Hence, the

    anatomy of the frog rabbit pigeon, crocodile, and whale is similar.

    All creatures have similar veins, arteries, heart cambers, bone, digestive

    system, urinary system, and reproductive system. The simple unit which is

    the cell behaves similarly in animals, plants, man, ameba (breath, proliferate,

    differentiate).

    {Do people not think deeply in their own selves (about them selves) how

    Allah created them from nothing and similarity}

    The unity of the creation reflects the unity of the creator.

    God is the self-sufficient. He dose not need any other God to complete Him.

    Only un-complete creatures need to be in multiples.

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    If there is more than one God, then they would have fight with each other.

    They will differ and each one of them would have kept what He created for

    him self. Hence the universe would have been damaged.

    {No son (or offspring) did Allah beget, nor is there any God along with

    Him. (I f there has been many Gods), then each God would have taken

    away what He had created, and some would have tried to overcome

    others! Glorified is Allah above all that they attribute to him!}

    {High exalted is Allah above all that they associate as partners (to Him)}

    {Is there any God with Allah? Say: Bring forth your proof, if you are

    truthful}

    My friend asked: Is it not strange that this God intrusive with every detail in

    our life? He is watching the camel in the desert, he is watching the bee

    sucking honey from the flower and taking habitation in the mountains, He is

    watching the fish swimming in the sea. Moreover, He knows when a leaf

    falls from the tree; He knows how many fruits the tree has! And He knows

    when a female gets pregnant and when she is going to deliver a baby! He

    also knows when a man falls on the ground and when a fly falls in soap pan!

    When the rain dose not fall down, it is because God did not order it to fall!

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    When the phone does not ring its because God did not want it to ring! Is not

    God more important than caring about those things? Is not He too busy with

    silly things?

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    I answered: do you believe a better God will be one who has relieved

    Himself from responsibilities and took few days off! Do you believe a better

    God is one who do not see or hear or answer our prayers! Do you believe a

    better God is one who does not care of His creatures? Who are we to decide

    for God which subject worth attention and which does not?

    The fly that you consider as insignificant creature might spread diseases

    such as cholera. If cholera did spread during war; one party might win the

    war over the other. Didn't Alexander the great die by mosquito bite! On one

    hand the smallest events might lead to the greatest results. On the other

    hand very dangerous events might end up without any consequences.

    God who disserves to be God is one who knows every single detail in the

    universe, even if it is as small as an atom. He is a creator who takes care of

    His creatures.

    {God is ever encompassing all things}

    {He manages and regulates affairs from heavens to the earth}

    {Neither you do any deed nor recite any portion of the Quran - nor you

    (mankind) do any deed (good or evil) but We are witness thereof, when

    you are doing it. And nothing is hidden from your Lord (so much as the

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    weight of an atom on the earth or in the heaven. Not what is less than

    that or what is greater than that but is written in a clear record}.

    Chapter Two

    If My Deeds are Distend to be My Deeds, why do God J udge me For

    Doing Them?

    My friend said: you claim that God is aware of every incident in His

    kingdom. Every event or action runs according to His well. Moreover, it is

    all recorded. If my actions are all Distend to be mine why does God

    question me about them?

    Do not claim that I have freedom and I can get to choose, I did not choose

    when I was born, or when I well die, I did not choose my nationality, I did

    not choose my height, I did not choose my skin color, I did not choose when

    the sun rise or when the sun set. If I am a criminal isn't that what God

    wanted for me to be?

    I answered: your actions are known by God but they were not imposed on

    you by Him. An example put forward is: If you know that your son will fail

    in school, and then at the end of the year he does fail, you did not force him

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    to fail but you knew he will fail. Your assumption that you were not given

    freedom (since you did not choose your date of birth, sex, or height and

    because you are unable to change the course of the sun) is dependent on the

    way you view freedom. You are talking about absolute freedom. This

    absolute freedom is limited to God. We Muslims agree with you my friend,

    that humans were not given this absolute freedom.

    {And your lord creates whatsoever He wills and chooses: no choice have

    they. Glorified isAllah, and exalted above all that they associate (as

    partners with him)}.

    Thus, no one can choose in matters related to creation this is only in Gods

    hands. For this reason God is not going to ask you about your being short.

    He is not angry or pleased with you for being tall. God will only question

    you about your actions and responsibilities. This is the window of freedom

    that we believe in. Because you get to choose your actions, you are going to

    be asked about them.

    You are free in controlling your desires, anger, and in resisting bad

    deeds that are so appealing to you. You are free to give your money to

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    charity. You are free to tell the truth even if your only ways out of trouble is

    to lie. You are free not to take advantage of other people weaknesses. You

    are free not to say bad words. This is the freedom God given to you and it is

    what He is going to ask you about. It is relative freedom not absolute. God

    (Allah) order you to do good deeds, however, you choose to obey, or

    disobey.

    {Verily, Allah enjoins justice and worshiping none but Allah alone and

    to be patient in performing your duties to Allah. Allah forbids evil

    deeds, e.g. illegal sexual acts, disobedience of parents, polytheism to tell

    lies. He admonishes you, that you may take heed}

    God has created within human both evil and good. It is up to the

    human to do the election; either to propagate good or propagate

    evil. That is why humans are superior to angles that have no choice

    other than being good. Unfortunately, the majority of humans

    choose not to respond to their good side. According to the

    Hobbesian approach: men are predators of one another.

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    If you my friend still questioning this freedom look inside yourself;

    naturally we feel responsible for our bad deeds consequently, we regret

    them. Moreover, we feel happiness and self satisfaction when we control

    our desires. At every minute in our life we choose between different

    possibilities using our minds. This is the mind's main task. We also do

    distinguish between the motions of our hand if it is shaking involuntary out

    of fever or voluntary when we are writing. If the two motions were imposed

    on us we would not have the ability to distinguish.

    Another evidence that we entertainthe relative freedom is that we can never

    force our hearts on things that they do not like. An example put forward is

    that you can beat a woman until she gives you her body, but you can never

    get her heart. God created hearts such that they are free. For this reason

    God looks at the heart intention when one is doing the action. Moreover,

    man is not punished for his worst actions if the heart intention was not in the

    action, thus the believer who is tortured and forced to say bad words about

    God is not going to be punished in the day after.

    {Whoever disbelieve in Allah after his believe, except him how is forced

    thereto and whose heart is at rest with faith; but such as open their

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    breast to disbelief, on them is wrath from Allah, and theirs will be a

    great torment}

    Some people think that human freedom is beyond God's well, this is

    not true. Man is free to act in a way that does not please God, but he can't

    act against God's well. God gave us freedom that is beyond his satisfaction

    so we disobey him, but God did not give us freedom that is beyond his well.

    All our actions are encompassed within God's well even if it is against Gods

    satisfaction.

    God choose to give us freedom, we did not force Him to give us freedom,

    thus our freedom is God's well.

    {But you cannot will, unless Allah wills. Verily, Allah is ever all-

    knowing, all-wise.}

    Because our will is included in God's will and is a gift from him, then there

    is no competition between the two wills.

    Another related point is that some people think that the destiny is

    enforced on man kind against man's will and nature. God has refuted this

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    idea stating that if He wanted mankind not to have the freedom of choice He

    would have done so.

    {If We will, We could send down to them from the heaven a sign, to

    which they would bend their necks in humility}

    Thus if God wanted He could have forced all people to become believers.

    Clearly this is not the way of Allah.

    {There is no compulsion in religion. Verily the right path has become

    distinct from the wrong path. Whoever disbelieves in worshiping

    anything other than Allah and worship Allah, then he has grasped the

    most trustworthy handhold that will never break. And Allah is All-

    hearer, All-knower}

    {And had your lord willed, those on earth would have believed, all of

    them together. So will you (O Mohammed) then compel mankind, until

    they become believers}

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    Each man's destiny matches his own heart intention. God's will for a certain

    person is based on thats person will and heart intention.

    {Whoever desires (by his deeds) the reward of the hereafter, We give

    him increase in his reward, and whoever desires (by his deeds) the

    reward of this world, We give him thereof (what is decreed for him),

    and he has no portion in the hereafter}

    {In their hearts is a disease (of doubt and hypocrisy) and Allah has

    increased their disease. A painful torment is theirs because they used to

    tell lies}

    {While as for those who accept guidance, He increases their guidance

    and bestows on them their piety}

    Also in Quran God address the prisoners of war.

    {If Allah knows any good in your hearts, He will give you something

    better than what has been taken from you, and He will forgive you, and

    Allah is Oft-forgiving, most merciful}

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    God leads us to what we choose by our hearts; there is no enforcement

    against our will, or opposite to our nature

    {As foe him who gives (in charity) and keeps his duty to Allah and fears

    Him, and believes in the best. We will make smooth for him the path of

    ease (goodness). But he who is greedy miser and thinks himself self-

    sufficient. And denies the best. We will make smooth for him the path

    of evil}

    Man has the heart intention while God enable him to do what is in his heart.

    If the heart intention is good God enables the man to do good. If the heart

    intention is bad God enables him to do badly. However, human freedom

    dose not have steady state levels. It can increase or decrease.

    The first method by which human beings can increase their freedom is

    science, hence they are ordered to increase their knowledge.

    {Read! in the name of your Lord}

    {He (Allah) has taught man that which he knew not}

    {Assembly of jinn and men! I f you have power to pass beyond the zones

    of the heavens and the earth, then pass beyond them}

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    By inventing transportation and communication means, man was capable to

    travel through and explore the universe. By studying climate man was

    capable to find a way to stay warm in winter and cold in summer. Man used

    science to increase his freedom and to meet various challenges.

    The second method by which human beings can increase their freedom is

    though their faith. By studying God constitution our Religious belief-

    becomes intersubjective, concrete, situated in time and place.

    We seek strength from God. We feel close to Him when we pray and

    supplicate. This is how the prophets and good people lead their life. They

    are rewarded by God's support, for example Prophet Solomon has employed

    Al jinn and the wind. He also talked to the birds by the help of God.

    Prophet Jesus razed died peaple, by God's help. God said

    {I (Jesus) have come to you with a sign from your lord, that I design for

    you out of clay, a figure like that of a bird, and breathe into it and it

    becomes a bird by Allah's leave, and I heal him who was born blind,

    and the leper, and I bring the dead to life by Allah's leave}

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    Prophet Moses split the sea

    {Then we revealed to Musa (Moses) (saying): Strike the sea with your

    stick. and it parted, and each separate part became like a huge

    mountain}

    In addition to prophets good people also receives God support.

    Chapter Three

    Why Did God Created Evil

    My friend said: how do you claim that God is perfect, merciful, kind, and

    gracious, however He is the one how created all this Evil in the universe?

    How do you explain illness, elderly, death, earthquakes, hurricanes,

    microbes, poison, high temperature, very cold winter and very harsh

    summer, ext.

    If God loves beauty and goodness how could He create ugliness, hatred and

    Evil?

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    This issue is one of the principle debates that have been studied by

    many philosophical schools. Those schools have come up with many

    different opinions. We say that God is all mercy and goodness, however He

    allows Evil.

    God only ordered justice, love, forgiveness, beneficence. God does not

    accept any deeds but good deed. The question that posits itself is why did

    not God stop the killer from killing and the thief from stealing?

    It's because God gave us freedom. Freedom encompasses mistakes. Giving

    us freedom is meaningless if we did not get to choose between right and

    wrong, and if we don't have the right to try good and bad.

    In God constitution it is stated that freedom is accompanied with pain.

    Freedom ranks man kind at much higher level than slavery with happiness.

    For this reason God did not stop us from doing wrong deed, suffer and learn.

    Even though God allows evil, He makes good a general rule while evil is an

    exception. Health is the rule, while sickness is the exception. We spend

    most of our lives healthy getting sick for few days only.

    Earthquick altogether resemble few minutes in the earth life span, which is

    counted by millions of years, similar to volcanoes.

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    Wars constitute short intervals of the long peaceful periods of nation's lives.

    Next we think that every story has two sides. Getting sick will boost the

    immune system. Feeling pain will strengthen ones patience and tolerance.

    Earth quick reduces the pressure that is inside the earth thus protecting the

    earth crust from exploding. Earth quick also creates mountains that fasten

    the earth.

    Volcanoes release minerals hidden inside the earth and cover the earth crust

    with a very fertile soil. Wars intermingle different nations and assembled

    them in parties, such as world nation organizations. Moreover, many great

    inventions came out of wars, such as penicillin, atomic energy, missiles, and

    planes.

    From the snake poison a curing medicine is made.

    From microbe we make immunogen.

    If our grand parents did not die there would not be enough space for us to

    live.

    Evil in the universe is similar to the shadow in a picture. If one is looking

    very close to the picture he feels it ugly, but if he looked at the big picture

    from a distance he feels that it is necessary and is making the picture

    complete.

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    If we did not get sick we well never appreciate being healthy.

    If we did not know the exception we well never appreciate the dominant

    rule.

    One of the philosophers said: In the fact that universe is not perfect, lays its

    perfection. Because the universe is like a bended paw, if it straightens up it

    becomes unstable.

    Another importance of evil is that it differentiates good people from bad

    ones. A disaster constitutes the test that allows us to discover ourselves

    (how good we can be or how bad we can get). It is the challenge that sort

    people as good or bad.

    {God will not leave the believers in the state in which you are now, until

    he distinguishes the wicked from the good}

    Then I asked my friend what constitutes an alternative for evil? Do you want

    life without death, illness, or pain? Such life is total perfection. Total

    perfection is only to God and we are not God. A total perfect life is the life

    in paradise. What did you do to deserve paradise?

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    Chapter Four

    People who did not hear about the Quran do they go to Hill or

    Paradise?

    My friend said: What do you say about a man who did not hear the Quran?

    A person living an area where he had never seen a prophet such as the

    North Pole, is he going to hill? What did he do to join me in the hill? What

    will happen to him in the day of the resurrection? Is it his fault that he is not

    a Muslim?

    I answered: God's mercy is comprehensive and His wards reach every

    where and every one

    {And there never was a nation but a Warner had passed among them}

    {And verily, We sent among every nation a messenger proclaiming:

    Worship Allah alone, and avoid any thing besides Allah}

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    Messengers who were mentioned in Quran are not the only messengers that

    God had sent. There were thousands of messengers whom we know nothing

    about. God told His messenger Mohammed about them:

    {And, indeed We have sent messengers before you (O Mohammed) of

    some of them We have related to you their story. And of some We have

    not related to their story}

    God inspires all creatures, even the bees

    {And your Lord inspired the bees saying Take your habitations in the

    mountains and in the trees and in what they erect}

    This inspiration might be a book deliver to human being by the holy spirit

    (J ibrael), it might be inspiration that one feels lightning his heart, it might be

    inspiration that relief one's conscience from any hardship, it might be

    wisdom, science, and obedience to Allah.

    Any person who has hearing and seeing if he chooses to listen and look, will

    be inspired from Allah the most acquainted, but people who choose not to

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    see, and not to hear, their hearts are not going to benefit from any kind of

    inspiration whether it is a book or a prophet or a miracle or what so ever.

    {They could not bear to hear (the preachers of truth) and they used not

    to see (the truth because of their severe aversion, inspire of the fact that

    they had the sense of hearing and sight) They are those who have lost

    their own selves}

    God will not be asked of what He does. On the other hand, we don't know

    how God is going to ask people in the day of the resurrection about their

    deeds. It might be that if the person living in the North Pole just took a look

    at the sky and asked God for guidance, that God will award him paradise.

    This man's look at the sky might be equivalent to our fast and pray.

    However, studying native African history reveals that they had their own

    messengers and scripture. For example, Al Maow Maow tribe, believes in

    one God that they call Mogabi, and they describe him to be the self-

    sufficient master, whom all creatures needs, he begets not, nor was he

    begotten, and there is none co-equal or comparable to him. They also

    believe that this God is unseen, creator, provider, and merciful. All these

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    names of Allah are mentioned in the Quran. It must be that a prophet was

    send to them, he warned them, and then with time deviations and

    superstition integrated with that message.

    Another tribe so called Nyiam Nyiam believes in one God that they call

    Mobli, they claim that every creature in the forest moves according to

    Mobli's will, Mobli sends thunder on evil people, while good ones get

    wages. Another tribe so called Shailook tribe believes in one God that they

    call Joak; they claim that Joak is every where, and he is the creator of the

    entire universe

    The origin of all these massages is similar. God religion is one religion.

    {Verily, those who believed and those who are J ews and Christians, and

    Sabians, whoever believed in Allah and the last day and does righteous

    good deeds shall have their reward with their Lord, on them shall be no

    fear, nor shall they grieve}

    The first and last guiding message that descended to earth was Islam

    (Literally means surrendering to God). Islam encompasses all religions.

    {The religion of God is Islam}

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    God knows that some people are born blind and some are born deaf. Some

    people lived in prophet Moses time, and saw him striking the sea with his

    stick. There are people who asked Jesus:Can your lord send down to us a

    table spread with food from heaven. Allah warned them

    {Allah said: "I am going to send it down to you but if any of you after

    that disbelieve , then I will punish him with a torment such as I have not

    inflicted on anyone among all the mankind and jinn}

    Miracles are always accompanied with increased torment for the one who

    see then denies.

    Thus, a person living in the North Pole is going to be asked with Oft-

    forgiveness that matches his looking to the sky while praying for Allah

    forgiveness. More over, prophet Mohammed said:" a man in whom is

    madness, sleep, or children are not judged for their actions in the day of

    resurrection. Hence, as much as man is capable to comprehend the

    message is as much as he will be asked about. And as much as man see

    miracle as much as he is torment. God descends mercy and forgiveness on

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    people based on there heart intentions. The Philosopher Giata said "the best

    ethics are the ones in the heart; there is no virtue without practice and no

    practice without Reflection on good. Prophet Mohamed said: belief is in the

    heart and is manifested via actions.

    {He knew what was in their hearts, and He send down calmness and

    tranquility upon them, and He rewarded them with a near victory}

    Also the answer to your question my friend is in this verse

    {And We (Allah) never punish until We have sent a messenger}

    Chapter Five

    Paradise and Hell

    My friend asked: how come God the most Gracious the most Merciful punish

    unbeliever with their limited sin (their life on this earth) by unlimited

    torment in hell?

    {They will be abide therein (Hell)}

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    What do we mankind represent to the universe and to God? Are not we so

    insignificant in comparison to the lord of mankind, jinn and all that exists?

    If we are nothing why does He care to punish us?

    I answered: mankind is not insignificant to God; Allah created Adam

    and Eve with His own hands; and blow from His soul into Adam. Then, He

    ordered the angles to prostrate themselves to Adam, and taught him the

    names of all things.

    {And indeed We have honored the children of Adam, and We have

    carried them on land and sea, and have provided them with lawful good

    things, and have preferred them to many of those whom We have

    created with a marked preferment}

    We are not insignificant in this universe: even though our size looks so small

    to the universe, we can comprehend the universe with our minds. We

    explored the Moon, and many other planets. Doesnt this mean that our soul

    is bigger than the universe? Doesnt this mean that our soul encompasses

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    the universe? Man is of great importance and he is from God's soul, and he

    worth being asked for his deeds.

    {Then He fashioned him in due proportion, and breathed into him the

    soul, and He gave you hearing, sight, and hearts. Little is the thanks

    you give!}

    Your other question concerning our limited sins which we are punished for

    by unlimited torment, this was explained in the verse that states:

    {If they were returned (to the world), they would certainly revert to that

    which they were forbidden. And indeed they are liars}

    Thus their sins are immortal consequently they will dwell in Hell forever.

    God also says about those who reject believing in him:

    {On the day when Allah will resurrect them all together (for their

    account); then they will swear to Him as they swear to you (O Muslims)

    and they think that they have something (to stand upon). Verily they

    are liars!}

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    This is clearly another way of mischief and disobedience towards God.

    They confront God with lies. Moreover, they swear to a lie while they

    know. This is the highest levels of prudent and arrogance. Those people's

    souls posses on going sin thereby they deserve disgrace and misery forever.

    This is justice and the verses says about them

    {Thus Allah will show them their deeds as regrets for them. And they

    will never get out of fire}

    One of the scholars said: the mercy given to those is that they get to be used

    to the fire and it becomes their natural habitat. Their soul nature matches the

    fire nature since these souls where full of envy, jealous, hatred, anger, and

    criminal sparks that feels as if it is a true fire. Such souls can not live in

    peace and living in hell in not unjustly in the least.

    We should understand that the hell fire is not exactly like earth fire. It is

    different since Allah says that people inside it talk, and a tree grows inside it

    too.

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    {(Allah will say: "Enter you in the company of nations who passed away

    before you, of men and jinn, into the fire." Every time a new nation

    enters, it curses its sister nation (that went before) until they will be

    gathered all together in fire. The last of them will say to the first of

    them:"Our lord! These misled us, so give them a double torment of the

    fire." He will say:" For each one there is double"}

    This hell is unknown and is also beyond human being brain-comprehension.

    This does not mean that we say that the torment is not materialistic, it's

    being materialistic is stated very clearly in Quran:

    {Surely! Those how disbelieved in our proofs, revelations, We shall burn

    them in fire. As often as their skins are roasted through, We shall

    change them for other skins that they may taste the punishment. Truly,

    Allah is ever most powerful, All-Wise}

    But we say that the torment is beyond human being understanding, similarly

    paradise is not like a forest, it is stated in Quran:

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    {An example of the paradise description which the believers have been

    promised (is that) in it are rivers of water the taste and smell of which

    are not changed, rivers of milk of which the taste and smell are not

    changed}

    God said{An example}. So it is just as example of how things are, not how

    they are indeed. It is example put forward for the human brain to imagine.

    This paradise is unknown and is also beyond human being brain; Allah did

    not disclose the secrets of the unseen. Moreover, we do not Know how

    exactly life in paradise will be.

    {No person knows what is kept hidden for them of joy as a reward for

    what they used to do}

    The origin of the rule is not to punish

    {Why should Allah punish you if you have thanked Him and have

    believed in Him. And Allah is Ever All-Appreciative (of good), All-

    knower}

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    God's way in this life is to punish unbelievers in order that they may repent

    and stop worshiping others besides Him (Allah).

    {And verily, We will make them taste of the near torment (i.e. the

    torment in the life of this world, i.e. disasters, calamities, etc.) prior to

    supreme torment (in the Hereafter), in order that they mayreturn

    (accept Islam)}

    God Mercy encompasses every thing including His torment.

    {He said my punishment Afflict therewith whom I will and My mercy

    embraces all things. That mercy I shall ordain for those how are the

    pious}

    Then I asked my friend: Do you think that God will be more justice if He

    treated all people equally! The killer and the victim! The oppressor and the

    oppressed? Is this fare?

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    Is Religion anesthetic?

    My friend asked: What do you think of the idea that religion is some kind of

    anesthesia that anaesthetizes poor and oppressedpeople? Those

    anaesthetized people will dream of paradise and happiness meanwhile rich

    people get richer. What do you think of the idea that religion did not

    descend from God but it escalate from the land due to social needs so that

    one class will control the other?

    I answered: There is nothing more wrong than the saying that religion

    is anesthetic drug. The religion is all about taking responsibilities and

    computing commandments from God. It is nothing about easiness or being

    irresponsibile; on the contrary it is fulfilling duties, obeying all the rules and

    regulations of the Islamic constitution.

    {And say do deeds! Allah will see your deeds}

    We say that Allah is the best disposer of our affairs, still one should take all

    reasons for success, working hard to achieve his goal; at the same time put

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    his trust in Allah. A believer knows that if he worked hard Allah will help

    him. Working hard is the condition for help because Allah does not like

    laziness.

    {Then when you have taken a decision, put your trust in Allah,

    certainly, Allah loves those who put their trust in Him}

    Making decisions should be based on studying all the possibilities,

    alternatives, capabilities, thorough thinking and Trusting God. Prophet

    Mohammed said (when he saw a man who lifts his camel untied because he

    thought that this is what putting trusting in Allah means): tie your camel and

    trust in Allah.

    Our religion is awareness, attention, self control and watching God in our

    actions, words, thoughts and moves. It entails studying outcomes and

    choosing honorable means to reach them. On the contrary, drug addicted

    person is the one who most likely denies religion so as not to abide by his

    duties and responsibilities; he worships his lusts. Moreover, drug addicted

    atheists imagine that they will not be asked about their deeds. Therefore,

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    atheists feel that they can do whatever they want to do; no matter how bad or

    evil their actions are.

    In the contrary a Muslim man considers himself responsible on his

    neighbors, community, and on any other Muslim or non Muslim even if he

    is living hundreds of miles away. Muslim man considers himself responsible

    for the cosmos.

    {Those who are faithfully true to all their duties (which Allah has

    ordained, honesty, moral responsibility and trusts) and to their

    covenants}

    It is not true that Islam did not descend from God but it escalated from

    the land due to social needs so that one class will control the other. The

    opposite is true. Islam came as a revolution against hoarding up money.

    {And those who hoard up gold and silver, and spend them not in the

    way of Allah, announce to them a painful torment}

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    Islam directly orders that money should not be circulating between rich.

    Moreover, a yearly 2.5% of one's saved money is a mandatory charity in

    Islam. A Muslim is encouraged to increase his spending on voluntary basis

    too.

    {Those who spend their wealth by night and day, in secret and in public,

    they shall have their reward with their Lord, on them shall be no fear,

    nor shall they grieve}

    {And they ask you what they aught to spend. Say: That which is beyond

    your need}

    {And they (believers) give food, in spite of their love for it, to the needy,

    the orphan, and the captive}

    Islam also considers that poor have rights in the money of rich. Thus it is

    not charity in the since that it is not a favor that the rich is paying towards

    the poor. Considering the mandatory charity as a right preserves the poor

    dignity, and to teach the rich humility.

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    {And in their properties their was right of the beggar who asks and the

    poor who does not ask others}

    Islam fights interest (usary) so that money does not gather in the hands of

    certain few minorities, while the majorities suffer.

    {O you who believe! Be afraid of Allah and give up what remains (due

    to you) from usury, if you are really believers. And if you do not do it,

    then take a notice of war from Allah and His messenger, but if you

    repent, you shall have your capital sums. Deal not un justly (by asking

    more than your capital sums), and you shall not be dealt with unjustly

    (by receiving less than your capital sums). And if the debtor is in hard

    time, then grant him time till it is easy for him to repay, but if you remit

    it by way of charity, that is better for you if you did but know}

    Islam came to fulfill social needs. Islam respected mankind, and

    raised him to the highest level. It considers one human being equivalent to

    the whole humanity

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    {If any one killed a person not in retaliation of murder, or to spread

    mischief in the land it would be as if he killed all mankind, and if any

    one saved a life, it would be as if he saved the life of all mankind}

    Man in Islam is secure in his house, free with his money, no one spays on

    him. No Muslim can speak badly (gossip) about other Muslim or non-

    Muslim. Sweet words and forgiving are the basics of how Muslims interact

    with others. No Muslim hates, hurts, or envies others.

    {And wish not for things in which Allah has made some of you excel

    others}

    {who repress anger, and who pardon men}

    {O you who believe! Let not a group scoffs at another group; it may be

    that the latter are better than the former. Nor let (some) woman scoff at

    other woman, it may be that the latter are better than the former. Nor

    defame one another, nor insult one another by nick names. How bad it

    is to insult one's brother after having faith. And whoever dose not

    repent, then such are indeed wrong-doers. O you who believe! Avoid

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    much suspicion; indeed some suspicions are sins. And spy not, neither

    backbite one another}

    No muslin should claim that he is preferred or superior over the others.

    Muslin is Modest. Show-off is forbidden.

    {And turn not your face away from men with pride, nor walk in

    insolence through the earth. Verily Allah likes not any arrogant

    boaster}

    Islam fights dictators, arrogant tyrant on the earth, corruptness.

    {So remind them (O Mohammed) you are only one who reminds. You

    are not a dictator over them}

    {The believers are nothing but brothers}

    Islam forbids worshiping rulers and people in authority

    {we worship non but Allah, and that we associate no partners with Him,

    and that none of us shall take others as Lords besides Allah}

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    {And your Lord has decreed that you worship non but Him}

    Islam forbids kissing up to people in power and following the misled

    majority

    {And Allah has full power and control over His affairs, but most of men

    Know not}

    {Yet most people believe not}

    {And if you obey most of those on earth, they will mislead you far away

    from Allah's. They follow nothing but conjectures, and they do nothing

    but lie}

    Islam forbids people from feeling that they are superior due to their race,

    color, nationality ext, stating that their origin is similar

    {It is He who has created you from a single self }

    And they are preferred according to their faith.

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    {Verily, the most honorable of you with Allah is that the believer who is

    pious}

    Islam takes a middle position between Judaism (the very strict

    religion) and Christianity (the very spiritual one). Moreover, Quran is both

    practical and spiritual book adopting middle position between Al Taurat

    (Torah-old testimony) which was rewritten until it became a very

    materialistic book and the Injeel (Gospel-new testimony) which was edited

    many times until it became a very spiritual and unrealistic.

    {Then woe to those who write the book with their own hands and then

    say, This is from Allah,"}

    Quran encompass both justice and forgiveness. It approves self defense but

    it encourage forgiveness and patience.

    {Let them pardon and forgive. Do you not love that Allah forgives you?

    And Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful}

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    Capitalism approves almost any method for earning money, to the

    extent that people became gritty, selfish, egocentric, and abusers for each

    other. On the contrary, Communism vanish human rights and freedom,

    killing ambition and hard work. Islam on the other hand is in-between

    system

    {Thus We have made you (true Muslims - real believers of Islam)

    Monotheism, a just nation}

    Contrary to Libertarianism which protects the property rights, claiming that

    we are autonomous hence we can own acquisitions as much as we want

    Muslims are free to earn, but he can not keep all his earning. 2.5% must be

    given away from the yearly saving. This mandatory charity is not a favor,

    instead it is the needy share in the rich money, it is the needy absolute right.

    {And those in whose wealth there is a recognized right}

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    Islam dose not restrict human mind to one absolute theory. It only state

    guide lines giving the mind all the space it needs to excel, think and expand.

    Followers accept Allah ordering them to think.

    {Do they not think deeply in the Quran, or are their hearts locked up}

    {Say: Travel in land and see how Allah will bring forth the creation of

    the hereafter (i.e. resurrection after death)}

    {So let man see from what he is created! he is created from water

    gushing forth, proceeding from between the backbone and the ribs}

    {Do they not look at the camels, how they are created? and at the

    heaven, how it is raised? and at the mountains, how they are rooted?

    and at the earth, how it is outspread}

    These all are direct orders to look to see how we are created, the animals,

    mountains, earth sky,...ext. There is no fear of expanding our thoughts, no

    limits for our minds. Prophet Mohammed said "seeking education is a mush

    by every Muslin; male or female". He also said Muslim should seek

    education starting by the minute he is born until the minute he dies.

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    Arabs were uncivilized,there level of knowledge at that time when Islam

    descended was so low that historians classify this period as the Dark Age of

    human history. Verses of the Quran invite the reader to reflect over his own

    being, the changing of seasons, plants, animals and the universe. Man kind

    did not have even the basic knowledge of science and technology. The

    common man did not know the art of reading and writing. As a result of

    Islam, Arabic nation became the leading nation that led the rest of the world

    towards science. There were scientists who excel in medicine, philosophy,

    math, chemistry, biology, anatomy, astronomy, etc. The whole world used

    to study literature written by Muslim scientists, who were motivated by their

    religion instructions. Up till now, stars have Arabic names. Up till now the

    distillation apparatus is called in French language (imbique) after the Arabic

    word imbiquer.

    Islam is the religion of science. People are asked to use science as a mean to

    get to know God. Seeking education is mandatory on the followers of Islam.

    The idea that religion conflicts with science came from the Dark Ages in

    Europe. Mocks in churches forbid science and executed many scientists. In

    Islam there are no Mocks, there are no mediators between the believer and

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    his God. No one can speak in the name of God. Various verses in Quran

    encourage people to study. Quran is a scientific miracle.

    {And say:"My lord! Increase me in knowledge"}

    {Say: "Are those who know equal to those know not?" It is only

    understanding who will remember}

    {Allah bears witness that (none has the right to be worshiped but He),

    and the angels, and those having knowledge}

    {Allah will exalt in degree those of you believe and those who have been

    granted knowledge}

    No conflict between Islam and science. The word science and its derivatives

    are repeated about 850 times in the holy Quran.

    Chapter Seven

    Islam or Christianity

    My friend said: J ust for the sake of argument I would say there is God. How

    do I know that God is the one whom Muslims acknowledge and not Jesus

    whom Christians acknowledge?

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    I answered: Christians and Muslims believe in Jesus, love him, and honor

    him. They are however divided over the question of his divinity.

    Fortunately, this difference can be resolved if we refer the question to both

    the Bible and the Quran, because both the Bible and the Quran teach that

    Jesus is not God.

    It is clear enough to every body that the Quran denies the divinity of Prophet

    Jesus, so we do not need to spend time over that. On the other hand the Bible

    clearly teaches that there is only one true God, the One whom Jesus

    worshiped (see John c.17 v.3).

    In no where in the Bible Jesus said: I am God

    In no where in the Bible Jesus said worship me

    In no where in the Bible Jesus said pray to me

    In no where in the Bible Jesus said he is the son of God

    In no where in the Bible Jesus said that he is personal savior

    In no where in the Bible Jesus said God is a trinity.

    Some body might said (son of God) about Jesus, but he did not say that in

    his own wards. Moreover, every one the Bible is son of God. Nothing

    though proofs biological relation between God and Jesus. If this is the

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    impression the bible wants us to make one would expect at least half or even

    one third of the bible would address that notion.

    Originally Christianity and Islam were one religion. Jesus lifts his eyes to

    heaven and prayed addressing God as a father: And eternal life means

    knowing You the only true God, and knowing Jesus Christ, whom you sent

    (John 17:3).

    Muslims first pillar is No God but one God, and Mohammed was messenger

    sent by God.

    God said in the Quran{Say: O people of Scripture! Come to an

    agreement between us and you: that we shall worship none but Allah,

    and that we shall ascribe no partners unto him, and that none of us shall

    take others for lords beside Allah} (3:46)

    Chapter Eight

    Quran the Miracle

    Could Mohammed be the Author of Quran?

    My friend asked: I do not want to look offensive; I know how muchyou love and respect Prophet Mohammed. But could not Mohammed with

    his great personality be the author of Quran? I might not believe he was a

    prophet but I have to admit that at least he was social reformer. I mean he

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    has enlightened humanity and lead it to the critical, scientific and

    methodological thinking. Could not Mohammed be the author of Quran?

    I answered: Quran is the living miracle of Mohammed.

    A miracle can be identified in various ways; for example: An act that can not

    be explained by laws of nature, an act that is beyond human power or

    capabilities, or an act that can not be explained by human reason and logic.

    It follows that since a miracle can not be attributed to the power of faculties

    of human kind. It must be regarded as direct act of Almighty Allah. Allah

    did bless each of his prophets with miracles. Thus, he established the

    credibility of his prophets beyond any shadow of doubt.

    History tells that every prophet was given numerous miracles for the people

    whom he was to call for God straight path.

    Prophet Mohammed is unique in the chain of Allah's prophets. All the other

    prophets were sent for specific culture or nation situated in place and time.

    Allah therefore gave these prophets specific miracles to show their

    respective people at a given time. These miracles were limited to certain

    time and space. Only stories of these miracles exist as part of human

    history. On the contrary, Prophet Mohammed was sent as Allah last prophet

    for the entire mankind, for all times to come and for every single spot in

    earth. The reason demands that Mohammed should have a universal miracle

    for all people irrespective of time and space. Every individual at every stageof human history, living in any spot in the world is therefore justified in

    saying: If Mohammed is a prophet for me today; I would like to have a

    miracle for myself today. This universal miracle is the Glorious Quran.

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    Scholars, historians, philosophers, and scientists have written countless

    pages showing the miraculous nature of the Quran. In Fact, each new

    generation for the last fourteen centuries, has been discovering new miraclesin the Quran. These never ending miracles are the perpetual testimony that

    Mohammed is Allah last Messenger, and that the Quran is Allah's final book

    for the entire man kind.

    Quran is basically a book of instructions, a code of conduct for man kind but

    it also deals with attributes of God; duties of angels and jinn; histories of

    prophets and communities and various phenomena of nature like: creation

    and ending of the universe, alteration of day and night, changing of seasons,

    creation of plants, animals and man etc., subjects which fall in the

    jurisdiction of science through which man is invited to reflect on the creation

    and its mechanism and thereby accept the existence and supremacy of God.

    Quran the last religious deals with topics which impress people of all times

    and intellectual standards.

    God knew that the world would pass through an age of science when every

    thing would be weighed in the balance of science, it is quite possible that

    just due to this reason, and He included topics of science in the Quran in

    such manner that should provide a proof of the truth of the Quran. The

    common man who lived during the period of revelation of the Quran

    fourteen hundred years back was not so well informed on the subject of

    science as to understand, appreciate or admire the informative and

    intellectual standard of the book, but now we do.

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    Following are few of the miraculous verses of Quran starting with

    A-Scientific miracles

    Miracles in discoveries in nature:

    I refer the reader to the book " 155 miracles and mysteries in the Quran for

    Dr. Kazi

    B- The miraculous Language of the Quran:

    Differences between human writing and Allah revelation:

    1-A human writer has the command of knowledge of a certain specificsubject, or few related subjects. e.g. one can write on the subject of

    history or economics or philosophy or ethics etc. It is not possible for

    a human being to write simultaneously on a large variety of different

    topics with an equal command of language and depth of knowledge.

    Further more, what ever the Quran has stated in a certain field has

    always been proved to be eternal truth.

    2-Every human book represents the knowledge that was available to thewriter at a certain time and place. Human knowledge keeps

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    advancing. As a result every human book keeps advancing. As a result

    every human book after some time is found to be either false or

    incomplete. All books of human authors thus need to be revised or

    rewritten after a period of time. Quran is the only authentic book of

    Allah. Muslims and non Muslims equally agree that it is the only book

    that is present in its purist form. None were able to find any mistakes

    in the Quran.

    3-An effective writer always modifies his style and language accordingto the varying needs of the readers. What may appeal to a young

    person may not appeal to an old one. Similarly what may appeal to an

    illiterate person may not appeal to an educated one. Moreover, every

    person passes through various phases of emotional changes e.g. a

    person who is happy likes to read something different from a sad

    person. Every human being has a certain preference for the style of

    writing. Quran moves whom who likes simple language and whom

    who likes eloquent language.

    4- If a human author keeps writing for years and years, he passes throughgradual changes in his writing style, views and thoughts. The Qruan

    was gradually reveled on Mohammed during a period of 23 years. No

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    changes have been found in the message and philosophy of the earlier

    and the later revealed verses of Quran.

    5-A human writer is mostly affected by the changing conditions of hisenvironment, which in turn affect his emotions and feelings. These are

    then reflected in the style and the town of his writing. Prophet

    Mohammed during 23 years of his mission went through numerous

    periods of personal trials. He went from severe hardship in Makkah to

    the leader and the ruler of al-Madenah. The language of Quran

    remains steady in its own majesty far from being affected by any

    environmental ups and downs of the Prophet.

    6- A human writer do mistakes, the Quran consists of a total of 6236verses and 86432 words yet not a single verse, phrase, idiom or word

    of the Quran contradicts any other text of the Quran. Each and every

    verse is in perfect harmony with the entire text of the Quran. Arabic

    letters each has diacritical mark which gives each its specific

    pronunciation. Total number of alphabets are 323760, Total number

    of diacritical marks is 210338 not a single one of those has been

    changed in 14 centuries. Allah call us to do the falsification test, no

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    human can dare to say my book has no mistakes. No human will

    challenge humanity that he has 100% contradictions free book.

    C- The Numerical miracles.

    Examples of numerical relationship and symmetry the following words

    Word Related Word

    Number of times

    appeared in the Quran

    man Woman 24

    Devil asking refuge 11

    Faith (believe) kufer (not to believe) 17

    Angles Satan 68

    Dunia

    (this life)

    Akera (life after) 115

    Fieel (action) Ajer (reward) 108

    Month 12

    Day 365

    Other countless numerical miracles were reported by different people.

    D: Islamic constitution in the Quran

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    The most important miracle, the ability to change people life, behavior,

    manners so that love and justice, good economical conditions prevails in the

    society that is practicing Islam.

    {This Quran is not such as can be produced by other than Allah. On the

    contrary, it is conformation of (revelations) that went before it, and a

    fuller explanation of the book; wherein there is no doubt from the Lord

    of the worlds; Or do they say: He (Mohammad) forged it? Say (to

    them) bring them a chapter like unto it, and call (to your aid) any one

    you can, besides Allah, if it be (that) you speak the truth.}

    Allah also said {We have heard an amazing Quran, which guide to

    Correctness}al-Jin1, 2

    This chapter is a summery of the book " 155 miracles and mysteries in the

    Quran for Dr. Kazi"

    Chapter Nine

    Why wearing the veil?

    My friend asked: Why do you wear the veil? I am sorry to say you look

    unattractive. People look at you as a creature coming from the space. Why

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    can not you enjoy life? Why can not you feel the admiration in men eyes?

    This attraction is natural phenomenon. What do you think of the debate:

    woman should not join our schools if they do not want to look like us?

    I answered: The ethical debate concerning wearing the veil by Muslim

    woman in schools and universities have been going on for years in Europe.

    The paradox is that European countries establish themselves as the leaders of

    liberties. Should Muslim woman be deprived from education if they want to

    practice the religion their way! Every one is contributing with his opinion

    regarding the debate except for Muslim woman! I thank you for the question

    it is our duty to speak up. But I want to ask you do you know why I wear

    this veil?

    My friend said: yes because Muslim woman are oppressed. Men force them

    to do so and because you follow blindly.

    I said: I am living in this country alone, I am single and no men are present

    in my life. I was never pressured to ware the veil this is my personal choice.

    I cover so that men treat me as a person not as female. I am not reduced to

    my sexuality. It is my sexuality that I covered not my femininity. The

    covering of the former allowed the liberation of the later1. Covering helps

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    me not being objectified. Men focus on my face and my words language

    rather than my body language. People appreciate my logic, reasoning,

    personality, and perspectives.

    My friend said: I do not agree that men are going to reduce you to your

    looking if you are not wearing this veil. I can look at your face which reveals

    that you still look nice.

    I answered: Prophet Mohamed said God is beautiful and He loves beauty. I

    am not supposed to look ugly; I am supposed to look respectful. Muslim

    men are ordered to lower their gaze if they have attraction feelings towards

    women other than their wives. Men should take accountability for their

    actions. Moreover, even though you can see my face, I do not look exactly

    like woman with micro skirt.

    My friend said: I think that women naturally enjoy showing the beauty. They

    are very mush suffering by not having the chance to enjoy seducing men!

    I said: it is true that woman likes to feel beautiful. I can do that in front of

    my husband, and bunch of my men relatives whom I can not have relation

    with (father, brother, nephewext) and all the women in the world. By

    covering I am protecting fellow women. It is a form of women social

    solidarity. Her husband can not see my wearing my full garments and in

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    return my husband can not see her wearing her full garments. This way, men

    will feel more attracted and content with their wives, and wives will not be

    worried about their husbands chastity.

    My friend said: I think you are living in Europe and you are not showing

    respect to our tradition.

    I said: I always thought that European tradition emphasizes respect of

    liberties. All societies in the world are pluralistic societies, beauty is in

    diversity. No one should impose his own perspective on the way others like

    to practice there religion. The veil is not a sign of disrespect! How I am

    inside does not directly change whether I am veiled or not. It is others

    perceptions of me that are changed1. The veil is a relationship between me

    and my God that drives me closer to Him.

    Then I said to her: Let me ask you the question if European woman is

    autonomous not to wear the veil, why am I not autonomous to wear the veil?

    She said: You are autonomous, and you are choosing to look different, for

    that I agree that women should not join our schools if they do not want to

    look like us.

    I said: I agree that I look different. However, I enjoy obeying God and my

    relationship with him can never be broken under any pressure. I have

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    accepted and chose to conquer rather than be conquered by the society

    stigmatization1. For that I will I accept to be punished, but why depriving

    from education? I mean Depriving from education is infringement of human

    rights. It is like depriving food and water. Dr. Josef Selling states (Professor,

    research unit theological ethics, K.U. Leuven): The gravest offenses against

    human freedom are precisely those things which attack personal identity:

    brain washing, the use of drugs or techniques to gain control over the person,

    any assault on the selfhood of the person, be it individual, social, political,

    through the use of violence, propaganda or deception.

    I think of being illiterate as transgression. The Quran tells us the story of

    woman Queen who ruled her country with consultation. Islam orders women

    to develop their highest potentials. Muslim women in their countries are

    doctors, engineers, and scientists. In Europe You have the choice to isolate

    Muslim women from the society, or to give them the chance to integrate in

    it. You can think of us as functioning nuns.

    I will conclude by asking the question: if version Mary2 (Peace be upon her)

    is alive, will you deprive her from her veil also?

    1- Kathy Chin

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    2- Mary is praised in the Quran. She is the mother of Prophet J esus Peace be upon him

    Chapter Source Author Page number

    Who Created the

    Creator?

    Dialog with my unbeliever friend Dr. Mustafa

    Mahmmod

    If My Deeds are

    Distend to be My

    Deeds, why do

    God Judge me

    For Doing

    Them?

    Dialog with my unbeliever friend Dr. Mustafa

    Mahmmod

    Why Did God

    Created Evil

    Dialog with my unbeliever friend Dr. Mustafa

    Mahmmod

    People who did

    not Hear of the

    Quran Do they

    go to Hill or

    Paradise?

    Dialog with my unbeliever friend Dr. Mustafa

    Mahmmod

    Paradise and Hell Dialog with my unbeliever friend Dr. Mustafa

    Mahmmod

    Is Religion Dialog with my unbeliever friend Dr. Mustafa

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    Heroin Mahmmod

    Islam or

    Christianity

    Was Jesus

    crucified?

    Is Jesus God the Bible says no

    http://www.ahmed-

    deedat.co.za/frameset.asp.

    Shabir Ally

    Ahmed

    deedat

    Quran the

    Miracle: Could

    Mohammed be

    the Author of

    Quran?

    andwww.amrkhalid.netand 155

    miracles and mysteries in the Quran

    Dr. Mazhar

    Kazi

    Why wearing the

    veil?

    Islam and

    Terrorism

    www.islamonline.netand

    www.islamdenouncesterrorism.com

    Islam and liberty of believe

    Jamal Al

    banah

    http://www.amrkhalid.net/http://www.amrkhalid.net/http://www.amrkhalid.net/http://www.islamonline.net/http://www.islamonline.net/http://www.islamdenouncesterrorism.com/http://www.islamdenouncesterrorism.com/http://www.islamdenouncesterrorism.com/http://www.islamonline.net/http://www.amrkhalid.net/
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