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DISCOVERING AND LIVING

Your Soul’s Purpose

Deborah Skye King

~ The Keys to Your Future ~

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DISCOVERING AND LIVING

Your Soul’s Purpose

Deborah Skye King

~ The Keys to your Future ~

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DISCOVERING AND LIVING

Your Soul’s PurposeCopyright © 2008 by Deborah Skye KingISBN 978-0-9784770-2-8

All rights reserved. No part of this book may be repro-duced or transmitted in any form without permission inwriting from the author, except by a reviewer who mayquote for review purposes. For more information,please write to the publisher at:

Starlight Publishing#304 – 14A Hazelton Avenue Toronto, Ontario M5R [email protected]

Cover Design by Deborah Skye & Christine McIntryeArtwork by Sean Kari Salomaa-------------------------------------------------------The author designed the information to represent her opinionsabout the subjects disclosed. The author obtained theinformation contained through personal experience and theexperiences of her clients. The author speaks from herperspective and experience.

The author disclaims any liability, loss, or risk incurred byindividuals who act on the information contained herein. Theauthor believes the advice presented here is sound, butreaders cannot hold Deborah Skye King or StarlightPublishing responsible for either the actions they take, or theresults of those actions.

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To

LuminousYou are the key to my future

and for that I am eternally grateful

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AcknowledgementsTo Luminous who chose me as much as I choseher to be such an immense part of my own selftransformation in this world. For grounding me,supporting me and allowing me to develop mykeen sense of awareness in communicating withoutwords: sweetie, Mommy loves you, bigger thanthe Universe.

To Ross who is a dear, kind soul who has shown mehow to be human, I thank you from deep within mysoul, it is a blessing and honor to be by your side.

To Divinity who has showered me with the giftsthat I had forgotten were available here in thisworld, I am grateful for your presence and foryour gifts from God.

To Zoobutt Toff, what wonders and magic we haveexperienced! You have shown me so much in thislast year and have been such a huge part of me,and I am blessed to have remembered.

You are all Masters in what you do and who youare, I am overwhelmed by the beauty, grace and

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wisdom that showers upon me daily, I am trulyblessed.

To my parents, John King and Heather Burke: youboth have been amazing teachers in your ownunique ways. Thank you for supporting me andloving me throughout the years as I journeyed tothe jungles around the world, discovering who I am.

To my sister Angela: as we all learn to discoverwho we are, we also learn who we are not. Youhave been a dear sister and a great friend, thanksfor watching my back.

To Christine, your focus, dedication and commit-ment to the work is unwavering, I salute you!

To all my friends worldwide, you are loved! Youknow who you are for you have touched my heartand soul in some simple yet profound way.

To all my Angels, I am honored to have you by myside as you watch me learn the lessons the hardway and remind me why I am here.

To God for the absolute wonder and privilege it isto experience this life.

I am so grateful – thank you.

Acknowledgements

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Table of Contents

Introduction . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .1

How This Book Works . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .7

Prologue . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .9

Chapter One: Discovering Your Soul’s Purpose . . . . . . . . . .11

Chapter Two:Who Are You Really? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .21

Chapter Three:Awakening the Inner Self . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .25

Chapter Four:Balancing Your Life . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .33

Chapter Five:Bringing Awareness to All That You Do . . . . . .39

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Chapter Six:Preparing For The New Self To Emerge . . . . . .45

Chapter Seven:Preparing For Mastery of Self . . . . . . . . . . . .51

Chapter Eight: Living Your Mastery . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .57

Epilogue . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .63

About the Author

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IntroductionI am a professional past life regression therapist,a soul coach and a mother. I live in Toronto andhave my studio, Soul Therapy Studio, in the heartof Toronto. At the studio, I offer courses on pastlife therapy, energy healing and also how to liveand discover your soul's purpose. The Studio offers"Soul Series Seminars" monthly, as well as hostinginternational speakers. My personal practice focuseson the therapeutic aspects of retrieving informa-tion from the past; in particular, what holds backan individual from learning the truth about whothey are and who they can become by reviewing thecore issues that were first created in past lifetimes.

When we come to this planet, we are free tochoose whatever we desire to create, but thereare key moments and life changing experiencesthat we have chosen beforehand to remind our-selves that we have work to do. This work is aboutreleasing the past and being present in the moment,so that we can consciously choose to create afuture of possibilities that are no longer bound to

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the pieces of the past that keep one stuck inrepeating patterns. About 90% of the world'spopulation is living in the past. What do I mean bythat? Remember a time when you reacted stronglyto how someone said a word or expressed them-selves because it reminded you of your sister orbrother or an experience that left a bad taste inyour mouth? Well, you are reacting to the past, notthe person in front of you. Most people are lost inthe past and are not connected with the presentmoment; they think of what they are going to dolater or what went on yesterday or what may happenlater on at an event or meeting. The human experi-ence is not meant to be like this anymore! I saynot anymore because we are at a juncture in ourevolution in this Universe, (not just planetary) andthis shift, as it is called, has a lot to offer thosewho are listening to the voice within. Many peoplethese days are waking up to the inner voice andletting the ego voice quietly fade away.

The inner voice is where we will be going to inthese next eight weeks. The inner voice will bedirecting you and comforting you along the way toself discovery. It will show you what your challengesare. Challenges can come in many forms. Here area few: finances, relationships, career, family andpersonal ethics and integrity. You will find yourselfchallenging yourself to complete the exercises

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that are given to you at the end of each week.Here you will find your truth and self worth. Whynot bring yourself wholeheartedly to the projectahead? You are the one who will benefit. Also, youwill notice that the world you have known willnotice too!

What has transpired over these past eight weeksof writing this workbook has been miraculous. Ihave seen and felt personally the shifts andchanges that take place in one's life as a result ofcommitting to a plan. Commitment can come inmany shapes and sizes; this one is created as atool to allow you to become truly yourself in yourlife. How your life is created at present is not howthe real you might have created it. You live in afield of outmoded expressions of self, and program-med behavior from your ancestors and society.You are about to make practical changes that willallow you the freedom to be who you really are, aperson who is designed for greatness, personaljoy, abundance and longevity. The list given hereis an opportunity to appreciate what lays ahead ofyou as you begin to create the life of your dreams.

• Freedom to love yourself

• Freedom to nurture and support yourself in anew way

• Freedom to express yourself openly without fear

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• Freedom from fear of rejection

• Freedom from the need of others' approval

• Freedom to be worthy of your deepest desires

• Freedom to have healthy boundaries

• Freedom to share your gifts

• Freedom to express your joy

• Freedom to express your sorrow

• Freedom to be in love with life

• Freedom to be healthy and wholesome

• Freedom to be clear of any mental clutter

• Freedom from outdated modes of behavior thatdo not serve your overall life or lifestyle

• Freedom to share your innermost self becauseyou are now open to the possibility of uncondi-tional love for yourself and others

• Freedom to be responsible and accountable

• Freedom to be given the opportunity to havethis experience called life and love it!

As you embark on this eight week course, allowyourself the opportunity to be flexible and tonurture those parts of yourself that are blockingyour progress. When an individual is aware thatchanges are about to take place in their lives, it

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allows them to be more open and available to theflow of creation. When an individual is not aware,the opposite is true: it is challenging and the egotends to want to control the situation and theoutcome. In saying that, make yourself aware ofwhat is going on as you go through these eightweeks, get a real sense of what you are about tocreate and how you would like the outcome tolook like. It does not mean that it will. Sometimesthe 'doing' is the key to the transformation andnot the overall goal. The goal will get you there,but the actual action that you put into achievingthe goal is where the real worth lies.

I ask that you receive the highest benefits avail-able to you during this eight week process of selfdiscovery and remembrance, and that you openyourself up to the divine, to your own divinity.

With Blessings & Love,

Deborah Skye King

If you would like to learn more about the studio,our classes, upcoming seminars or want to bookyour own private session, please go to our websiteat www.soultherapy.ca.

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How This Book WorksIt is best to go through each chapter at a time. Donot fast track at all until you have completed thework for the previous week. If you are on weektwo and only halfway through the exercises thatare given for each day and then peak into the nextweek, the momentum and the energy will shift forthe week you are in.

How this book came about is that I offered aneight week course on-line that included coaching.Each person phoned me for an hour consultationand we figured out what needed to be cleared andwhat needed to be focused on. Some peoplechose to do the course by themselves without anycoaching, and that was fine. What happened isthat at the beginning of the week, people e-mailedme the information that they did the previousweek; I reviewed it to find out where they werestuck and how I could coach them through theirchallenges and difficulties. We then set up a timeto do the coaching, either through e-mail or byphone.

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Those services are available to you also, if youdesire to have a personal coach who can see yourchallenges more clearly than you can and is ableto direct you without any attachments to the out-come; you may then take the opportunity andmake the choice to move forward with support. Ifyou know you are an individual who has a difficulttime committing themselves to a project or to aplan, use the coaching services, as it will assistyou in completing the course and creating a betterfuture reality.

If at anytime during this program you needcoaching, my hours are Monday – Friday 9:00 am-7:00 pm daily. My fees are very reasonable andare offered at a discounted rate for anyone doingthe program, so take advantage of this service ifyou find yourself slipping or need support. Contactme at 416-906-5110 or e-mail me at [email protected].

Let the program work you and in return you willbe amazed at the results!

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Prologue

You have important work to do in this world. Itmay be challenging, it may bring up deep emotions,but more than anything, it will bring you to self-discovery!

Welcome to the 8 week program of awakeningyour soul and being in your heart. You will learnmany new ideas and techniques that can changethe way you think and feel about yourself and theworld you live in. The one main criteria is for youto have an open mind, be 100% honest with your-self when answering any of the questions and beopen to embarking upon a journey that will leadyour soul into a divine awakening of your heart.

You are a gift from the Universe; you are precious,loved and deeply cared for. You hold great purposeon this planet and you are needed for the growthof all of humanity. What can you contribute toyourself or another that would make a differencein your world or theirs? You are embarking upon a

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journey that will allow you to recreate a life thatis on purpose and bountiful. Whatever you needor desire already exists, you just have to knowhow to get it or manifest it. Together we will finda way to create it and bring it into your world soyou may be in joy and feel the abundance thatalready exists all around and in you.

So, let's begin!

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Chapter One

Discovering Your Soul's Purpose

You have important work to do in the world

What are you reflecting back to yourself by notallowing yourself to see or know your soul'spurpose?

Who supports you in living your soul's purposeand who does not support you?

Who of all of your friends would be there for youto support you in discovering your soul's purposeand following through with you on bringing it tothe surface?

Ask each family member, young or old; what dothey think is your soul's purpose? Write down eachperson's answer, without comment or judgment.

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Also, ask each personal friend or co-worker whatthey think is your soul's purpose.

This will help you in discovering your soul's purpose.

Once you realize what your soul's purposeis – you will stop wasting your time bydistracting yourself from what you reallyaught to be doing.

Your soul's purpose is the reason you came here,the reason you were born. How you personally aremeant to affect people is what your soul purposeis all about. It is not about what you do in life, thatis your life's purpose, but how you affect peoplewith what you do. Every individual has a giftto give to others and to the world; it may becompassion, unconditional love, or trust. Somepeople feel that their soul's purpose is their divinepurpose; some people recognize that they have aspecific mission but just can't put their finger onit. You hear it all the time at the office, in conver-sation and most often in your heart. The tuggingand pulling of senses that bring you to a placewhere you just 'know' that there is more to the lifeyou are living.

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When was the last time you were in conversationwith someone and you felt energized while speakingwith them? You could feel your words come fromyour heart and connect with the other person asthey listened and felt your energy? This happenswhen two people or more feel that they areexpressing their true selves. Look at a great exam-ple: Craig and Marc Kielburger, two amazingbrothers from Toronto who have created "Feed theChildren", the largest organization run by childrenfor children. At age 12, Craig went on a seven-week journey to Asia and it changed his life, andthe life of thousands, even a million people sincethen. He and his brother Mark are now paired upwith Oprah on the O Angel Network; they partnerto feed, clothe, shelter and educate children of theworld. They have been following the inner workingsof their spiritual calling; they just keep on listeningto the promptings of their souls, sharing theirmessage with anyone and everyone.

Most cases of depression and loneliness are theresult of the loss of connection to one's purpose.There are other factors as well, but the crux of itis the disconnection from what you are meant todo here and share with others. It really is youremotional body that expresses your soul's purpose.It is not related to your career nor is it based onperformance, but rather, how you express your-

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self. One person's soul purpose may be "to helpspread love", "to encourage others to transform",yet another's may be to "help humanity tobecome heart-centered." These things are expres-sed through emotion and the core of oneself;when that pure expression happens, the surge ofenergy that is felt throughout the body createspowerful endorphins that respond well to theheart, bringing you a sense that everything is indivine perfection.

You will be called to do that which youmost likely need to work on yourself and tomaster.

If your soul's purpose is to "transform humanconsciousness", you will find that you will be atthe forefront to do that very thing and will bechallenged by the process itself. You may be calledto stand up and passionately speak your truth infront of large audiences, even PTA meetings. Yoursoul's purpose will give you clues as to what itis by creating challenges for your own Self.Distractions in your life are the obstacles that youcreate to stop or challenge yourself, a reflection ofthe very thing that you need to master in yourself. Everything is a reflection. For example, you know

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the saying "advice is cheap?" Well, it really is, asit only gives away your power, your own discoveriesand, most of the time, your Self. How many timeshave you given away advice and the advicesounds perfect for you at that exact moment intime? Start seeing what it is that is being reflectedaround you, in your friends, your family, yourwork, your own thoughts and actions. What is itthat calls you into action? I'm not speaking of theobligations or duties that you have, but the thingsthat really inspire you? Some who are reading thisare inspired by sharing themselves with others, bygiving their time to support a cause they enjoy.Others are uplifted by seeing the outcomes thatare created by their involvement with variousprojects and organizations. Whatever it may be,find out what it is that inspires and uplifts you.Even the gardening in the backyard can be yourinspiration: "to bring beauty to a place and findharmony within oneself." If this is what you seekor what makes you feel balanced, bring that energyand spark to conversations and into situationswith others. Share the energy you receive whenyou are acting in correspondence with your soul'spurpose. In this way you begin to live the discoveryof your soul's purpose.

Inquire, listen, be and do – those are thekeys to discovering your soul's purpose.

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If you listen to your gut, your instincts or yourinner knowing, this will lead you to where youneed to go. This is the roadmap to your destination.How many people really listen to this roadmap?Not many. All those little inner urgings to dosomething, phone a person or to communicatesomething to someone fall by the wayside for lackof listening to one self. Why do you think thatthose little inner urges are there in the first place?It's like a desire to have chocolate or a cool drink;when our bodies tells us this, we usually follow theinner prompting to get up from what we are doingand go seek the fulfillment of the desire. Whydon't people listen to their own inner voice? Trust.Many people do not trust themselves. If you listento your inner voice, not the ego, life will begin toflow. You will begin to manifest exactly what youneed in your life. You will attract individuals whoare on the same wavelength as you, those thatwill help to fulfill your soul's purpose. Life really isthat simple: follow your intuition, listen to yourcore truth and fulfill your destiny. It sounds far tooeasy, doesn't it?

Why don't you give it a try for one week, that's all– just one week? When you feel an inner urge tophone someone, phone them, they most likelywant to talk to you and you are picking that up.When you have the urge to go to a certain store

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for no apparent reason, follow that urge and youmay be very surprised to find out who you meetalong the way. When you are told by your owninner voice to speak up when you usually don't, doso and see how you are in that moment and howothers respond to you; you may be astonished bywhat comes about.

Your soul’s purpose will push you to learnnew skills, take you on new challenges andbring yourself to new heights.

You may find that the closer you get to your soul'spurpose, the more you discover new facets ofyourself, i.e. vulnerability, lack of self worth orfear of exposing yourself. There are many moreissues that may arise, but you can begin to seewhere your personal issues may block you alongthe way. All the mental chatter or anxiety can beviewed as a marker that you are experiencing ashift, even though that shift may be uncomfortablefor you. Allow that energy to move and be presentto it, knowing that you can celebrate it as youallow it to move through you. If it is expressingitself as a challenge to you (no matter how long ithas been there or if it is something new to you),take deep breaths and continue to move towards

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your chosen goal. As you move towards yoursoul's purpose, there will be times that you willnot listen to yourself or trust yourself. If thishappens, observe the outcome when you don'tlisten or trust yourself.

Fear is the biggest obstacle in life on any level andis a part of the human condition. Note where yourfears are; if you can live your soul's purpose, justwhat will have to change in your life? Who will youbecome and how will those people presently inyour life respond to you? These are questions thatshould be looked at, as there are so many culturalbelief systems that are created to stop manypeople from even beginning to have a sense ofself, let alone following through with discoveringtheir soul's purpose. Society has a way of maskingthe journey of the soul by creating media thatdoes not fully support one's growth. However, youmay create whatever you desire to create.Einstein's work never came from society's beliefsystem nor from his cultural influence; it camefrom deep inside of him and he listened to it. Byallowing that, he explored his soul's purpose andlived his purpose, thereby influencing all ofhumanity.

Look inside of yourself. You know what makes youhappy. Listen to your inner voice, love who you

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are no matter where you are in your journey atpresent and follow through with the urges thatprompt you every day. Listen to your dreams andmake them real in this world where you get tocreate anything you desire. When it comes fromyour core, it is easily created. It is your fears thatcreate discord. Allow them to be there, for theyserve a purpose of their own: to show you whereyou may need to heal yourself. Thank the fears,feel gratitude for the obstacles and never give up.

As you discover your soul's purpose, make notesof how you feel, how others are responding toyou, and how you are responding to the newenergies emerging from within you.

Take flight!

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Chapter Two

Who Are You Really?

And the day came when the risk to remaintight in a bud was more painful than therisk it took to blossom.

Anais Nin

Who are you really? What kind of question is that?If someone approached you and asked you whoyou are, how would you respond? Not many peoplewould know how to respond to that one question,but it is something that we all think about, ponderupon; some search their whole lives for its meaning.We are going to explore the idea of who you areand how that can and will bring you closer to whatmakes you – you.

How would you like to change, transform and shiftthroughout these eight weeks? Will it be yourintimate relationship with yourself, your spouse,

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your lover or friend? Will you engage in a relation-ship with your co-workers or family members andreach a pinnacle of unconditional love with othersand yourself?

This week is all about exploring of who you reallyare. So much of our lives is spent being someone,something, but if given the opportunity to be exact-ly who you are, your life might not look or feel theway it does right now.

Explore on any day at 12:00 noonLocation: anywhere

Write out at least 2 paragraphs about who youbelieve yourself to be.

CONNECTING FROM THE SOUL

When you were a child, most things came easilyto you. Nevertheless, you were guided on somelevel to learn to take care of your basic needs andbecome responsible for yourself. As you got older,you realized that you had to become responsiblefor yourself, and at times accountable for who youwere in any given situation. As an adult, thatsense of accountability somehow got lost in theshuffle of attempting to figure out just what was

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going on. See, responsibility and accountability gohand in hand, but in our culture responsibility ismore often talked about than actually lived. To beaccountable for any experience that happens inyour life means you are taking full responsibilityfor the part you play in creating the environment,the situation or outcome, and that your responseto this situation or outcome is yours and yoursalone. Do you know what that means? It meansthat every action, word, thought, deed and emotionis yours and yours alone. Every hurt, pain, injustice,love or joy is and has been created by you. Yes,you. What does this have to do with who youreally are? Everything!

As you explore who you are by writing each day,you will begin to feel and sense the connectionyou already have with your soul.

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Chapter Three

Awakening the Inner Self

Only 3% of the world's population set anygoals. These 3% accomplish more than theother 97% combined.

Dr. Demartini

GOAL SETTING - ORGANIZING - ACHIEVING -BELIEVING

o Goals are to be of a realistic nature.

o Goals are to be believable to you and achievable.

o Goals are to be specific, the more detail thebetter.

o Goals are to be harmonious with your highervalues. They should be created with what youalready know or are interested in.

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o Goals are to be prioritized; having a list of whatyou desire creates a stronger foundation fromwhich to work.

o Goals are to be given completion and achieve-ment dates. This way you can have markers forwhat is being created and what you need to doin order to complete a goal.

o Goals are to be for what you would love, not forwhat you wouldn't. Only state the positive aspectsof a goal.

o Goals are to be written in the present tense.

o Goals are to have an action plan for theirachievement.

Inspired by Dr. John F. Demartini

Begin this week with enthusiasm for what you areabout to create, enthusiasm and presence thatwill sustain your goals and outcomes for the week.Please list in order: goals for the days and theweek. You can revise these goals at any time. Youwill be asked to be accountable for setting yourgoals.

How to complete them? Your goals should berealistic. If you can only handle 4 new clients aday, don't write "would like 6 new clients today",when this would not make sense and would not be

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balanced for you. Your goals may include habits,relationships, personal traits you would like torefine, personal growth, new home, location, orthey may be work related. Anything you wouldlike to bring into your life is a goal.

There will be many distractions in life that willpurposefully take you off your desired path ofpersonal and spiritual growth. You will learn howto recognize these distractions and then growfrom them. How? Once you recognize somethingin your life that is stopping you from your personalor spiritual growth, write it down. It could be arelationship, a job, responsibility that you do notcare to have; anything that you find that movesyou away from inner peace. It can also be yourfriends and family who prefer to live in drama andare constantly in need of your attention, distractingyou from the necessary input into your own lifebecause you are so busy taking care of otherpeople's lives.

1) Recognize when something or someone istaking you away from what you really want todo. It's 1:00 pm and you have scheduled ayoga class to relax and connect. Your sister orboss phones, and asks you to do you a favor.You listen and then say yes to them. You havenow changed your plans but it has also taken

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you away from your time for you to centeryourself, to connect and to nurture yourself. Beaware when you do for others something that iscounter to what you have planned for yourself.

2) Take at least 15-30 minutes in the morning orevening to plan out your next day, set theintention for the following day and determinethe outcomes you would like to manifest e.g.6:00 am wake up for half hour meditation,6:30 am focus on computer work for one hour,8:00 am make sure mind is clear and ready forday, 10:00 am schedule meeting for tomorrow,1:00 pm write down accomplishments of themorning, 4:00 pm organize tomorrow's work,5:00 pm clear mind and leave behind all workat work, 7:00 pm yoga. Every person's list willbe very different as no two lives are the same.The point here is to create a structure thatworks. The level of manifestation that will takeplace by doing this is astounding.

This may seem menial at first, but this is howthe Universe works. If you set a clear intentionof what you want, then write it down and thenact upon it, you will find your days manifestingjust as you have described or scheduled them.This is not a mysterious way of being, it is auniversal law.

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You will be receiving coaching from theuniverse as you go through these eightweeks, to assist you with your goals. Takeyour time in discovering you.

THE INNER SELF

The inner self is a place that holds all knowledge.When you listen to this place, there is a spacewhere creation speaks for you. It knows how tomake the best decisions and protects you fromfalling flat on your face. Lack of self confidencecomes when a person is not in touch with thisaspect of themselves; it is called their inner self orintuition. Second guessing yourself or choosing thewrong thing is never a problem when one isconnected to the inner self. You listen to yourinner senses and do what you feel or think is bestfor you, most often realizing that the outcomeusually benefits all in the end. Even when theoutcome may seem a bit disastrous from yourcurrent perspective, how the soul defines theoutcome may be radically different from thehuman perspective. How a person perceives theirworld is very jaded by many circumstances andinstances that may not be related to what is taking

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place at present. In my private practice withclients, I come across varying degrees of how theemotional and psychological energy fields continueto play out lessons until an individual learns thelesson, embodies it and then fully owns it. Thereis no place for victim hood or feeling bad aboutmaking certain decisions. From the soul’s perspec-tive, everything is placed in perfect order andonce this is understood, there is no need to bedisempowered in life.

With the assistance of your inner self, you cantake back ownership and have the confidence tolive a life on purpose and feel strong in the face ofadversity. Here are some questions I'd like for youto ask yourself. Be extremely honest with your-self; this way you can learn more about theemotional impacts that have affected you andmight still be affecting you today. Please read onequestion at a time, and then write with an openheart.

1) What would you choose to do as a career/job that would bring you joy and happiness,without any restrictions at all? Even if you didnot have the degree, schooling or financialresources to have this job or career.

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2) Who would you be if you could live out yourdream job? How would your life change fromthe present one? List the benefits for havingyour life the way you dream it can be.

3) Quiet your mind and sit still for one moment.Breathe deeply and then answer this question:what would you develop in yourself, if you hadthe opportunity to do so? How long do youthink it would take you to master this quality?

4) Again, breathe deeply then answer the question.Imagine yourself developing the quality youjust spoke of and wrote about. What would youdo with it and yourself, once you had masteredit? How would it benefit yourself and othersaround you? How do you think/feel it wouldbenefit your fellow brothers and sisters?

5) If you took a good look at your life, what wouldyou say is distracting you from your desiredoutcome?

TECHNIQUES TO LIVE BY

Each day bring with you a piece of paper, or laptop,journal, notepad, a pen and some water. Sit withyourself uninterrupted for at least five minutes,

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quiet the mind, center the heart and relax. For thenext seven days take these moments to reflect onyour life and ask yourself, if there were five thingsI might have done differently or better, what wouldthey be? Relationships, family, work, personaldevelopment, life experiences. Take your time withthese, they could be as detailed as you like, themore detailed the better. Really get into creatingthose moments from a different perspective orstandpoint and make it feel like you're actuallyreliving them now. A lot of people will say, oh, butI wouldn't change a thing – really? If that is you,really think and feel if there is anything you wouldchange, even if they were good lessons. The goalhere is to recreate the scenario until it is completeand recreated in a new light.

After you have completed the lesson, sit for atleast 15 minutes in quiet solitude. Ask yourself:“what have I just learned about awakening myinner self?” and “how does it feel in my body tohave authentically and truthfully answered thesequestions?”

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Chapter Four

Balancing Your Life

If you talk to anyone who lives in a city and worksa lot or who has children, you will hear time andagain that if they could only find some balance inlife, then they would be fine. But how would youdefine balance, what would it look like to you? Tome it looks like this: being able to do what I wantwhen I want and to be fully engaged in the situa-tion or person that I am dedicating myself to inthe moment. Not worrying about what is to happenafter dinner or the next day, but to be peaceful inthe moment. If I am doing the dishes, playingwith my daughter, cycling by the water or at thestudio for ten hours straight without any breaks, Ishould be in a state of balance and inner peace,but am I? When I move out of my center, I remindmyself that certain parts of my inner self arecoming up for review or preparing to exit, and Ishould allow for those parts to breathe throughme, and not hinder their movements. Like anythingin life, if you allow it some freedom of movement,

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observe rather than judge it, it may set itself rightback into alignment or it may fall way off course.As you go through the exercises this week, remindyourself that you can be on a seesaw or you canbe in calm waters: your choice. Choose wisely, asit's all for your benefit.

SIMPLIFY AND SET GOALS

A Course of Action:

1: begin the day with an open mind toward whatyou desire to create in the moment

2: write down any challenges you think you mayencounter

3: set up a plan for how you will accomplish yourgoals

4: if any challenges occur, remember to have amarker, something that will show you that youhave arrived at your predetermined destination,so you will know you have accomplished whatyou have set out to.

Today's Priority Actions: write them out in yourcalendar or on a blackboard so you can see whatthey are.

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What are your agreements today, with yourselfand others? You have agreements upon waking orhave created them beforehand with others to takeaction or be present with them. List them: e.g.call Daniel and set up appointment for an interview;another is, making sure to go to sports store andpick up Mike's baseball helmet. It can be anythingat all. Just make sure to write them down, as wehave so many thoughts running through our headthat stop us from remembering what we set out todo only 10 minutes beforehand!

At the end of the day, make a list of the things forwhich you are grateful. What did you accomplishand what did you receive or benefit from? This isvery important for you, as you are acknowledgingyourself for what you have done. Most people donot receive acknowledgement in their endeavors,it is not part of our society or culture. By beginningto acknowledge your accomplishments, you willbegin to see or sense how responsive you are;next time you want to accomplish something, youwill do it with passion!

Balancing your life is no simple task. As you createone thing, you will begin to realize that you willhave to release something in your life that is nolonger serving you. One has to have priorities andrealize that some things are more important than

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others: long term vs. short term, personal accom-plishments vs. business accomplishments. What wedo now and the choices we make in this momentaffects all future outcomes, it actually creates ourfuture by deciding what it is we desire to focus onand also what our intentions are in creating a newoutcome.

Let's say you have the goal to loose 10-15 poundsor gain them. You have given yourself exactlythree weeks to accomplish this goal. You firstmust set up a list of intentions that will assist youin creating an outline, a platform from which towork. If I state: Mondays, I go to the gym or toyoga, work out for one hour, eat grapefruit, havea protein shake of greens and then take the dogsfor a walk for half hour, then I will have to followthrough with this. If I don't, the only person whois suffering is me for not living up to my word.

Be honest with yourself, if you are going to stateyour goal, discern if it is a real goal or if it’s a “let'ssee if I can pull this off goal”. Is it realistic andattainable? Sometimes we make our goals so bigthat there really is no way to fulfill them and thenwe feel like we have failed, and that does notassist you in creating a life of your dreams, does it?

If you have a daily plan of action or a weekly one,making it realistic and in accordance with your

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current lifestyle, then you will be able to movethrough it easily and with grace, completing thetasks that you have set out. It can be anything inyour life, from your children, your work, yourbehaviors or responses to life. It could be a goalto pay all of the debts that have accumulated byliving a life that is beyond your means. It can beanything. The goal here is to create balance, soyou will have no stress, and be present to what isgoing on around you by achieving fulfillment ofyour choices. You will also see how you act in yourown creations.

In the course of action you will see that there is adaily task to set goals so you may create your daywith purpose and have a template that will assistyou on your daily journey to a life of balance,purpose and power. Give it a try for at least fivedays in a row and see how you do and what getscreated.

POINTERS TO CREATING A LIFE OF BALANCE

Simplify! Simplify! Simplify! Really now, simplify.Do you really need that green lawnmower that isthe latest model? Or what about the latest healthfood product that costs double the amount thanyour other effective brand you have been usingfor years now? The clothing sale is a sale, but do

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you really need another shirt for the dinner date?How about the oversized barbecue? It looks so...cool, but your balcony at your apartment or condoreally does not need a full-sized model, does it?All those old messages in your inbox – do youneed to keep them there? No you don't, they aretaking up useful space, clear them out. See every-thing in your life is symbolic; everything is madeup of energy. Release anything that does notserve you from your life, and watch magic happen!

SHIFTING YOUR PERSONAL NEEDS

Take a look at where your energy goes daily, toyour siblings' problems, your work load, yourfriends. Or does the energy stay within your circleof your life, your needs and what it is that makesyou happy? How do you fulfill your own personalneeds? List them. What is it that you do to makeyourself happy? This will show you where thereare opportunities for changes to take place thatyou might not have realized. Next week we will betaking a look at the ego and how stepping up tothe plate makes all the difference in your life.When you have ideas and desired intentions thatcan be viewed unbiased, you have a greateropportunity to create from a place of power. E-mailme with your outcomes and accomplishments.

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Chapter Five:

Bringing Awareness toAll That You Do

STEPPING UP TO THE PLATE

What we are going to do this week is catch our-selves in the act of not being authentic. Authenticmeans being true to who you are at the core ofyourself. When you said you were going to dosomething, did you complete it? If you thoughtabout saying something to someone, did you followthrough and say it, and speak honestly? Whenyou wanted something done, did you do it or areyou waiting for someone else to do it for you?When your thoughts stray into the negative, areyou catching yourself in the moment and rectifyingthe thoughts by embracing the positive aspects ofthe person or thing? Here's the big one, are youbeing honest with yourself?

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This week-be honest with yourself. Step up to theplate – do what you said you were going to do.Just by doing so, you will allow your energy fieldto magnetize the positive to you – try it out!

Being aware of all that you do takes some practice.Most people develop a habit of just going throughlife and not really thinking just what it is they aredoing. Today, there are many more individualswho are questioning their reality, their happiness,their health and their prosperity. It is an inquirythat continues throughout life as you develop andgrow. With each passing year, your needs anddesires change and conform to your ever changingenvironment, society's beliefs and the emotionalstance you are adopting.

Why does it take practice to be aware of yourself?Think about this, when you brush your teeth inthe morning, are you thanking every tooth for thepleasure of biting into the food that you eat? Or tothe language you speak, without your teeth youwould sound pretty funny and your vocabularywould change, wouldn't it? Most people take forgranted the teeth they have, the language theyspeak, the air they breathe, but just imagine ifyou gave thanks to the very things that sustainyou? How would your consciousness change, yourvibratory level (energy level), and how would you

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begin responding to yourself? When you take ashower or bath, do you give thanks to your bodyfor every part that assists you in moving freelyaround the space you dwell in? Do you ever giveyour feet a massage at night and thank them forthe awesome job they are doing every day bysupporting you? Go for it, give it a try!

As you already know by now, you more often hearothers or yourself cursing the body, the achingbones, the sore feet, and the pain in the back andon and on. Why do people do this? Is it a learnedbehavior, one that you may have picked up fromgenerations past as you heard your parents orgrandparents in conversation about their ownbodies?

Begin to make the conscious choice to learn fromyourself and the unique body you inherited uponbirth and appreciate how lucky you are to have allyour own little quirks that make you who you are;praise who you are and take pride and ownershipin what makes you powerfully you!

So, this is part of stepping up to the plate; owner-ship, responsibility for yourself and beingaccountable for who you are in all your shiningglory, as well as all the dark corners that havebeen suppressed, locked away or pushed into

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denial so that you can continue to live a life thatis not 100% integral. Now, that is not a judgment,it's a reflection so that you can see where youmight not be authentic with yourself and others.

How will you know this? By the sudden feeling thatyou are not complete in conversations or notfeeling clear with yourself and feeling like you leftsomething out while speaking with someone. Youalready know how this feels, it's like you are notbeing true to yourself, but you don't catch your-self in the act because you think no one else will,or no one will call you into account for youractions or deeds. We know perfectly well when weare not honest, in integrity or in alignment to ourtruth. You can feel it, sense it or receive insight atthe time that you are not 100% fine with whatjust went on.

Just for this week, keep a small notebook with youand write down every time you curse yourself orothers and every time you honor yourself orothers. Keep track of how often you acknowledgethe uniqueness and inherent beauty that every-one holds and shines even in their sadness ordespair. Each person is made up of golden light, areflection of God and the Universe. Begin to seethat in others and you will soon start to see it inyourself also.

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Stepping up to the plate:

o When you say you are going to do something-just do it!

o When you decide to be something, be it!

o When you choose to be happy, allow nothing tostop you from being it!

o When you are happy, share that with the worldno matter what!

o Your plate is clean right this moment, what areyou willing to bring to others?

o How will you assist another human being inshining their own light without blocking yourown?

o How will you learn to allow others to share whothey are, without judgment?

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Chapter Six:

Preparing for the New Self toEmerge

Are you prepared? What a funny question, beingprepared for something so brand new that you donot even know what it is. Many people wouldanswer this question with a big resounding 'yes'!Why? Because so many of us are willing to allowthe new aspects of who we are to enter into ourlives that we say yes to life in all it's myriad waysthat compel us to change, shift and transform whowe believe ourselves to be. Go through this listand see if you are aware of your own preparationfor the emergence of your new self.

You find yourself creating challenges in life thatare representations of the old life you are seekingto leave. Family issues are created, dramaswithin your work to distract you from leaving orgetting promoted. Friends calling you on old issues

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or experiences that have no relation to what youare stepping into or who you are at present.More or less things that are holding you backfrom embracing your new self.

Thinking about past experiences and the negativeimpacts they have had in your life. This can bethe letting go process by revisiting it to saygoodbye. Or, this can also be a reminder that itis no longer part of your life and you are gratefulfor the experience and all you learned.

Contemplating what your perfect relationship willbe, it can be work related, intimate or friend-ships. Even a new relationship with yourself.This is a lead into the future representation ofyou. As you dispel the belief that you are yourpast, you bring forward your future by expressingwhat you do want.

IS YOUR NEW SELF SUPPORTED AND BEINGPREPARED?

During any course of action that allows your newlife to emerge, there is a purging of the old, a recre-ation of the challenges that once were present andnow are leaving the mental, emotional and physicalbodies. They come in the form of emotions that

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are still lingering from the past, and also fromcellular memories that are being recreated orreleased. Remember we are multidimensionalbeings; there can be a multitude of clearingstaking place that your conscious mind cannot fullygrasp. You may be releasing a chain of events thatspans over 2,000 years, with the same playersand the same events, only in a different context.There is a constant stream of new energiessupporting you in becoming your greater self,even if it seems you might be struggling with thechanges or challenges that are presenting them-selves to you.

Here is a widely held belief; you create your ownreality, right? While you create your own realityand repeat patterns that have been stored byimpressionable memories, you may come to realizethat once you are aware you are repeating thesame theme, you may want to learn the lesson thatis being repeated. If you find yourself recreating asituation in your life that is not beneficial, take asecond look at what the issue is here and why itis present? Why are you recreating the sametheme or drama? Why is it that the story getsretold and repeated? Start to create in your heartand mind the story that you want to live in is theone that serves you the best. Not living for yourfriends or family, but you. You are the only person

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who is living in your mind and your flesh and feelsyour feelings. Others can understand, but notmany people on this planet can actually feel whatanother is feeling or thinking or being. It is time tocreate the being you so desire to nurture, supportand love, you!

Energetically the new you is already created, justas the past has an energy held in your memories.Each time you recreate the past, you are givingenergy to the past. When you place your intentioninto the future, you are creating the present partof you now. Enjoy the process and the imagerythat comes with that, and remember to be playfulas you create.

During the Spiritual Past Life Regressions that I doat my Studio, I am a witness to profound truths ofthe human expression and how the emotional andmental planes interact with the physical body inmanifesting emotions and storing them within aperson's energy field. A recurring theme can betaking place from another lifetime that is stillaffecting you here. The therapeutic aspect of thiswork is understanding from a core level what it isthat is recreating itself and why. When a personbecomes aware of the situation or reason behinda certain pattern, it is then more likely for thewhole being to release this pattern, as it no longer

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serves them. In releasing the old, the new you isallowed more movement and freedom to shinethrough. When we are able to let go of patternsthat no longer serve us, we get to experience theliberation of spiritual renewal. Each time there isa letting go of the old, there is born a new futurein the discovery of you. Allow yourself the oppor-tunity to let go on any level that is necessary foryou to birth your new divine self. It is always thereto assist you in further discovering your own innerbeauty and unlimited potential.

Make a list of people who support you, friends,relatives, deceased or famous people, and yourangels. This list will allow you to realize just howmuch you are supported and how much preparationyou have already received.

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Chapter Seven:

Preparing for Mastery of Self

PREPARING FOR MASTERY IN LIFE

How does one come to be a master at anything?With diligence, focus, repetition, and constantsurveillance of what is being created and how it isbeing created. What I mean by this is, if forinstance you have a particular gift that is uniqueto you, you can shun this gift or you can Masterit. You figure out what works best for you in thedevelopment of yourself with your own gifts andhow you can utilize them towards a better under-standing of yourself.

For me it has been the gift of sight. I am able to'see' into many things, the vision and awarenessof future events and the possibilities of what peoplecan become for themselves. Since a very young

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age this gift has been a very normal aspect of whoI am. Later on in life, after realizing that noteveryone can see this way or feel like this, I beganto study the gifts that I have to better enable meto work with them. Over the years, while learningfrom some extraordinary gifted teachers all overthe world, I realized one day that what I wasdoing was learning to master my own unique giftsso I could help others better understand them-selves and their experiences.

So, whatever your gifts are, use them, masterthem and bring them out into the world to shine!Your gift may be something you feel is a burdento you – because of what society has deemed'normal.' How do you feel about your own gifts?Take a moment to write down all your gifts rightnow.

ARE YOU READY TO SHARE YOUR GIFTS?

The world as you know it changes once you setyourself upon a course of action to master some-thing, anything in life. To master something doesnot mean always that you will arrive at yourspecific destination at some point and say "hey –I'm now a master of this!", and then move ontothe next thing. Self mastery is about learning the

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quirks, the shakes, and the movements of whoand how you are. Everyone is unique, especially inhow we view ourselves.

Many people hold a belief about themselves whichis self-limiting and does not provide positive supportfor their own personal growth. That is the trickypart; our own self-limiting beliefs hold us back.Imagine if you would, the idea that you could doanything, anything at all. What would that be? Ifyou could master that, how would you begin, whocould help you if you needed help? How could youbegin the process of self mastering the very thingyou would love to do or be? These questions willmake you realize that it is not beyond your reach.You may say, well I do not have the time ormoney. These are two major factors people use tostop the flow of universal energy that supportsyou in discovering, developing and then masteringyour skills.

Observe yourself as you implement the changes inyour life and see how you respond to your ownshifts. What rewards do you receive in your ownself mastery or mastering something that onlyyou can? You show your true colors when you arearound the closest people in your life. Yes, yourfamily. Here is where you can see where youmaster yourself, or become challenged. Let go for

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one week the self limiting beliefs you may haveabout yourself and be present with those peoplein your life in an unconditional way. This may be alittle bit rough at first, as our family, friends orco-workers have a very firm idea of who we are tothem and how they like us to perform in their life;when this gets shaken up, well, not everyoneresponds with open arms!

What is it that you would like to begin to master?Or, what have you been working on for weeks,months or even years that you would like tomaster? Here are some that I have been workingon: patience, surrender, unconditional love,emotions, balance of nature vs. man madeobjects, male/female polarities of energies,cooperation in working with others in equality,leadership, courage, sexuality vs. sensuality,relationships, understanding the human condition,exploration of other realms, the human energyfield, the cosmos and universes. These are onlysome of the things or qualities that I myself havebeen working towards mastering throughout mylife, and I find that I am constantly checking inwith myself to keep an open mind and energy fieldfor these to grow and expand and to also discardanything that no longer works for me in themoment. Something that may have worked foryou ten years ago may not work for you in the

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present, as these days are changing so fast; as wemove forward, closer to 2012, something thatmay have worked for you last week may not verywell be serving you today. You will have to allowyourself the freedom and flow to move with whatis given to you at any moment. To master one selfor to master something, you must be willing to letgo, to allow life to show you the ropes and tosurrender to what you are seeking.

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Chapter Eight:

Living Your Mastery

YOUR SOUL'S PURPOSE

Remember the first day that you committed todoing this eight-week program. Who were youthen, how did you think or respond to life? Howare you responding to life now? What subtlechanges have you seen throughout these eightweeks? They may be so simple that they have justcrept into your life without you noticing muchchange. On the other hand, you may have seensome drastic changes in your behavior, your mentalattitude towards people, places or things, especiallyyour family and job. You might notice that you aresleeping more peacefully at night or having moreenergy during the day.

Whatever has transpired in these eight weeks willstay with you for life. You have made changes thathave affected your cellular memory and structure.Every thought is an imprint and every action is

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imprinted on your cells. You have participated anddeveloped a part of yourself that has broughttruth to you. That truth has brought either joy orsorrow to you. It all depends on how you seeyourself in your own self development. Victim orHero? The victim is the one life is happening to;the hero is the one who is creating his/her life nomatter what.

How we see our path to our purpose or how wedevelop ourselves along the path to our purposeis a reflection to who we truly seek to be. It cancome as a flash of insight or wonder at theunfolding of your new self. We change all the timeand we must begin to acknowledge those subtleshifts and changes. If we do not, then we are nothonoring who we are becoming or acknowledgingthe divinity that works through us.

We are golden beings that are connected to asource that encourages us to become aware ofwho we really are. Be open to accepting the giftsthat come forth every moment. See the sights andfeel the essence of what you are becoming, adivine being on purpose, living a life based onintegrity, honor, respect and love.

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CLEARING THE WAY

As you maintain balance and become presentto the moment, then and only then doesthe surrendering begin.

By holding a thought form that is complementarywith your desired outcome, the universe createsthe movement to make that happen. When youthink a thought that sets your desires, the universealso allows for that to manifest. Getting very clearon what you want in your life is of utmost impor-tance. Make a list of all the things that you wantto see take place, future outcomes, in situations,with people, in places and locations that youdesire to see or feel in your life. It is as simple asthat. Be aware of the energy you send out, thethoughts that come into your mind. Feel whatmakes sense to you and know that that is whatwill be manifest for you. We seem to forget thatthe universe always has our best interest at heart.Remind yourself that it must come from yourheart, not your mind or ego.

Our memories are stored within our body, in ourcells. What happens when those cellular densitiesare replaced with the heart energy, which surpasses

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anything that the mind can meld together? If youhave ever had the opportunity to feel whatunconditional love feels like, then you would knowthat nothing in the universe is more dedicated anddriven than love. Unconditional love is pure love,it is a love that encompasses all factors in humanrelationships, the love that a Mother feels for herchild, and the love that is given to another whensurrender and honor have taken over the need tocontrol and to have. Why do I bring this up now inliving your soul's purpose?

The only way to live your soul's purpose isto live it from your heart!

Sit quietly for a couple of minutes while respondingto your breath. Deep inhale and then deep exhale;feel the relaxed response to your breath and howwonderful it feels to be in sync with the ebb andflow of the movement throughout all of creation.Here is where your center is, the core of yourbeing resides in your breath and is a representa-tion of how you feel within your body. Shallowbreathing means that you take life in smallincrements, because you cannot handle a lot atonce. Deep penetrating breaths expresses thatyou have hidden thoughts that you have yet to

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clear. The breath, the body and mind, expressthemselves in unison, they express in harmony orin disharmony, that which is most fundamental toour current situation.

Once the deep, slow, methodical breathing hasregulated itself, begin to send the energy into theheart region and sense the connection you havewith Source, God, and Oneness. Here ask yourselfor God, what is it that you came here to do? Whatis your service to the world and to yourself? Listencarefully for the first thing that is revealed, there-in lays the answer to who you are and what youare to do or be. It could be one simple word, loveor compassion or truth.

What this means will always be unique to eachperson. It may reveal a part of you that you dohonor or it may express a deep place within your-self that wants to be heard or felt by you. Eachday is a prayer, what you do with that prayer is upto you. Spread the joy of who you are, becauseDivinity is all around you, within you and part of you;shine to the world that which you are becoming.If everyone begins to do this, you will see yourdreams manifest in reality and your own self mas-tery will be a beacon for all, a mirror, a reflectionof their own Divinity and connection to Source.

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Epilogue

Come to know yourself and not to sense who youmay be. Speak your truth and know that all isspoken for the greater good. Be in DivineAlignment to your Soul's Purpose and life willbegin anew. You are worthy of it, all of it; you areaccepted, acknowledged and divinely loved. Youare pure intention that has the ability to createwhatever serves your highest purpose and thepurpose of the whole. Be the brilliant light thatyou are so all others can see their reflection andmirror back to themselves the purity within. Loveunconditionally, so others can express themselvesfreely and openly knowing that their truth may bespoken and acknowledged and in that acknowledge-ment personal growth and trust is created. Alwaysspeak highly of others and you will be spoken ofhighly. Share your love with anyone who is opento receive it, knowing you are sharing a part ofyourself that is free to give anytime, anywhere.

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You are loved dearly and are held in such gratitudefor the work you do here. You are showered uponevery moment with love and grace that supportsyou in all that you do, and you are honored. Youare a gift to everything and everyone.

Blessings on your journey in life, for you are boththe creator and the creation in your own show.Play your part well. Change costume once in awhile and the scenery too, if you like! For this willbring laughter and joy and playfulness! Relax inthe flow of what the universe is offering you –pure intentional Being, unlimited expression ofthe Source.

Dance into your soul's purpose and shine yourlight! Divinity is awaiting you to merge into yourown divine energy matrix by connecting at yourheart with other hearts and in doing so, you walkyour talk and you share your soul's purpose withothers. It is all interconnected and created inperfection; allow the surrendering process tobegin so you can live your mastery!

May you be blessed on your journey of self discoveryand personal mastery in living the life of yourdreams!

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About the Author

Deborah Skye King is asoul coach, a facilitatorfor spiritual develop-ment. She guides peo-ple to the core of theirbeing to experience theirtrue expression. She isa professional past liferegression therapist hav-ing studied with Dr.Brian Weiss and DoloresCannon. She is thefounder of The DivineEnergy Matrix Connection™ a breakthrough inenergy therapeutics, and a master healer andteacher.

Deborah Skye lives in Toronto with her daughterLuminous. She is the owner of Soul Therapy Studiowhere her private practice focuses on soul devel-opment utilizing past life regression therapy and

About the Author

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angelic wisdom through The Divine Energy MatrixConnection™. When Skye is not focusing on herdivine purpose and how to share it, she relaxes bythe water enjoying long walks with her family, andtraveling to sacred sites and loving the gift ofbeing alive during such blessed and transforma-tional times.

Her CD, Your Soul's Purpose – Awakening to YourDivine Self, can be purchased through herwebsite.

Visit: www.deborahskye.com

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CREATING THE LIFE OF YOUR DREAMSThis book has the potential to change your life forever. Thesimple tools that are available to you and presented in a handson format allows you to reach your highest potential. Givenover a course of eight weeks, this manual for living is a key toyour future. Having spent over thirteen years traveling theglobe and working with people going through transformations,Deborah Skye is an expert in the field of soul coaching. Sheshares her knowledge here for the first time enabling you totake charge of your own transformations.

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You are a magnificent being with unlimited potential!