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on the cover:Dr. Harold A. Carter(1936-2013)

New Shiloh Baptist Church 2100 N. Monroe StreetBaltimore, MD 21217410-532-5306www.newshilohbaptist.org

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f e a t u r e s28 Governor’sPaGe Governor Martin O’Malley

17 Mayor’sJournal Mayor Stephanie Rawlings-Blake

Pg.10-11Dr. Harold A. Carter Speaks

21 educationdiGest Dr. Tim Tooten

Lessons Learned

23 Bookshelf Brandie Manigault

TheRealityofAngels (Lester Sumrall)

31 teenconnect Pastors Greg & Tonya Dennis

It’s Up To You

sPecialfeatureatributetothelifeandlegacyofdr.harolda.carter-Pgs.12-15

29 finance About.com Top 10 Money Tips for Women

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Pg.8-9Q&A Interview with Dr. Harold A. Carter, Jr.

c o n t e n t s

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In Every IssueContributors .................................................................. 6

From the Editor ............................................................. 7

Scripture Page ............................................................ 16

Carter’s Commentary .................................................. 46

41 Wordof encouraGeMent Donna Williams-Ross

Are You Up For The Challenge

44 GosPelindustry neWs Ericka Johnson

39 WoMan’sPersPective Cassandra Vaughn-Fox Faith

35 nutrition&you Herline A. Knights Eating Well While Eating Out

37 storyofhoPe Dori Powledge Phillips

33 BodyBasics About.com How to Exercise With a Disability or Injury

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PuBlisher/ Jackie Epps editor-in-chief

editorial

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For the LORD God is a sun and shield: the LORD will give grace and glory: no good thing will he withhold from them that walk uprightly.

Psalm 84:11

Contributors chairman — Dr. A.C. D. Vaughn

Sr. Pastor, Sharon Baptist Church, MD

vice-chairman — Dr. Frank M. Reid III Sr. Pastor, Bethel A.M.E. Church, MD

Dr. Jerome A. Barber Sixth Mount Zion Baptist Temple, Hampton , VA

Dr. Michael A. Battle Sr., U.S. Ambassador President, ITC Seminary, Atlanta, GA

Dr. Timothy Boddie Friendship Baptist Church, Atlanta, GA

Bishop John R. Bryant Presiding Prelate of the 5th Episcopal District

Dr. Harold A. Carter, Sr.Pastor, New Shiloh Baptist Church, MD

Dr. Suzan Johnson Cook, U.S. Ambassador

Dr. WIlliam H. Curtis Mt. Ararat Baptist Church, Pittsburgh, PA

Bishop Ralph L. DennisSr. Pastor, Kingdom Worship Center, MD

Wanda Q. Draper/Media Executive

Michele J.K. Epps/Health Sciences

Cassandra VaughnDir., Balto City Office Of Communications & Cable

Dr. Donte’ L. Hickman, Sr.Pastor, Southern Baptist Church, MD

Pastor Timothy V. Manigault

Bishop Dennis V. Proctor Presiding Prelate of the Western Episcopal Region AME Zion Church

Dr. Kenneth O. RobinsonPastor, Restoring Life International Church, MD

Bishop Walter Scott Thomas, Sr.Pastor, New Psalmist Baptist Church, MD

Dr. Timothy Tooten, Sr. Pastor, Harvest Christian Ministries, MD

Advisory Board

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chairman — Dr. A.C. D. VaughnSr. Pastor, Sharon Baptist Church, MD

vice-chairman — Dr. Frank M. Reid III Sr. Pastor, Bethel A.M.E. Church, MD

Dr. Jerome A. Barber Sixth Mount Zion Baptist Temple, Hampton , VA

Dr. Michael A. Battle Sr., U.S. Ambassador President, ITC Seminary, Atlanta, GA

Dr. Timothy Boddie Friendship Baptist Church, Atlanta, GA

Bishop John R. Bryant Presiding Prelate of the 5th Episcopal District

Dr. Harold A. Carter, Sr.Pastor, New Shiloh Baptist Church, MD

Dr. Suzan Johnson Cook, U.S. Ambassador

Dr. WIlliam H. Curtis Mt. Ararat Baptist Church, Pittsburgh, PA

Bishop Ralph L. DennisSr. Pastor, Kingdom Worship Center, MD

Wanda Q. Draper/Media Executive

Michele J.K. Epps/Health Sciences

Cassandra VaughnDir., Balto City Office Of Communications & Cable

Dr. Donte’ L. Hickman, Sr.Pastor, Southern Baptist Church, MD

Pastor Timothy V. Manigault

Bishop Dennis V. Proctor Presiding Prelate of the Western Episcopal Region AME Zion Church

Dr. Kenneth O. RobinsonPastor, Restoring Life International Church, MD

Bishop Walter Scott Thomas, Sr.Pastor, New Psalmist Baptist Church, MD

Dr. Timothy Tooten, Sr. Pastor, Harvest Christian Ministries, MD

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from the editor

Jackie EppsEditor

Not long ago we had to say goodbye to one of God’s greatest soldiers, Dr. Harold A. Carter, who passed from this life and is now at rest in the Lord. This month we are dedicating this issue to the memory of his life and his legacy. Oftentimes we find out things we did not know about a person until they are no longer with us. Such is not the case for Dr. Carter. He touched so many lives (and I mean many) during the course of his life.

As I worked on this issue there was one word that took on new meaning for me; that word was determined. I am often in awe and amazed at what God is able to do with one single person’s life. God is able to do exceeding abundantly more than you could ever imagine with your life. I believe that one of the keys to living a great life is being determined to live the life God has prepared for you. And so it was for Dr. Harold A. Carter; he was determined to live his life for Christ. This determination resonated throughout his 48+ years of ministry.

You will also find in this month’s Story of Hope, a woman who despite of the most horrible tragedy you could imagine happening, she was determined to still give God the glory and live her life for Christ. Again I was in awe and amazed at what God did and is doing in her life.

It takes a lot of strength and courage to be determined and remain determined. Being determined is making a firm decision and being resolved not to change it. Never underestimate determination and what it can do. I believe that God is looking for us as believers to remain steadfast, unmovable and always abounding in the work of the Lord. God promises our labor will not be in vain.

In closing I would like to express my gratitude to Dr. Harold A. Carter, Jr., who in the midst of his mourning for his father, helped me with such grace and patience, put together this issue in tribute to his father. From the depths of my heart, I say thank you.

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Determined . . .I press toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus.

– Philippians 3:14

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G&G: Dr. Carter let me start by saying it is indeed an honor to spotlight you for ‘Black History Month’, and it is very exciting to be able to talk with someone who is a living legend of Black History. It is no secret that you were an integral part of the Civil Rights Movement, which is a big part of Black History. How and why did you become active in the Civil Rights Movement?Dr. Carter: This question immediately takes me back

to the spirit of the times during the 1950’s and 1960’s. There was a contagious spirit in the air that our time—as Black People—had come. It was like Baltimore Ravens fans all hyped up for the big win. The big difference was that we deeply believed the Lord was on our side. I was swept along by this tide, both as a high school and college student.

G&G: Dr. Carter, what did you do during the Civil Rights Movement? What was your passion during this era? Do you feel as if you made a difference? Dr. Carter: I was able to see and observe firsthand the power of prayer and song, arising out of the Black Slave Tradition, become the powerful living tools that pulled Black people together and kept hope alive. During the years, 1959-1965, I was one of the leaders of the Lynchburg Improvement Association that brought Dr. King, Jr. to Lynchburg, Virginia for mass meetings and marches. Additionally, I led the last delegation of ministers from Baltimore, Maryland to Miami, Florida for the last major forum on civil rights led by Dr.

G&G: It would appear that for more than 45 years of ministering that this is what you have always wanted to do. Did you ever have the desire to do anything other than preaching the Gospel of Jesus Christ? Tell us about your call to ministry, was it a difficult call to accept?Dr. Carter: My call to preach the gospel was real and difficult for me. My father was a professor in a local seminary, Selma University, Selma, AL. I went to school for ten of my

grade school years in that school. I was therefore always around preachers, in class- rooms, chapel services, revival meetings, and the like. Additionally, my home was a place of great love and family peace. But still, I did not want to preach possibly because preachers were often stigmatized in negative ways and I wanted no part of that. I concluded that I would perhaps be a doctor, maybe a lawyer, or perhaps a musician. I even though of being an artist, dabbling in painting and sculpting, as a course of life’s work. In truth, I was running from an invincible call upon my life. When I was around seven years of age, I had a dream during the night— perhaps a vision—that I will never forget. The sky was luminously dark, when the stars aligned themselves and wrote out five words, “You are called to preach.” I told no one about this experience, yet that experience would never leave me. When in college, at Alabama State University, Montgomery,

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King. I returned to Baltimore and became the local leader of the Poor People’s Campaign, after Dr. King’s assassination under the leadership of Dr. Abernathy. With my late friend, Dr. William A. Jones, Jr., and other clergy, I participated in the protest against A & P supermarket, during a massive demonstration held at their headquarters building in New York City. We were fighting for the rights of minority workers.

G&G: Finally Dr. Carter, is there anything else you would like to say or do you have any closing remarks for our fellow citizens of the United States of America. Dr. Carter: My closing remark is the sense that we as a people of color, need a renewal of appreciation for the Lord of our his- tory, Jesus Christ, for family and for church. I am well aware of the many faiths that are a part of our American family. But, I am also aware that our historic greatness is largely due to worship, work, wisdom, and wonder. We must guard against our children losing the sense of wonder, in an age when it is so easy to be absorbed in “My Space” and “techno games.” The greatest wonder is what God will do in my life and through my life to make of me the person I ought to be.

I had the privilege of interviewing Dr. Harold A. Carter on three separate occasions for the Grace & Glory Magazine. Dr. Harold A. Carter

graced the cover of three issues, February 2009, May 2010, and October 2012. The following are excerpts from those three interviews. – Jackie EppsEditor

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blessed to minister in other churches, as well. He had just finished preaching, and as we shared together, following the service, I said to him, “Doc, you really preached the Gospel, here, today.” He responded, “Thank you, but I must tell you that there aren’t too many places where preaching is so readily received and where corporate worship turned me on, like here, in New Shiloh.” His statement is my response. There is, in New Shiloh, the driving sense that one’s next sermon must be better; the next worship must be higher and be full of expectation; and that the best is yet to come. The many years I’ve been at New Shiloh have been based on this abiding attitude that keeps me charged and challenged.

G&G: Dr. Carter, Sr., if a ministry is known by its fruit, would you say the test of any ministry is the production of saints, calling and equipping disciples, in other words the church turned inside out? Dr. Carter: Your question is very important and, again, the answer is found therein. We cannot improve on what Jesus said, in St. Mt. 7:20, that “by their fruits ye shall know them.” The essence of fruit, in Jesus’ teaching, is soul-winning and soul development, which have been and continue to be, the most difficult of works in the church. Practically, any church can have a musical event and pack the church, but such must not be confused with growing/ discipling the saints. Jesus grew/discipled the saints by laying hold on “the few” and developing them… and don’t forget, He was still developing them after His resurrection.

G&G: Dr. Carter, Sr., lastly I have one personal question for you. I believe as we mature in the faith our wisdom and knowledge of Jesus also matures, what does Jesus mean in your life today? Dr. Carter: This is the hardest of all the questions you’ve raised, for me. Jesus spoke of the great, “I Am’s” regarding His relationship with God and who He is for us. I am discovering, in my relationship with God, that my best understanding is Jesus being whatever I need Him to be, in any given situation. Years ago, I would probably have used some packaged statement to answer, like: “He’s my Savior. He’s my friend,” etc. but these statements fail to come to grip with problems I have faced, of late, where nice packaged (or clichéd) statements may not always, for me, “ring the bell.” Jesus’ understanding, to me, as the great “I Am” means that He’s always ahead of me, and I’m always amazed seeking to be His follower. In this sense, I’m still struggling by faith to know more and more about this One who leads me, for even now He causes me to say, “He’s a wonder. He’s a wonder to my soul.”

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G&G: Dr. Carter, Sr., what does it mean to you to pastor the New Shiloh Baptist Church, a ministry with such a rich heritage and legacy?Dr. Carter: I’ll answer your question by sharing a comment of a preacher who recently ministered in our church and is

AL, I had the opportunity to have a conference with Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. regarding my call. I was glad to hear him say that he had rebelled against ministry, even as I had. But, oh what joy and peace he told me he found when he yielded himself to the will of God. I left his office “walking on cloud nine” and the rest is ongoing history.G&G: After more than 45 years of preaching, teaching and pastoring what would you say is the most significant change you have seen in ministry? Would you say that ministry has become more difficult than when you first started? Is it more challenging now to reach the ‘lost’ and get people saved? Dr. Carter: It is good to see an ever growing acceptance of women in ministry. In many seminaries today, more women are in theological training than men. This can be nothing but good considering that statistically, more than 91% of Americans are affiliated with no church. There seems to be a changed attitude towards the fear of God and the need for prayer. The hip-hop culture that in many ways pro- motes selfish interests has done a job upon our culture, eroding standards of speech, dress, respect for elders and the like. In this climate, leading people to give their lives to God is more challenging indeed. The good news is that there is no bankruptcy of power with God!

G&G: Lastly, Dr. Carter, you possess such a rich legacy and with more than 45 years of ministry now under your belt, have you accomplished all that you have desired to do? Are you working on any projects that we have yet to hear about?Dr. Carter: Yes, I am still working on being a better preacher. I still find joy leading another soul to Jesus Christ. I can tell you that I am aware that not too many persons in my position can say that I was there and experienced the “old time country church.” I know the church of the Civil Rights Movement and I know the post-Civil Rights Movement church. Add to this shift of passage, I can say that I have lived during our African-American Religious experience from the cotton fi elds to the cathedrals of learning and have known or at least met many of the movers and shakers of our race. I do feel that I have the blessing of a lot of experience and knowledge which should be put to print in one form or another. Beyond this, I am grateful to say, “I am determined to live one day at a time!”

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Since the passing of Dr. Harold A. Carter, we have all seen and heard many people express their thoughts and comments about Dr. Harold A. Carter. Church members, family members, clergy and legislative officials shared their feelings through the news media and the two-day Home Going celebration that took place. I am grateful for the opportunity to share with our readers an exclusive interview with Dr. Harold A. Carter, Jr., the son of the late Dr. Harold A. Carter.

G&G: Dr. Carter, we have dedicated this month’s issue to the memory of your father, Dr. Harold A. Carter, who has graced the cover of this magazine on three separate occasions and was a monthly supporter from day one. We have been praying for you and your family. How are you and the family doing?Dr. Carter: Quite frankly, the whole thing still feels surreal. However, those walks into his (empty) office, those desired phones calls to and from him, and the absence of his presence in worship, etc. are truly real. Then, of course, there was the irony of his passing and subsequent Home Going service that came so close to Father’s Day. As fate would have it, that was my first Sunday preaching, post funeral, so with the help of the Spirit, I existentialized St. Luke 6:21b and preached a message entitled, God’s Sense of Humor. Do know, that my father really appreciated you, Ms. Jackie, and the tremendous work of Grace & Glory, and our family thanks you, and all concerned, for this tribute issue. It’s really these kinds of opportunities, along with the love and prayers of our family’s respective churches and the faith community, that we find ourselves able to vent, share, and be strengthened.

G&G: Dr. Carter, it has been said that your father was one the most influential pastors of his time. Many people use words to describe Dr. Carter like: an icon, a legend, and a leader. Growing up as his son when did you realize that your father was more than just your dad?Dr. Carter: I appreciate your question, and I have heard such and similar descriptions. My response, however, is that I cannot state that there was a specific moment. My father, whether at home, play, travel, work, study and/or church kept things exciting, interesting and (to use his term) up beat. It was a joy being his son. I believe that he was able to maintain a balance of humility and his God-given “larger than life” persona. Needless to say that he would never have seen himself as celebrity. He saw himself as simply being used by God; and, that’s the lens I grew up seeing him through.

G&G: Dr. Carter, there is no one that can know Dr. Carter the way you knew him as his son. What words would you use to describe your father? I am sure that you

have many, many memories of your father and numerous stories to tell, what is your fondest memory that will always be first and foremost?Dr. Carter: I know that you have asked me for my words, but allow me to quote him about himself. He would say, from time to time, that he was an enigma to

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himself. What I believe he meant by that was it amazed him that God could/would use a playful boy from Selma, Alabama and make him a world-wide evangelist and a cutting-edge pastor. More to the point, I believe that he was saying that when God wants to use a person, God will, and there is nothing and no one who can stop it, regardless of who that person is or even what that person may think, feel, or believe about him/herself.

G&G: Dr. Carter, there is no doubt that losing a pastor can be a time of unrest and uncertainty for a church, particularly losing a pastor who has lead a church for 48 years. Churches from all over will be watching to see how the New Shiloh Baptist Church will cope with this and handle transition. How will you deal with this tremendous responsibility and will you seek any guidance from anyone? Dr. Carter: Although there’s nothing new per sé about our transition, it is still somewhat unique. Therefore, I’ve been sharing with New Shiloh that certainly for us we have moved into uncharted territory. Yes, the history of the church proves that two previous pastors passed while serving; namely, Dr. Whit W. Allen and Dr. J. Timothy Bodie, but the office of Pastor was left vacant and Search Committees were formed, respectively. In the passing of Dr. Carter, such is not the case inasmuch as the congregation officially voted, in 1996, that I serve as pastor, as well. In the traditional African-American Baptist Church, such places us as a part of a shift where succession is concerned, as well as a part of a potentially new paradigm (or, as some may contend, a return back to a more Biblical approach and understanding concerning leadership).

G&G: Dr. Carter, in actuality you not only loss your father but you loss your pastor too. Does this fact increase the magnitude of your loss and the weight you now carry on your shoulders?Dr. Carter: Oh, you are absolutely correct;

without a doubt. In fact, for me it is, at the least, a triple loss, because especially in my adult years I’ve been able to know and claim my father and my pastor as, also, my friend. I hasten to respond that I actually miss him more as the latter of the three. And, it’s not so much a weight that I carry as it is a void, for outside of Jesus Christ, the void is irreplaceable. We shared, challenged each other, laughed, prayed and worshipped together, travelled, agonized, and he would often state publically that in the 17 years we pastored together, at New Shiloh, we never so much as had the slightest “hic cup,” and that we instinctively knew what the other was sensing, feeling, about to say, etc. And, he was 100% correct, with all praise and thanks to God, for only God could do that.

G&G: Dr. Carter, I’m sure that it will be difficult in the days to come for you and for the church, but I believe that God knows this and will undergird you as you continue to do the work of the Lord. One assignment that is an annual event for the New Shiloh Baptist Church is on the horizon for the end of summer. Would you tell us about this upcoming revival? What will be the focus for this year’s revival and will there be a guest revivalist?Dr. Carter: Ms. Jackie, I’m so glad that you have brought this up. During a recent Officer’s Meeting, I shared with our diaconate that although it has been my honor and privilege to have preached with Pastor Carter as a part of the Annual Summer Ending Revival (which he did, by himself, for almost 30 years) that this year’s Revival would pay homage to his strong belief in the power of God’s Word and that we would call on some of the preachers whose ministries he had poured into and have been a blessing to him and New

Shiloh, over the years, to serve. Therefore this year’s Summer-Ending Revival will be a kind of Memorial Revival that will celebrate the Preached Word. The dates are August 25th-29th (Sun.-Thur.) and the following pastors are confirmed and will be preaching God’s Word: Dr. Charles E. Booth, Bishop Rudolph McKissick, Jr., Dr. Joe Ratliff, Bishop Walter S. Thomas, and Dr. A. C. D. Vaughn.

G&G: Dr. Carter, thank you so much for talking with me and allowing me to share this with our readers. We will continue to pray for you and the New Shiloh Baptist Church family. We look forward to hearing from you again real soon. I believe ‘greater things’ are coming for you and the New Shiloh Baptist Church. Dr. Carter: You know that I have nothing but love for you and all of the Grace & Glory readers. It has been my joy to be a part of “the family”, and I am grateful for your consideration in honoring my father’s, my pastor’s and my friend’s life and legacy in this edition. Indeed, having impacted each of us in so many ways, Dr. Carter belonged to all of us; but, ultimately he belonged to God.

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Dr. Tim Tooten is an Emmy Award winning journalist and

the Senior Education Reporter for WBAL-TV (NBC). He’s

also the pastor and founder of Harvest Christian Ministries in

Baltimore County, Maryland

Dr. Tim Tooten, Sr.

I am convinced that it wouldn’t take very long for many of us to name a few of our favorite subjects from those early days of school. In fact, I’d be the first to admit that I preferred reading instead of math and physical education instead of science. However, later in life I would discover that there was another subject I found worthy of my attention. It was my own life journey. It was the Greek philosopher Socrates who said, “The unexamined life is not worth living.” From the pew to the pulpit, from a church attendee to a pastor there have been many lessons learned over the past seven years as the leader of Harvest Christian ministries. They have been lessons learned about leadership and about myself. Our fellowship began with twenty-five members. It has since grown to more than one hundred. The numerical growth cannot be compared to the personal growth I’ve experienced as an individual. God has continually shown me favor with my family and fellowship. One of the greatest lessons learned over the past seven years of pastoring has been that of trust. I’m reminded of a number of powerful truths that have helped to guide my life and ministry. One of them is found in the Old Testament book of Proverbs. “Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight” (Proverbs 3:5-6). I believe we’ve all been guilty of putting too much trust in people, places, things and even ourselves. In some cases, we’ve focused on our abilities, gifts and talents over the wisdom of God.

Many times over this seven-year journey, I thank God for an “examined” life. It’s a life driven by encouragement from God’s word, my family, friends and congregation. These moments of encouragement have shown up on a number of late Saturday nights while I sat at my computer preparing for the Sunday morning message. It was during those times, I pondered and prayed to God to use His words from my mouth to reach the hearts of His people. I am reminded of the biblical character David. In times of challenge, hardship and tribulation, he looked upward and he looked inward. Here’s what he records in the book of 1 Samuel. “And David was greatly distressed; for the people spake of stoning him, because the soul of all the people was grieved, every man for his sons and for his daughters: but David encouraged himself in the LORD his God “(1 Samuel 30:6). I’m committed to encourage the people God has placed in my path beyond the Sunday morning worship experience. He reminds me that encouragement begets encouragement. It’s one of the most valuable “lessons learned” along life’s journey. I encourage you as you read the words of this column to pause and encourage yourself. It was Aristotle, another Greek philosopher, who penned these words, “Knowing yourself is the beginning of all wisdom.” But I know that all wisdom comes from an all-wise God and that’s why I embrace these life-changing words from the Holy Scriptures. “The fruit of the righteous is a tree of life; and he that wins souls is wise”(Proverbs 11:30).

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by Brandie ManigaultBook Shelf

The Reality of Angels By Lester Sumrall Have you ever wondered whether angels were real or not? And if they are real, what did they do? Are they still around today, and if so what is their function now? Are there different types of angels? Does each person have their own “personal”angel? Curious about angels in general, I picked up a book called The Reality of Angels by Lester Sumrall, and was blown away by what I didn’t know about them. The way that Sumrall writes this book is from a non bias, non-opinionated stance. He based all of his findings and conclusions on Scriptures that reference the Angels. His heavy reliance on the Scripture almost makes this book like a documentary on paper or an irrefutable defence for their existance and purpose. Vary rarely in these pages will you find his personal commentary on the topic, the chapter regarding “personal angels” being the exception. One of my favorite lines from The Reality of Angels says, “Angels help those who know and serve God”. That makes it really easy to know if you qualify or not for some angelic service!Sumrall also adresses the topic of Satan and the “rebel angels”, also known as demons. He logs evidence from the fall, to their choice of rebellion, to their exit from Heaven for eternity. He goes on to mention their involvement and influence in the earth today. The line that I think best describes Satan’s “job” says that he

Lester Sumrall Lester Sumrall (1913-1996), world-renowned pastor and evangelist entered full-time service for God after experiencing what he recalls as the most dramatic and significant thing that ever happened to him. At the age of 17, as he lay on a

deathbed suffering from tuberculosis, he received a vision: suspended in midair to the right of his bed was a casket; on his left was a large open Bible. He heard these words: “Lester, which of these will you choose tonight?” He made his decision: he would preach the Gospel as long as he lived. When he awoke the next morning, he was completely healed. Dr. Sumrall ministered in more than 110 countries, including Soviet Siberia, Russia, Tibet, and China. He established Feed the Hungry in 1987. In addition, he wrote over 130 books. His evangelistic association (LeSEA), headquartered in South Bend, Indiana, is still actively spreading God’s Word. Dr. Sumrall’s goal was to win 1,000,000 souls for the kingdom of God, and the ministry continues this vision. LeSEA ministry includes such outreaches as the World Harvest Bible College, radio and television stations, a teaching tape ministry, and numerous publications.

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“works in continual opposition to God’s program and person, for

he is the archenemy of God”. The Reality of Angels goes through Scriptures that stretch from the beginning of the Bible in Genesis until its conclusion in Revelation highlighting the different types of angels, their roles and their assignments. He goes into detail on

what they know as it pertains to salvation, the church, God’s agenda for man, and more.If you have ever had any question about angels, this one book, The Reality of Angels, is the only book that you need in your library. It is an incredible resource full of the Word of God concerning his creation. Note… this is an older book, so their may be multiple versions of the cover due to reprinting.

-Brandie

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T his month and next we honor some of the significant events in American history. On July 4 we celebrate the Unites States’ independence from British rule. In August, we celebrate the 50th anniversary of the March on Washington where civil rights’ leaders gathered to protest against unequal employment opportunities and racial discrimination and Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. gave his “I Have a Dream” speech. We remember the legacy of those who paved the way for our present successes and these are just two events that have shaped our country and us individually as citizens. In a more personal way, each of us has memories that have impacted our lives and have made us the people we are today. Sometimes it is difficult to look back at the struggles you have overcome but it is a good idea to never forget to remember. Reminders foster character in those who integrate their memories well by separating the good from the bad and making the most of the best parts of life. In Joshua Chapter 4, the Israelites are reminded to, “Go over before the ark of the Lord your God into the middle of the Jordan. Each of you is to take up a stone on his shoulder, according to the number of the tribes of the Israelites, to serve as a sign among you. In the future, when your children ask you, ‘What do these stones mean?’ Tell them that the flow of the Jordan was cut off before the ark of the covenant of the Lord. When it crossed the Jordan, the waters of the Jordan were cut off. These stones are to be a memorial to the people of Israel forever.” They are encouraged to take something of significance from their journey so they can share with others how far God has brought them. Memories serve as a gateway to our past for those in our present and future generations. We need to have more time with one another to discuss our present success in the wider context of our past struggles. We all need to know our history no matter what skeletons come out of the closet. Hosea reminds us that, “People are destroyed for a lack of knowledge.” We need to begin sharing our wisdom and knowledge so those who come behind us can be strengthened by our godly heritage. We have the power to pass wisdom on to them and encourage them by the words of our testimony. It is time to take action and begin challenging false beliefs and start creating new visions and dreams for our families, churches and communities. We want people to look back with fond memories of how we nurtured and embraced their creativity and passions with our own witness. We want to help foster healthy experiences for our children, grandchildren and children in our community. Memories feed our lives and help others build theirs. Start a scrapbook, memory chest, organize old photographs, create a digital library or chart your family history. It may be the answer to someone else’s future.

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Better Choices, Better Resultsby Governor Martin O’Malley

Governor O’Malley, alongside Mayor Stephanie Rawlings-Blake, visits MAPCorp in Baltimore to highlight the EARN job-training initiative.

During the six years of the O’Malley-Brown administration, every decision we have made has been guided by the North Star of expanding opportunity and strengthening our middle class.

When Lt. Governor Brown and I took office in January 2007, too many of our public schools were failing. Crime was on the rise outside of Baltimore. College tuition for Maryland families had been jacked up 40 percent. Our State was facing a future of ever-deeper deficits.

During year one, we made tough choices to cut spending, reduce the size of government, and secure new revenues to improve public education. We passed the nation’s first living wage law. We reformed Maryland’s tax code—lowering income taxes for 86 percent of Marylanders. We expanded access to health care for vulnerable children and their families. Just as we were starting to see results, the national recession hit. Hard-working families across the country and in our State lost jobs and homes. Some states tried to cut their way to prosperity. In Maryland, we made different and better choices. We applied a balanced approach of cuts, revenues, reforms and investments, guided by three economic truths: There is no progress without a job. There is no job creation without fiscal responsibility. To create jobs, a modern economy requires modern investment.

We’re investing more, not less, in education. Not only have Maryland schools ranked #1 for an unprecedented five years in a row, but low-income students in Maryland have made more progress to close the achievement

gap than in any other state. We’re working to expand skills training initiatives, including employer-led workforce development outlined in the Employment Advancement Right Now (EARN) Act. So far, we’ve recovered 95 percent of the jobs lost in the recession.

We’re investing more, not less, in innovation. We’ve created incubators and tax credits in growing, job-creating innovation sectors like cyber-security and biotechnology. We’re bringing together universities and business to bring cutting-edge technology onto the market, where it can turn into jobs. As a result, Maryland ranks #1 in innovation and entrepreneurship, according to the US Chamber of Commerce. We rank #1 in per capita

research and development.We’re investing more, not less, to modernize the infrastructure of our state’s economy. The historic Public-Private Partnership at the Port of Baltimore created thousands of jobs. In our most recent legislative session, we made the tough choices necessary to repair, refurbish and rebuild Maryland’s roads, bridges and mass transit. These transportation investments will create 57,200 jobs over the next several years, and will spark hundreds of millions of dollars in economic activity.

This is the story of Maryland. It’s the story of making better choices together to give our children a safer and better life – with more opportunity, not less.

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Why do so many women delegate their financial security to a spouse or significant other and allow divorce or death to plunge them into poverty? Why do so many women spend more than they earn and become mired in debt? A National Center for Women and Retirement Research (NCWRR) study showed a direct correlation between a woman’s personality characteristics and her financial habits. Assertiveness, openness to change, and an optimistic outlook are the qualities that tend to lead to smart money choices. Financial Planner, author, and TV host Suze Orman believes our problems with money are manifestations of problems in our life and relationships. Work on the money issues and many of the other problems will take care of themselves; or, work on the other problems and the money problems will take care of themselves. For many people, money is an emotionally charged issue. It may represent power, or love, or control, especially in relationships. Our beliefs about money and our emotional attachments to it strongly influence the way we spend and handle money. If you aren’t where you should be financially, examine what drives you emotionally when it comes to money and try to figure out the psychological stumbling blocks that keep you from becoming financially independent. Here are ten of the most important things women can do for themselves and their financial future:

1. Don’t rely on someone else, like a husband or boyfriend, for your financial security. Educate yourself about money management and investing.

2. Set goals - it’s key to financial success.3. Don’t use money to make yourself feel good. That type

of high is fleeting. Instead, do things that promote self-respect and creativity so you don’t have to seek those feelings through spending money.

4. Spend less than you earn - it’s the secret to creating wealth.

5. Get an education. People with college degrees make on average significantly more money than those who don’t have degrees.

6. Build an emergency fund. Without one, losing your job or

incurring a large unexpected bill could force you to take on heavy credit card debt, and could put you into a financial hole that will be difficult if not impossible to dig your way out of.

7. Be involved in the day-to-day management of your family’s finances, and talk about money with your spouse.

8. Don’t take on your partner’s or spouse’s debt when you marry. Wait until you’re both out of debt before tying the knot, or protect yourself with a pre-nuptial agreement. They’re not only for the rich.

9. Don’t let the fear of losing money, fear of failure, or fear of the unknown stop you from investing.

10. Learn from your money mistakes. Don’t let them hobble you.

Turn Your Financial Life Around

Your financial security is dependent on your attitudes and beliefs about money and your willingness to take your financial future into your own hands.

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Summer is here, school is out . . .

and you ask yourself “What can I

do this summer?” Well, we have a

few suggestions for you and at the

end it’s all up to you.

• Volunteer in your local Library. (Meet new people and read books, yes we said read books.)

• Find a senior to help. (Help a senior citizen from your neighborhood or church. Never get tired of doing little things for people, because those little things occupy the biggest part in their hearts.)

• Organize a block clean-up. (Mom will be amazed considering your room, but with your friends show some pride in your neighborhood.)

• Visit grandparents. (Ask questions about your family history you might be amazed by what you learn.)

• Start a business. (If you see a need or just want some extra cash . . .fill the need and get paid for it.)

• Have some fun. (Jump in a pool or run through a sprinkler

with your clothes on.)• Learn how to play a new sport or an instrument. (Keep

active and stimulate your brain.)• Make your kitchen a restaurant and serve your family

dinner. (Have a cooking contest.)• Camp out in your backyard or in your living room. (Crazy

fun.)

These are just a few things that can make your summer full. Do not sit on the sideline waiting for something to happen. There is nothing wrong with being productive. It’s better than being lazy. Do your best work, do it as quickly as is reasonable, and do not forget your friends and family. Connecting with others is very important. Be productive and have fun while you are doing it. Your productivity now will set your course for life. It’s all up to you!

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Since people with disabilities or long-term injuries have a tendency to live less-active lifestyles, it can be even more important for you to exercise on a regular basis. According to the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, adults with disabilities should aim for: • At least 150 minutes a week of moderate-intensity, or 75 minutes a week of vigorous-intensity cardiovascular activity (or a combination of both), with each workout lasting for at least 10 minutes. • Two or more sessions a week of moderate- or high-intensity strength-training activities involving all the major muscle groups. If your disability or injury makes it impossible for you to meet these guidelines, aim to engage in regular physical activity according to your ability, and avoid inactivity whenever possible.Workouts for upper body injury or disability Depending on the location and nature of your injury or disability, you may still be able to walk, jog, use an elliptical machine, or even swim using flotation aids. If not, try using a stationary upright or recumbent bike for cardiovascular exercise. When it comes to strength training, your injury or disability may limit your use of free weights and resistance bands, or may just mean you have to reduce the weight or level of resistance. Consult with your doctor or physical therapist for safe ways to work around the injury or disability, and make use of exercise machines in a gym or health club, especially those that focus on the lower body.

Isometric exercises If you experience joint problems from arthritis or an injury, for example, a doctor or physical therapist may recommend isometric exercises to help maintain muscle strength or prevent further muscle deterioration. Isometric exercises require you to push against immovable objects or another body part without changing the muscle length or moving the joint.

Electro muscle stimulation If you’ve experienced muscle loss from an injury, disability, or long period of immobility, electro muscle stimulation may be used to increase blood circulation and range of motion in a muscle. Muscles are gently contracted using electrical current transmitted via electrodes placed on the skin.

How to exercise in a chair or wheelchair Chair-bound exercises are ideal for people with lower body injuries or disabilities, those with weight problems or diabetes, and frail seniors looking to reduce their risk of falling. Cardiovascular and flexibility chair exercises can help improve posture and reduce back pain, while any chair exercise can help alleviate body sores caused by sitting in the same position for long periods. They’re also a great way to squeeze in a workout while you’re watching TV. • If possible, choose a chair that allows you to keep your knees at 90 degrees when seated. If you’re in a wheelchair, securely apply the brakes or otherwise immobilize the chair. • Try to sit up tall while exercising and use your abs to maintain good posture.• If you suffer from high blood pressure, check your blood pressure before exercising and avoid chair exercises that involve weights.• Test your blood sugar before and after exercise if you take diabetes medication that can cause hypoglycemia (low blood sugar).

Cardiovascular exercise in a chair or wheelchairWheelchair sports If you want to add competition to your workouts, several organizations offer adaptive exercise programs and competitions for sports such as basketball, track and field, volleyball, and weightlifting. See Resources section below. Chair aerobics, a series of seated repetitive movements, will raise your heart rate and help you burn calories, as will many strength training exercises when performed at a fast pace with a high number of repetitions. In fact any rapid, repetitive movements offer aerobic benefits and can also help to loosen up stiff joints.• Wrap a lightweight resistance band under your chair (or bed or couch, even) and perform rapid resistance exercises, such as chest presses, for a count of one second up and two seconds down. Try several different exercises to start, with 20 to 30 reps per exercise, and gradually increase the number of exercises, reps, and total workout time as your endurance improves.• Simple air-punching, with or without hand weights, is an easy cardio exercise from a seated position, and can be fun when playing along with a Nintendo Wii

or Xbox 360 video game.• Many swimming pools and health clubs offer pool-therapy programs with access for wheelchair users. If you have some leg function, try a water aerobics class. • Some gyms offer wheelchair-training machines that make arm-bicycling and rowing possible. For a similar exercise at home, some portable pedal machines can be used with the hands when secured to a table in front of you. Strength training exercise in a chair or wheelchairMany traditional upper body exercises can be done from a seated position using dumbbells, resistant bands, or anything that is weighted and fits in your hand, like soup cans. • Perform exercises such as shoulder presses, bicep curls, and triceps extensions using heavier weights and more resistance than for cardio exercises. Aim for two to three sets of 8 to 12 repetitions for each exercise, adding weight and more exercises as your strength improves.• Resistance bands can be attached to furniture, a doorknob, or your chair. Use these for pull-downs, shoulder rotations, and arm and leg-extensions.

Flexibility exercise in a chair or wheelchairChair Yoga Most yoga poses can be modified or adapted depending on your physical mobility, weight, age, medical condition, and any injury or disability. Chair yoga is ideal if you have a disability, injury, or a medical condition such arthritis, chronic obstructive pulmonary disease, osteoporosis, or multiple sclerosis. If you’re in a wheelchair or have limited mobility in your legs, stretching throughout the day can help reduce pain and pressure on your muscles that often accompanies sitting for long periods. Stretching while lying down or practicing yoga in a chair can also help increase flexibility and improve your range of motion. To ensure yoga is practiced correctly, it’s best to learn by attending group classes, hiring a private teacher, or at least following video instructions.

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With hectic schedules, people are eating out more frequently. It is fine to indulge once in a while when dining out, but if you are eating out more than once a week the calories can add up quickly. It is easy to eat a whole day’s worth of calories in just one meal out. The good news is that you have plenty of low-calorie and even healthy options, which allow you to indulge responsibly.

Pizza restaurant tips• Choose lower-calorie pizza toppings, such

as vegetables, pineapple, chicken, Canadian bacon, or ham

• Pick a red tomato-based pizza sauce, instead of one with a cream or ranch sauce

• Order your pizza “easy on the cheese”—this can cut your calories by up to 100 calories/slice

• Ask for thin crust—the less crust, the fewer calories• Switch out your large slices for medium ones,

which saves you 50-100 calories/slice• Add a salad with plenty of vegetables and a lite

or fat-free dressing as a low-calorie side

Pizza Hut® (slices from medium 12″ pizza)• Two slices All Natural Pepperoni and

Mushroom=420 calories• Two slices Ham and Pineapple Hand-Tossed

Style Crust=400 calories• Two slices Veggie Lovers® Thin Crust

Pizza=360 calories

Mexican restaurant tips• Go easy on the cheese, sour cream, and fried

tortilla chips• Add plenty of salsa, which is low in calories

and counts as a vegetable serving• Use only a small portion of guacamole,

which is made from avocado (contains a high concentration of healthy fat, but also plenty of calories)

Taco Bell®• Two Spicy Chicken Soft Tacos, Mexican

rice=450 calories• Fresco Steak Burrito Supreme®, Mexican

rice=440 calories• Fresco Bean Burrito, Fresco Crunchy

Taco=480 calories

Fast-food Burger-joint Restaurant • Choose a side salad or fruit as a side, when

available, which are lower in calories and rich in antioxidants, vitamins, and fiber

• Split a small order of fries as a side if eating

with a friend, which helps satisfy your craving without adding too many calories

• Hold the mayo—1 tablespoon (Tbsp) of mayonnaise adds 100 calories, and 11 grams of fat (many sandwiches will contain more than 2 Tbsp of mayonnaise)

• Opt for grilled chicken (instead of fried) on sandwiches, wraps, and salads

• Steer yourself toward a low-calorie, healthy side, such as:

• Baked potato• Fruit (apple slices)• Fruit and yogurt parfait• Side salad with low-fat dressing

• Order diet soda or water, because calories from soda can add up quickly—a 32 fluid ounce regular soda contains about 375 calories

• Do not supersize your burger; instead choose a single-patty burger or cheeseburger, instead of the large-double or triple-patty burgers

McDonald’s®• Hamburger, side salad, Newman’s Own®

Balsamic Vinaigrette, Apple Dippers (without caramel), Fruit ‘n Yogurt Parfait (without granola)=475 calories

• Premium Southwest Salad with Grilled Chicken, Newman’s Own® Creamy Southwest Dressing, Apple Dippers=455 calories

• Grilled Snack Wrap (Chipotle BBQ, Honey Mustard, Ranch), side salad, Newman’s Own® Balsamic Vinaigrette, Fruit and Yogurt Parfait=480-490 calories

Sub or Deli Sandwich Restaurant • Choose whole-grain or whole-wheat breads or

buns, when offered—whole grains are packed with nutrients and are a good source of fiber

• Choose lower-calorie meats, such as:• Turkey • Chicken• Lean ham • Lean roast beef

• Hold the oil and mayonnaise, but use vinegar, mustard, or other low-fat dressings to add flavor

• Add extra vegetables for toppings• Go light on the cheese; ask for just one slice

Panera Bread®• Half Turkey Artichoke on Focaccia (hot panini)

and Low-Fat Vegetarian Garden Vegetable

Soup=460 calories• Half Asiago Roast Beef on Asiago Cheese Demi (Signature sandwich) and Half Classic Café Salad

with fat-free raspberry dressing=465 calories

Subway®• Foot-long Veggie Delight®=450 calories• 6″ Subway Club®, Baked Lays®, apple

slices=485 calories

Casual Dining Restaurants• Know your portions; weighing and

measuring your food once in a while at home helps you get a good idea of appropriate portions, which will help you control portions when eating out

• Take half “to go”; ask the server to wrap up half your entrée before it reaches your table

• Avoid any dishes that mention the words fried, batter dipped, creamy, cream sauce, scalloped, au gratin, butter sauce, cheesy, or Alfredo—these words generally indicate the meal is higher in fat and calories

• Order a side salad and/or vegetables as a side, when available

• Request high-fat sauces and salad dressing on the side, and use as little as possible

• Split one dessert between the table—just take a bite or two and pass it on

Ruby Tuesdays• Petite sirloin, white-cheddar mashed potatoes,

premium baby green beans=421 calories• Smart Eating Creole Catch, fresh steamed

broccoli, sautéed baby portabello mushrooms=484 calories

Olive Garden®• Grilled Chicken Spiedini=460 calories• Linguine alla Marinara=310 calories lunch, 430

calories dinner

Denny’s®• Fit-Fare™ Chicken Sandwich with fruit=490

calories• Fit-Fare™ Boca Burger=410 calories

Note: Restaurants frequently update their nutrition information. Check individual restaurant Web sites for the most up-to-date information, because frequent changes do occur in restaurant menus.

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story of hope

By Dori Powledge Phillips

Jesus used storytelling all through the Gospels to help us understand Biblical principles. That’s why the Bible says “They overcame him [Satan] by the blood of the lamb and the word of their testimony” (Rev. 12:11) – because we all have a story to tell. My story and the foundation of my ministry began in October of 2005: the day I thought my life had ended. I received news at my job in downtown Houston that would alter life forever as I knew it on this Earth. I was told that my husband Adam (39), and our four youngest children, Jacob (12), Blake (10), Rachel (7) and Isaac (6), had all been killed instantly in a car accident. It was such shocking news that it felt like I stepped into a completely surreal place and was watching this happen to someone else. My first thoughts were, “Surely this could not be happening to my family.” And “Lord, where are you?” It was in those beginning moments that I experienced a grace of God that I’m not even sure I knew existed. He was immediately present and I could feel him closer than ever before. It was during this time that I understood the scripture, “My grace is sufficient for you.” (2 Cor. 12:9) No matter how great or small, the grace of God is perfectly able to cover any and every situation we face – it will always meet the need. I don’t even know if I fully grasped what the “grace of God” actually meant until I walked through this utter devastation with Him. My definition: the finished work of the Cross – the answer to every problem and the solution to every circumstance.

Beginning on the ride from downtown Houston to my church in LaMarque, Texas (about an hour) where we met with the police, God began to counsel and direct me with His truths about our incredible loss. I embraced these truths and within the first twenty-three days, was set free from the bondage of this devastation. It is important to understand that being set free is very

different from a healed heart and a recovered and restored life. It meant I was

free to continue living on this Earth without them with the understanding that God would heal my heart, and that He still had plans for me and my other four children (yes, we had

eight children – his, mine and ours) to live the abundant life that is promised to us all. At first this was difficult to see because the pain was so much larger than life. But all God expected me to do was agree with his Word that says, “I came that you would have life and life abundant.” John 10:10. I didn’t have to jump through hoops or pray “extra hard” in order for God’s promises to work. I simply said, “Yes Lord.” When we will agree with His promises over our losses, then we are empowered by His Spirit to walk forward in that truth. (Hebrews 4:12) During the first eight months I spent many hours in the presence of God (the secret place Psalm 91:1). I listened to a worship CD while I sat on the couch in my living room and cried a countless number of tears. Our tears will do one of two things, either bind us up or set us free. If we will cry those tears in the arms of Jesus, the result is a healed heart. Isaiah 61:3 says that He will give us “…beauty for our ashes, the oil of joy instead of mourning, and a garment of praise instead of the spirit of despair or heaviness…” With each passing day I literally felt this scripture working and bringing healing to my heart. During these times of worship, the only thing I could manage to say was “All I need is you Lord.” God is not looking for lofty words from us, just a willing heart. Some circumstances will require more process than others, but one thing I can assure you is that God will bring us along as quickly as we will let him. A surrendered heart is key!

Regardless of what your loss or hurt is today, Jesus desires to set you free, heal your heart, and restore your life. All we have to do is choose him. It really is that simple. In Matthew 11:28-30 Jesus is speaking and says, “Come to me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Let me teach you my ways for I am gentle and humble in heart and I will give you rest for your souls (mind, will and emotions). For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” Jesus longs to give us rest in a world that is continually working overtime to wreak havoc on our minds, will and emotions. Will you choose him and find rest today? One promise I can make with absolute certainty is that if you do, it will be the one thing you will never regret. Let God re-write your story. Today, the lives of my children and I have been recovered and restored as we walk forward to accomplish the plans that God has for us. As an update, I met and married my wonderful husband Toby three and a half years ago. Our four oldest children, P.J. (26), Samantha (24), Amber (23) and Austin (22) continue to live life with peace, hope, joy, accomplishments and of course, challenges. With God, all things are possible!

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I mean so Unhappy that you did not want to roll out of the bed. So unhappy that as you got dressed for work you had to drag yourself out of your home. Well I was there and had to figure out how to change my environment and energy around me. So I did something we all talk about but don’t really do. I went to my Heavenly Father and began to pray. I prayed without ceasing and I asked the Lord to show me what I needed to do. I told God that I was completely turning my life over to him, now don’t get me wrong I believe in God and I have been saved for years, but I never ever completely showed God how much faith I had. I never tested my faith because I needed to be safe. Well, let me just say this, I turned my life completely over to God and I have not questioned anything that has happened in my life. He is guiding me through this new

phase and I promise you, not for a second, a moment, or an instance have I been hunger, needed gas money, or haven’t been able to provide for my kids.

The moral to this article is that you can’t just say you have faith you have to test your faith and take a leap. I promise when you take that leap God will open His arms and catch you.

Until Next Time, walk into your journey on Faith and not on what you perceive as your Will.

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On any given day, in any one of the seven continents you can be faced with a challenge. It may or may not be

a life threatening challenge, but a challenge, none the same. What do you do when life hits you far out of left field? You were minding your business, life seemed to be going well and then out of left field, the phone rings and your life is forever changed. It could be 2:00 a.m. or 2:00 p.m. If it is 2:00 a.m. you are awaken out of your sleep with the ringing of the phone at that time of the morning and you get the frightened feeling that something is terribly wrong with your youngest child off in college, your parents in the assisted home facility, or worst yet your spouse in Korea. It takes thirty seconds for you to realize that it is your phone ringing and you have to answer it but in those thirty seconds your thoughts are all over the place. You answer the phone and this strange voice says to you “are you the wife of Lieutenant William Cooley? Even though it does not sound like a voice of “your spouse cannot be located or worst yet feared dead”, you are reluctant to say “yes” because you fear that you cannot handle the words that this stranger on the other end of the phone may say to you. It seems like eternity before you respond and say “yes, I am Misty Cooley, the wife of Lt. Cooley”. I need to speak with you, she says and now you are totally upset because it is 2:00 a.m. in the morning and unless your spouse is dead or dying, you don’t understand why this woman would call at this unearthly time in the morning. Your husband has been faithful for the fifteen years that you have been married, so you know that this is not a woman that your husband is having an affair with. You are trying to think if he has even looked at another woman for the three years that you dated, before he even proposed. But what if it is? You suddenly are jerked back into reality and you ask the woman, is my husband sick or dying? Her response is “no” – and then you are really ready to get nasty in your next response to this woman. “No, he is not dead, but his love for you is.” You begin to laugh at her; because William has spoken to you about six hours ago telling you how much he loves you. She laughs back and hangs up the phone. Now you can’t sleep because you are wondering how this woman got your phone number. You begin to mentally search for clues as to anything that would make you believe that William’s love for you is dead. Morning comes slowly, too slowly for you and you call this strange woman back only to be greeted by a barrage of evidence that William is indeed connected to this woman. You want to know everything, you want to meet this woman, and you want to see if she is beautiful – more beautiful than he told you that you were – about twelve hours ago.

That is just one of the challenges some women face on a daily basis – a spouse who seemed to be very faithful and then suddenly you get a call in the night saying and proving that your spouse was not as faithful as you assumed. You speak to your husband the following day and he denies that he even knows this woman. He declares that it has to be a hoax – that one on his buddy wanted to get back at him for loosing at poker. You want to believe him, but somewhere in the back of your mind you remember that his father was unfaithful to his mother and that begins another barrage of mental questions that you go through? Why did you not see it coming? Why did you not believe that he was just like his father? No, no, he can’t be doing this to you, but the evidence is there and this woman – Sheryl continues to call, telling you that William’s love for you is dead. You demand that William gets leave and come home to sort this out. You cannot deal with this challenge again. You watched your mother deal with an unfaithful spouse. You listened as William recited to you why it took him so long to propose to you – he wanted to be sure that unfaithful or divorce would never be an option for his marriage. He said he would never be unfaithful. You said that you would never be unfaithful either. You also said that it would never happen to you – but it seems like it did – from all the evidence gathered. You run to find a safe haven and the only safe haven can be found in your faith in God. You ask God for an answer – but even God seems silent to you and your feelings. William cannot get leave for something as trivial as a wife “suspecting or believing her spouse is cheating.” There is a war to be won and a wife’s feelings or suspicion does not measure up to the lives that are on the line in this war. So you will have to either trust that William is telling the truth or trust that God will give you the faith to wait until he can come home to sort out this challenge. Are you up for the challenge? Are you up for any challenges that may face you today? A child with drug problems, a persistent old flame, Alzheimer of a parent, a terminal illness, or worst yet the death of the only child that God has blessed you with. You are because you are built of God. I encourage you today to trust in the Only Solid Rock – Jesus. I encourage you today to stand and having done all to stand continue to stand. I encourage you today to listen for no other voice but that of the Savior. Prayer: Father, in the name of Jesus, prepare me to be up for any challenge you bring me to, because at the end of the challenge, You and You Only will get all the glory, amen.

Donna Williams-RossIn Trust Ministries • [email protected]

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Erica Campbell I told you it was on the way, and it’s here!!! Erica Campbell of the sister duo Mary Mary has released her solo debut single. The single is titled “A Little More Jesus” it was released on June 25th. The upbeat jam is the perfect summer song, filling you with high energy, makin u wanna clap ya hands n stomp dem feet! Giving you that boost you need! The song was produced by her husband Warryn Campbell. The single has already become one of the most added songs on gospel radio. While currently on set producing Season 3 of the reality show “Mary Mary” on WE TV, she is also on the road performing at several high profile events promoting her new solo endeavor. Much success Erica! Go to your digital media outlets and check out her single! Earnest Pugh Last month at the BMI Christian Awards, Earnest Pugh’s “I Need Your Glory” earned “Most Played Gospel Song of the Year”. The ceremony honored the top songs ranging from black gospel, to southern gospel, and Christian rock. “I Need Your Glory” was initially released in 2011 and remained #1 for 13 weeks. The song was written by Pugh and produced by Grammy Award winner Cedric Thompson. Other artists honored were Troy Sneed for “My Heart Says Yes”, Yolanda Adams’ “Be Still”, Donald Lawrence’s “Spiritual”, and Fred Hammond’s “I Feel Good”. Congrats to all the honorees!!! AIM COGIC Convention Bishop Charles Blake and all of his auxiliaries and affiliates will be bringing their AIM International Summer Convention to Baltimore July 1-5, 2013 at the Baltimore Convention Center, the MY (Music & Youth) services will be held at the Hilton Hotel Downtown Baltimore. Dr. Judith C. McAllister, International Minister of Music and President of the International Music Department COGIC announced the schedule for the 2013 AIM Convention Musicals here in Baltimore MD. There will be three incredible nights of musical celebration, when COGIC do it, they do it BIG!! The first night will be a “Night of Worship”, followed by “The Youth Explosion”, and the finale the IMD “Praise Party”. Admission is FREE to the general public for the musicals on Wednesday & Thursday, but Friday’s musical is $10 in advance and $15 at the door. Each musical will take place at the Baltimore Convention Center, immediately following the evening worship celebration, which to most would be considered “late night” however the artists they have coming will be well worth the loss of sleep ;) Donald Lawrence On June 18 in his hometown Chicago, Donald Lawrence started his celebration of 20 years in music with Part I of his live recording. The project is titled Donald Lawrence 20 Year Celebration Volumes l & ll. The featured artists sharing the stage that night were Karen Clark-Sheard, her daughter Kierra Sheard, Coko Clemmons (of SWV), Ted & Sheri, Bishop Hezekiah Walker, Kelly Price, Faith Evans, Lalah Hathaway, Soul Singer Ruby Currence, and CCM Singer Natalie Grant; he will also be accompanied by his awesome aggregation of levites “The Co.”. Superstar dancer and choreographer Laurieann Gibson danced to Lawrence’s song “Beautiful Feet”. The recording was held at Dr. Bill Winston’s, Living Word Christian Center. The project will be new music as well as some of our all-time favorites. This endeavor is the first for the collaborative team of Donald Lawrence’s Quiet Water Entertainment and eOne’s Music partnership. Part II will be recorded in Charlotte, NC with the infamous Tri-City Singers and other special guests. Further details and specifics will be given at a later date, stay tuned I will keep you informed! Donald had this to say about his upcoming session, “I am excited they can join me here on stage and we have an incredible celebration in Chicago. The past 20 years have been filled with so many blessings that would not have been possible without God, and your amazing support, and I look forward to celebrating in this live recording with you and sharing more experiences in the years to come.” Donald Lawrence’s gifts, talents, and musical capabilities, accompanied with his anointing has

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allowed him to cross genres and reach the masses globally. He is one of the industries most sought after producer and songwriter. His works date back to 1993 with the release of “A Songwriters Point of View” with the Tri-City Singers. He has numerous musical arrangements and production credits, and is no stranger to television. For more information www.donaldlawrence.com Bishop Hezekiah Walker The Bishop is back at it! It’s been about five years since his last project “Souled Out” was released and a number #1 hit it was! Churches of today are still singing that hit, but many of his hits are relevant and still ringing out in churches all over the world. Mainstream listeners as well as the gospel and Christian communities love Hezekiah Walker! His new release “Azusa The Next Generation” gives you a good mix of not just that good ole’ choir music he’s known for, but a good mix of contemporary gospel and praise and worship music as well. The new single “Every Praise” is very much praise and worship, not his normal coming out the gate, hand clappin, foot stompin’, NY swing you’d expect but it’s definitely one I believe you’ll be hearing from praise teams everywhere! Bishop Walker called a few of the industry’s major players to be featured on this project, which he doesn’t have to do because his church and music camp is full of so much talent. He called on a Love Fellowship Crusade Choir original, Timiney Figueroa-Caton that now sings with The Kurt Carr Singers, for lead vocals on “More Than a Conqueror”. Pastor Donnie McClurkin who is also a label mate of Bishop Hez led a song titled “Breakthrough”, as only he can. Deitrick Haddon lets his voice ring out on “Break Every Chain” singing Tasha Cobb’s lyrics and vocals his own way. Brian Courtney Wilson who has ventured into the new male group phenomenon “Tenors United” is featured on this album singing the song “Grace”. A longtime co-laborer and legend in his own right, John P. Kee is featured on “Work in Your Favor” a celebratory tune much like “I’ll Make It” which both Walker & Kee sang on “back in the day” giving this song that original LFT Crusade Choir feel. C. Ashley Brown is on the album singing “Amazing”, Su Su Bobien sings the song “I Feel Your Spirit” which also has a feature from the late great Bishop Kenneth Moales, Sr. The album was produced by Donald Lawrence and co-produced by Bishop Walker who also wrote 70% of the album. Bishop Hezekiah Walker’s album debuted at #1 the first week of its release and is definitely a great album. Check it out! Thomas “TC” Clay This guy right here!! Has been making much noise these days! Doing all he can to make sure his music is known all around the world one city at a time! Last month Thomas “TC” Clay did his live recording in hometown Wilmington, Delaware. I was blessed to have been able to be a part of the worship experience that night and an experience it was!! He left no stone unturned in presentation and God was definitely in the room! Lots of energy! Positive energy! Pure worship! His single “Blind Man” is consistently being added to rotations daily. I absolutely love the song! I asked TC to talk about the song, and he said, “It’s really a song of faith, trusting God, letting Him be your engine instead of going on your own. The more you trust God the greater your reward will be.” Download it, I promise you it will bless your life! When asking “TC” what has been his testimonial/favorite song, he said, “The song called “Jesus” ministers to me in such a way that it ushers in the presence of God, you have to sing it from a sincere place. That’s what ministry should be about, not just writing songs but creating an atmosphere so great that everyone has access to the most high from your ministry. That’s one of my struggles with being an “Artist”, I’m so focused on being a vessel for God; that’s what our focus should be a vessel not an artist.” All the music was written and produced by Thomas TC Clay, it was co-produced by his band Jay Bratten (bass), Sean Walters (Main Keys), James Harris (Aux keys), and Elliot Johnson (drums). Thomas Clay is recording this project on his own label ARW Records, he gives accolades to his mentor Baltimore’s Own Pastor Jason Nelson, who told him “make enough noise on your own ‘til people start looking for you, don’t sit and wait for the industry to hand it to you”. Now that’s one to grow on! For more info visit www.thomasclaymusic.com

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“He whom the Son sets free is free INDEED!!” Enjoy your Independence Day!! Til next month stay informed with what’s going on in the industry by joining and liking my fan page on Facebook “Industry News with Miss Ericka J” or my official Facebook page www.facebook.com/ErickaJohnson Remember: “You can’t always wait for the storm to pass;sometimes you have to learn to dance in the rain.”

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T here is seemingly always the inevitable question of, “Why?” Over the years, I have sought to respond to this normal human reaction, especially in the face of confusing moments and/or negative circumstances by making persons aware that (1) it’s ok to ask “why?” and (2) it’s even ok to question God. In reference to the latter, I am aware that many of us who were raised in the Church were often taught not to question God; that God is sovereign, and we were/are to be accepting and submissive to God’s Will. Yes, this is true, but it is also true that inasmuch as the Bible is about God it is also a book that covers all aspects of human nature, including our need/desire to question. Check the records, and you will find that from Moses to Jonah and from Job to Jesus (yes, Jesus), all questioned God. I will shortly return to the substantive aspect of the aforementioned, but on a lighter side, I have a few “why” questions that have been on my mind, and in an effort to stay with one category, I will use television. They say that venting is good for the healing process, as related to grieving, etc., so please forgive me for “dumping” in this commentary, but I want to believe that I’ll feel better for having released these “whys.” In the Jimmy Dean breakfast sandwich commercial, why does the actor who’s dressed to look like the sun, approach the actor who’s dressed to look like a cloud and ask the cloud why does he look so low? In that scene, the sun is lower than the cloud. Uh. . . who really needs the breakfast sandwich as a pick-me-up? Shouldn’t the sun (if the sun is supposed to be spreading “sandwich sunshine” by lifting the spirit of the cloud, be above the cloud?) Is anyone paying attention to this stuff? For years, I’ve been a fan of the television show, The Golden Girls (don’t ask, why?), which can presently be seen on a number of stations, in rerun. The show is great! However, what’s up with the show’s opening song, probably entitled, “Thank You For Being A Friend”? The song is supposed to be a celebration of the joy and strength of friendship, which is wonderful. Why then is the payoff of the song a line that equates the measure of true friendship with the biggest gift . . . “And if you throw a party and invited everyone you know. You would see the biggest gift would be from me, and the card attached would say, ‘Thank you for being a friend.’” C’mon, don’t we know that friendship can’t be bought nor should it be a yardstick for the same. It’s not that gifts, expressions, gestures don’t have a place, they just shouldn’t be the singular proof of friendship. The TV game show Family Feud has been in existence since 1976, with Richard Dawson (who kissed all of the female family member-contestants), as the show’s first host. Thirty seven years later the show, which is now hosted by Steve Harvey, is still giving away the $20,000 prize, I assume, to be equally divided by no less

than 5 family members, why not just make it $25,000 so each family member can get $5,000 a piece. And, if any family is successful enough to win 5 games, they win 1 car! Tell me that’s not going to cause a feud? But here’s my real why? Why is it that there is no prize for just winning the game? A family plays, gets 300 points or more, wins the game, jumps around and high 5’s each other, but no prize. What’ up with that? The only prize (money) that’s won comes in the so-called “fast money” round. After almost 40 years and a half-dozen hosts, the producers ought to be able to find a few dollars or a family trip, of some kind, for . . . winning. Then there are those somewhat irritating Dos Eguis commercials, featuring the “most interesting man in the world.” No one really has to be told that the bottom-line premise is to sell this brand of Mexican beer, that it exudes a certain image, and that it is satisfying. The suave actor says, in the commercial, “I don’t always drink beer, but when I do, I prefer Dos Equis.” Why then does the unseen narrator close each of the various commercials with the tag line, “Stay thirsty, my friend.” Is that confusing or what? I’m sure you get my point. There are always, in every genre, things that don’t make sense and cause us to scratch our head. For the life of me, on a more local television level, I can’t figure out why such a state-of-the-art station passes around that low-tech cube in its commercials. Really? There were no more medium or higher-tech means of production, let alone creative ideas, than that “box” to pass from scene to scene? To be sure, why’s are everywhere, not just in the medium of television. I mean, I can’t figure out why everytime–everytime- I grab a hold of the drawstring of blinds or curtains, I inevitably grab the wrong one. These should be color coded or labeled, as far as I’m concerned. It’s such a minor thing; but, goodness, when I want to open the blinds I pull the line that closes them, and when I want to close them I pull the one that opens them. I’ve even tried to second guess myself, but no-o-o. The drawstring gods get me everytime. And, so, some things are mysteries. When we examine the whys, for example, in the scriptures we will find, again, that they are not prohibited from being asked. There are many of them. “Why art thou cast down, O my soul?” “Why hast thou set me as a mark against thee?. . .” And, then, there is Jesus’ quoting the 22rd Psalm, as he was dying on the Cross: “My God, my God, why hast thou forsaken me?,” to cite a few. Granted, all of us are prone to ask why. . .to ask God, “why?” when it comes to the death of a loved one. Let us know, however, that although we are permitted to ask why, there is a strange silence that follows, usually there are no immediate answers to our “Why” questions. Perhaps, then, we are being directed to ask other questions that are more relevant in terms of learning, understanding and bettering our growth and faith, and leave the answers to our eternal future, for “in that land of perfect day when the mists has rolled away, we will understand it better by and by.”

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