marriage gad by dr. leah s. corpuz
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by Dr. Leah S. CorpuzTRANSCRIPT
Kasal
Pagsasama ng isang lalaki at isang babae
habang-buhay bilang mag-asawa sa pamamagitan
ng legal na proseso na ayon
sa batas.
Kasal
Bakit kailang
an makasa
l?
Para hindi mawala ang
apelyido?
Dahil naipagka
sundo kayo
mula pa noong
sanggol kayo?
Dahil kailangan
masunod ang batas?
Dahil kailangan may magisnang ama ang sanggol?
Para maniwala ang mga
kaibigan mo na hindi ka
bakla?
Para selyohan ang
pagmamahalan at maging legal ang pagsasama.
Paano ko malalaman na
siya na nga?
Sp
irit
ual
Emoti
onalM
ental
Soc
ialPhysical
Spiritual E
motio
nal
Ment
al
Social
Phys
ica
l
At kapag kami na, paano
mapapanatili ang aming
pagmamahalan?
Enduring
Love
1 Corinthians 13:4-84 Love is patient, love is kind. It does
not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.
5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.
6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.
7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
8 Love never fails.
1 Corinthians 13: 4-8
DISCERNING GENUINE LOVE
1. Love suffers long slow to lose patience; has fully accepted the character of the one being dated
2. It is kindlooks for ways of helping the other become better.
3. It envies not not possessive, not controlling, not manipulative.
4. It vaunts not itself.looks for ways of helping the other become better.
5. It is not puffed upnot self-centered, can accept change, flexible
6. It does not behave unseemlyhas good manners, respect for others, discretion
7. It does not seek its owndoes not focus on sexual appetites or social status, but concern for needs of the one dating and families concerned
8. It is not easily provokednot hypersensitive or easily hurt; not paranoid
9. It thinks no evildoes not review wrongs which have been forgiven
10. It does not rejoice in iniquitydoes not compare self with others for self-justification
DISCERNING GENUINE LOVE
11. It rejoices in the truthglad with all godly men when truth prevails; in active fellowship with dedicated Christians
12. It bears all thingsable to love with the inconsistencies of others; has empathy for the problems of others
13. It believes all thingsbelieves in the other person (and his worth) without question/condition; has no reason to doubt the person’s integrity
14. It hopes all thingsnot fickle, but has perfect peace that God has given the right partner
15. It endures all thingsable to endure all obstacles even in the face of unreturned love
DISCERNING GENUINE LOVE
TRUST
in YOURSELF
in YOURSELF
“A person who can not trust him/herself will have difficulty trusting others.”
in YOURSELF
How much do I accept myself?
What kind of person am I bringing into
the relationship?
Tips for Self-Acceptance
Count your strengths.Celebrate your positive traits.Cast down bitterness. (Forgive yourself when
you commit a mistake).
Concentrate on God your maker.A joyful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones.
Proverbs 17:22
in YOURSELF
in YOUR SPOUSE
WHERE IS YOUR RELATIONSHIP
STRONG
WHERE IS YOUR RELATIONSHIP
WEAK
in YOURSELF
in YOUR SPOUSE
in GOD
Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding.
In all your ways acknowledge Him and He
will direct your paths.
Proverbs 3: 5-6
TRUST
GOD
SELFSPOUSE
TRUST
ACT
Painful words usually arise during difficult
situations—when there are conflicts.
2.
AvoidCompetingComparingControlling
RESOLVING CONFLICT WITH TACT
TRUST
ACT
EMPERANCE
TEMPERANCE =
MODERATION
MASTERY of SELF
MODESTY
MODERATION
NOT TAKING ANYTHING IN
EXCESS. AVOIDING
ABUSE.Colossians 3:19
Husbands, love your wives, and do not be
harsh with them.
MASTERY OF SELF
(or self control)REACTIONS/ATTITUDES to situations or persons
TEMPTATIONS
1 Peter 1:13Therefore, preparing
your minds for action, and being sober-
minded.
Modesty
HUMILITY is...
KNOWING THAT EACH
ONE IS EQUALLY
IMPORTANT. Romans 2:11For God shows no partiality.
Modesty
HUMILITY is...
ACCEPTING OWN
MISTAKE and BEING READY
to ASK for FORGIVENESS
Modesty
HUMILITY is...
WILLINGNESS to FORGIVE and GIVING a SECOND CHANCE.
Ephesians 4:32Be kind to one another,
tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.
Faith, hope, and love;
These 3 remain
But the Greatest is
LOVE