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Welcome to the new HBR.org. Here’s what’s new. Here’s an FAQ. CONFLICT How to Handle 3 Types of Difficult Conversations by Karen Dillon DECEMBER 29, 2014 Many of us nd ourselves in professional situations where we believe someone has wronged us, treated us badly, or just plain made us mad. The expert advice often is to have the courage to have an honest conversation, air the grievance. No one can help you solve a problem if she doesn’t know you have it. But that’s easier said than done, right? It helps to have guiding principles to call on when you need to work through something dicult with a colleague. But the context of your discussion also matters. Do you need to take a stand on something? Deliver bad news? Do you have time to prepare, or are you caught oguard? Here are some specic tips for navigating the most common scenarios, including the wrong way to approach the issue and a better way. If you’re mad about a decision that affects you . . . We’ve all had white-hot reactions to news that aects our jobs. But nothing good comes from How to Handle 3 Types of Difficult Conversations - HBR https://hbr.org/2014/12/how-to-handle-3-types-of-difficult-co... 1 sur 1 30/12/14 19:58

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Welcome to the new HBR.org. Here’s what’s new. Here’s an FAQ.

CONFLICT

How to Handle 3 Types ofDifficult Conversationsby Karen Dillon

DECEMBER 29, 2014

Many of us find ourselves in professional

situations where we believe someone has

wronged us, treated us badly, or just plain made

us mad. The expert advice often is to have the

courage to have an honest conversation, air the

grievance. No one can help you solve a problem

if she doesn’t know you have it. But that’s easier

said than done, right?

It helps to have guiding principles to call on

when you need to work through something

difficult with a colleague. But the context of

your discussion also matters. Do you need to

take a stand on something? Deliver bad news?

Do you have time to prepare, or are you caught

off guard? Here are some specific tips for

navigating the most common scenarios,

including the wrong way to approach the issue

and a better way.

If you’re mad about a decision that affects you . . .

We’ve all had white-hot reactions to news that affects our jobs. But nothing good comes from

How to Handle 3 Types of Difficult Conversations - HBR https://hbr.org/2014/12/how-to-handle-3-types-of-difficult-co...

1 sur 1 30/12/14 19:58