An enlightening Study

MarriagesClassical Classification

• Arsha

• Brahma

• Daiva

• Prajapatya

• Gandharva

• Asura

• Rakshasa

• Paishacha

MarriagesNeo Classical Classification

Arranged Marriages Love Marriages

EBM(Emotion Based

Marriage)

DBM(Dowry Based

Marriage)

SBM(Service Based

Marriage)

CBM(Cadre

Based Marriage)

Ordinary Marriages Extra Ordinary Marriages

Marriages Modern Classification

Definitions & MottoEBM

Inter-sentimental relationshipDBM

Inter-status RelationshipLove is blind, marriage is

the eye-openerIf your father is poor,

that’s your destiny; but if your father-in-law is poor,

that’s your stupidity

SBMInter-disciplinary relationship

CBMInter-state relationship

Work hard to make the marriage a success; relax in the office

Love thy neighbor, especially if he or she differs in cadre & sex

Propositions & Dispositions

• EBM– He proposes, she disposes

• DBM– his father-in-law proposes, her father-in-law

disposes• CBM

– LBSNAA proposes, DoPT disposes

HistoryFirst Emotion Based Marriage

• Love evolved during trek

• 80% of the girls tried to catch him

• But he opted only for 8 of them

• Ended up with 1,80,000 wives, and an equal number of mothers-in-law

Radha Krishna

• He ran a divine PDS for the world without government subsidy

• The huge overhead cost of this project made him bankrupt

• He then married a rich girl, whose father was a merchant navy man

HistoryFirst Dowry Based Marriage

Laxmi Narayan

• He married when he was still unemployed and trying to get a job

• At first attempt he failed to get administrtion and He then joined the Forest Service

• Took his wife to his place of posting

• As soon as he got an administrative position, he abandoned her

HistoryFirst Service Based Marriage

Sita Ram

HistoryFirst Cadre Based Marriage

• He married Parvati and got into Himalayan cadre, (Uttarakhand or Himachal Pradesh)

• Her father was an ex ruler of this region

• His first wife committed suicide at her father’s home under suspicious circumstances

Shiva Parvati

CBM

Intake of civil servants

years

Num

ber

of c

andi

date

s

19701980

19902000

2010

Note:-Though the gender ratio among AIS is increasing rapidly, CBMs are going down. On such rate we apprehend that

the CBM will be extinct by 2020

Need of ResearchDecreasing proportion of CBMs

Life of a Probationer at LBSNAA

Many probationers disappear in the above triangle.

Unless a probationer escapes out of this, he cant have CBM

The Highway of CBM

CPM of CBM

CourseStarts

Course Ends

PT

Trek Horse Riding

AthleteMeet

ClassRoom

SyndicateGroup

SeminarGroup

CulturalEvents

India Day Fete

CBM

MalRoad

GangaDhaba

FourSeasons

CounselorGroup

Note:- As per Critical Path Method path 1 and 4 are totally misleading, only path 3 is sure &

shortest

Path:-1

Path:-4

Path:-2

Path:-3

Wait. . .

Transactional Analysis

As per analysis most of conversations prior to CBM are either Cross or ulterior, none is parallel…

Preference Pyramid of

EBM & DBM

Look

Qualities

Emotions

Look

Qualities

Money

Preference Pyramid of

CBM

Cadre

Cadre

Cadre

Pie chart of factors involved in CBM

Service&

Cadre Worries

IndiaTour

SyndicateGroup

India day

CulturalEvents

VillageVisit

TrekFete

Role of different players

• Stakeholders– OT himself/herself

• Facilitators– Faculty

• Negotiators– Colleagues

• Counselors– Senior CBM experts

• Observers– Family members

Cross sectional analysis

• Tried, failed and disappointed

• Tried, got and disappointed

• Tried even before FC

• Tried too late

• Tried in a focused direction

• Tried in Multi directions

SWOT Analysis of CBMStrength Weakness

Value addition in service Value reduction in dowry

Opportunity Threat

Net cash flow is positive You may not get a good cadre (or get only a good cadre)

Value Generated

ValuePaidAgain

ValuePaid

Value Generated

NPV vs Cash( benefit) flow analysis of Normal marriage

Time

Value

Value Paid continuously

NPV and benefit flow analysis of CBM

Time

Value Value Generated

Cadre Change(Break Even Point)

Opinions

Its like a dew drop…- A Successful OT

Opinions

Its like comic imagination… - His Friends

Opinions

Its like an illusion…- An Unsuccessful OT

Opinions

It is more arm twisting than hand holding

- FACULTY

Opinion

Its like the Civil Services Exam; you try again and again…

- An Interested unsuccessful Ex-OT

Opinions

Its like bubble… -One who married successfully, but failed to get a good cadre

Opinions

Marriage is a 3-RING circus

Engagement Ring,

Wedding Ring

&

Suffering

Its like vicious cycle… - LBSNAA Staff who see these CBMs every year

Risk Enumerations• Opportunity Cost is too high

• Private Sector is emerging as a better alternative

• Optional System introduced in AIS • Chances of undesired cadre are lesser

• Redundancy factor• By the time you adjust to family life,

you are disappointed with that cadre• Contingency factor

• Murphy's Law- if a thing can go wrong, it will certainly go wrong.

Risk Analysis• Sensitivity Analysis

– Works only with single partner; no variables allowed• Be it Cadre or partner

– Does not co-relate variables• In one way table analysis, it can run well, but cant

start• In two way table analysis, it can start well, but cant

run

• Scenario Analysis• Base Case Scenario- good• Best Case Scenario- better• Worst Case Scenario- best

• Simulation Analysis– NPV becomes more than zero after 1000000 simulations– Monte Carlo method is not as attractive as its branded

garments

Best

Normal

Worst

Overall Analysis

• Standard Deviation is average• variance is normal• Range width is less than other

alternatives• Best on Mean, Median, Mode

methods• Probability of negative NPV is zero

Common end of Love Marriages

what happens in Love marriages, which are mostly based on face Value ?

Comparative Analysis

Comparative Analysisand what happens in Conventional marriages, which are mostly based on Pocket Value ?

Common beginning of Traditional Marriages

Conclusions

• All charges against CBM are unsubstantiated

• Criticisms are based on insufficient data• Most of alleged evils are evils of marriage

itself, not that of CBM alone• Even this researcher is also not exempted

from it, as he is still feel deprived

Marriages are made in heaven, but performed on earth Just like thunder and lightning

Recommendations

There should be proper time and space analysis system

Recommendations

Academy should provide an extra portal for CBMAnd give a link from its official website

Recommendations

There should be GPS to zero in andPNR system to know waiting Statuswith Digital Hit counters to know visits

Recommendations

Academy should request the DM, DehraDun to open a Marriage Registration Section at LBSNAA for CBM

Recommendations

A separate post of Deputy Director ( Rituals) should be created for CBMs

Recommendations

Academy should publish a ‘who’s who’ at the beginning of the training course, and a ‘who’s after who’ after some time

who’s whowho’s after who

Recommendations

Gym should be clubbed with Dance Floor

Recommendations

OT lounge should have special CBM lockers

Recommendations

Prospective OT bridegrooms should be trained in horse riding To prepare for CBM Baaraat

Recommendations

• For sign languages — • Amitabh Bachchan (Black)

• For communication and understanding gap —

• Aamir Khan (Taare Zameen Par)

• For ambience discomforts — • Shahrukh Khan (Mohabbatein)

Faculty should be Outsourced . . .

Recommendations

Every day there should be extra sessions for the Maritally Challenged OTs

Recommendations

There should be proper Cardiac Care Unit and Trauma Center for the unsuccessful OTs

In Conclusion…

Before Marriage After Marriage

Man:- Collector sir, aap bahar jitne sher dikhte hain, kya ghar me bhi vaise bane rahte hain?

Collector:- Rahta to ghar me bhi sher hi hu, bas us par Durga sawar ho jati hain !

A K. K. Pathak Committee

PresentationSpecial Thanks

ToR.S.Gopalan

A presentation of Temporary Affairs Society