Leaving Positive Impression

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LeavingPositive Impression (DoesBodylanguagematter?) YesBodylanguagematter Researchhasactuallyproventhat Research has actually proven that confidentpeople,thosewhosmile oftenandthosewhomaintain aboveaverageeyecontactare usuallyperceivedtobemore attractivethantheirpeers. Ifyousucceededinleavinga If you succeeded in leaving a positiveimpressionyourchanceof g gettingajobwillbecomehigher, g j g yoursocialrelationswillimprove andpeoplewilladmireyou. Expressionareimportant BeConfident BeGoodlistener Thesearetheeffectiveand practicaladvicesthatarebacked y by Deeppsychologicalprinciples Ifyoufollowedtheseadvices y thefirstimpressionyouwill p leavewillbepositive99%ofthe time. Whynot100%? becausesometimesthe impressionpeopleformofyou p p dependsontheirownpast experience. Forexampleifyousaw someonewholooksjustlike h l k j t lik yourarrogantbossyouwilltend tothinkofhimasarroganteven t thi k f hi t ifhewasnot. GeneralPsychology GeneralPsychology General Psychology Apersontakesabout5to10 A person takes about 5 to 10 secondstoformanimpression ofsomeoneelseAndthenhe of someone else And then he usestheother510minutesto confirmhisjudgment. confirm his judgment. GeneralPsychology General Psychology Soifyoumadeagooduseof y g thefirstfivesecondsthenyour g p chanceofleavingapositive impressionwillbecomemuch g higher. GeneralPsychology General Psychology Iknowyoumaybethinkingthat5 or10secondsisaveryshortperiod 10 d i h i d oftimeandthatnothingmuchcan bedoneinthembutifyoureadthe be done in them but if you read the followingsectionyouwilldiscover thatlotsofthingstakeplacein that lots of things take place in thesefivesecondsbutyounever usedtofocusonthem. Thingstoremember EyeContact EyeContact Thefirstthingyoucandoisproper eyecontact.ProperEyecontactshows respect,interestandthatyouarenot shy.Propereyecontactmeansthat theeyecontactshouldbearound70% y to80%ofthetime. Handshake Handshake Anotherthingthathappensinthefirstfew secondsisthehandshake,afirmhandshake seconds is the handshake a firm handshake combinedwithpropereyecontactleavesthe impressionthatyouareaconfidentperson. peoplewhodon'tshakehandsinafirmway willmostlikelyleavetheimpressionthatthey ill lik l l h i i h h arenotconfident. Smile Smile Ifyoudidtheprevioustwopointsyouwill appeartobeconfidentbutinthesametime pp youmayappeartobealittlecoldandthats whyyouneedtoaddasmileonyourface.This smilewillnotonlymaketheotherpersonthink thatyouhavegotasenseofhumorbuthewill that you have got a sense of humor but he will alsofeelmorecomfortableindealingwithyou. SitStraight SitStraight Sitwithyourbackstraightandyourshoulders stretched.Astraightbackleavestheimpression thatyouareconfidenthappyorinterestedinwhat that you are confident happy or interested in what youarelisteningtoNeverevercrossyourlegsor foldyourarmswhensittingbecausethisleavesthe impressionthatyouarenotthatcomfortableor impression that you are not that comfortable or evenafraid.Don'tplaceanobjectlikeabagorafile betweenyouandtheinterviewerbecausethis p gy leavesthesameimpressionthatfoldingyourarms leaves DonotScratchnose DonotScratchnose Ifyoufeltlikescratchingyournosedonotdoit becausethisshowsthatyouarenegativeevaluating something,afterallyouremotionsareprivateand youshouldn'tletanyoneknowwhatareyou thinkingaboutunlessyouwantthat Wearbluecolorclothes Wearbluecolorclothes Ifyoucanwearblueclothesthendoit,inthe psychologyofcolorsbluegivestheimpressionof loyaltyandhonesty,wearingbluewillleavean unconsciousimpressioninthemindofotherpeople thatyouareloyalandhonest. th t l l dh t TotalImpressions99% p References 1.WikiencyclopediaforBodylanguage 1. Wiki encyclopedia for Body language 2.Picturesfrom www.flickr.com Thankyou, www.amirsaiftaz.blogspot.com amirsaiftaz@gmail.com amirsaiftaz@gmail com